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Ever wonder why she’s not as turned on—or as fast—as you are?
You're not alone. And she's not broken.
In this episode, I’m joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misunderstood issues in sex and relationships: the arousal gap.
We’ll break down:
✅ Why men often feel ready in seconds—and women don’t
✅ What’s really going on when she “seems like she’s not into it”
✅ The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire
✅ How mental load, emotional safety, and shame kill arousal
✅ What you can do to actually close the gap—in bed and beyond
Whether you’re a man trying to better understand your partner, or a woman wondering “what happened to my libido?”—this episode is for you.
You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
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My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/
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Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.
https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
Support the show
Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti
Connect with us
We are on all the socials:
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Ever wonder why she’s not as turned on—or as fast—as you are?
You're not alone. And she's not broken.
In this episode, I’m joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misunderstood issues in sex and relationships: the arousal gap.
We’ll break down:
✅ Why men often feel ready in seconds—and women don’t
✅ What’s really going on when she “seems like she’s not into it”
✅ The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire
✅ How mental load, emotional safety, and shame kill arousal
✅ What you can do to actually close the gap—in bed and beyond
Whether you’re a man trying to better understand your partner, or a woman wondering “what happened to my libido?”—this episode is for you.
You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette
My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex
Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c
Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast
My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/
Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com.
Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30
at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY
Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti
Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti
Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.
https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/
Support the show
Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti
Connect with us
We are on all the socials:
Check Out More Sexy Content:
She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com
Cheers!

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