Good day Anele and the Team
I write this mail after hearing you spread joy on 947 and helping someone out that just needs some happiness.
And the only person I could think of was my wife, Tammy.
This year has been, to say the least, terrible on everyone. Especially my wife.
December 2019 - My wife experienced a miscarriage, we never knew how hard that was going to hit us, but it did... We were so excited to tell our daughter (3) that she was going to be a big sister but never had the chance. It was early stages and we didn't even get the chance to find out if we were having a boy or a girl.
Then early 2020 - My wife and I separated (a "TIME-OUT" so to speak, and tried to reset our lives) before "lockdown" became a catchphrase.
Once lockdown hit, we decided that I would come back so that it wasn't too difficult for our child.
During this time, we hashed things out and regained our love for one another and I am happy to say - stronger than EVER before and very much in love.X
But that is where the happiness ended...
On 1st of August 2020 after a braai with friends, her mom (a paraplegic), and a saint amongst humanity, became non-responsive and suddenly succumbed to what we believe was a heart attack. And having to share the news with our daughter was even more heart wrenching - Granny's little angel... Suffice to say my wife still has not been able to deal with her passing as she is also a self-employed super mom.
Then, late October 2020 - My wife was diagnosed with early signs of PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) - taking into account all that has happened the last 11 months and she did not have her mom around anymore for advice, it didn't go down too well. Yet we are taking each day as it comes and are thankful for what we have.
With all of this going on, she has never taken a break from work, sacrificing family time with our daughter and friends and just downright hustling she even started another company! She blows me away!... She keeps herself so busy that she doesn't have time to actually deal with life.
Now with December coming, it's our first Christmas without her mom - funds ridiculously low, I don't know what to expect... I don't even know where to begin.
What I do know though, is that my wife needs a holiday or a girls weekend, ANYTHING really that can help her release emotion - de-stress, debrief herself and come back to grips with life and look to the future with new purpose... So that she can be the best version of her I know that she can be!
Anything that can bring her some happiness after this atrocious year...
Yours in consideration,Ben Smith
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