September 23, 2020

A Story Of Serial Infidelity (With A Deep Dive On Overcoming Self-Blame)

22 minutes

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Have you experienced betrayal by an intimate partner? Kelly Savage thought she married her dream man when she married Don (pseudonym). Don is a smart, well-educated, handsome fellow Canadian who has a glamorous job working with the Canadia embassy in Saudi Arabia, where he regularly interacts with the royal family.

Kelly and Don shared a love for travel and enjoyed a great sex life. Seven years into their marriage, they had triplets. To Kelly and the outside world, they had the perfect marriage, so much so that, according to Kelly, other couples often sought their mentorship on marriage related issues.

However, what Kelly did not know is that Don lived multiple lives. He dated several women on the side, taking them on trips, buying them jewelry, and promising them marriage. Like Kelly, these women were kept completely in the dark on what’s going on.

“Secrets And Lies Kill Relationships; No Matter How Careful You Are, You Will Get Caught.” — Unknown

What we see only in movies and fiction became Kelly’s real life. In this episode, Kelly tells her story of crushing revelations, her fears and self-blame, and how she found forgiveness to forge a new path.

For those of you that wonder if wrongdoers ever get their just deserts, this story will be interesting to you too

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About our guest: Kelly Savage is an intuitive empath, wisdom, and spiritual seeker by birth and an RN and Life Coach, Courage Navigator, Yoga, Reiki, and Mindfulness practitioner by trade. She has been drawn to healing and helping all her life, but only now in her 50s has she decided to let go of ego, stereotypes, self-sabotaging thoughts and move into action to inspire, coach, and lead others to dance with courage by changing the music. Kelly genuinely believes that circumstance does not define us; it is courage and our relationship to it that defines us. She has survived and witnessed the impact of molestation, alcoholism, drug addiction, emotional abuse, infertility, infidelity, divorce, and remarriage. You can connect with Kelly at [email protected] and her website www.alifecoach.ca.

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