Mindless to Mindful

Are You the Only One Trying in Your Relationships?


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Ever feel like you're the one always reaching out, always planning, always caring more? You're not imagining it and it's costing you more than you realize.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden energy exchanges happening in every relationship and why some leave you feeling drained while others fill you up. This isn't about keeping score or cutting people off...it's about understanding where your emotional currency is going and whether you're getting a return on your investment.

You'll discover:

  • Why your energy (attention, emotion, effort) is your most valuable currency
  • The difference between healthy reciprocity and exhausting one-sided dynamics
  • How your nervous system signals when a relationship feels unsafe
  • What "energetic leaks" look like and why they're draining your peace
  • A simple awareness practice to evaluate the energy flow in your relationships
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