First of all, what a great name she has: Qat Wanders. I mean, seriously! And it's her given name! But that's only where the fun begins. Shelly and Walt both agree that this is a must-listen episode. A former circus performer, prolific author and editor, skydiver, TYA coach, and "sexpert", Qat tells us some fascinating pieces of her life story, and she gives us a really up-close look at what it's like to be on the inside of the TYA community. She was with David Strickle from the beginning, and he's also the co-author of his upcoming book. But the thing that sticks with you the most when you listen to her is her incredibly clear, deep sense of self-honesty. Qat is truly a pleasure to interview. We'll be having her back again some time!