A submissive wife knows that she should learn to control her tongue when annoyed with her husband.  

It is easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment when you are angry and find yourself saying cruel and hurtful things and that you don't mean.

Instead of getting into a heated argument with your husband, take a step back and wait until you are not angry and calmly discuss your point of view.  

Once you have said hurtful things you can apologise but you can never take them back.  They will always remain said, and the hurt that they caused will always be there. 

People often ask why they should back down first, don't think of it like that, and instead look at it as taking control of the argument and stopping it from escalating further.

It will take a lot of self-control to learn to control your tongue, but it will save a lot of future pain.