#49 - More and more people are talking about attachment theory these days, but many of those conversations focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if you’re looking to create secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? Today’s guest is Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist, public speaker, trauma and relationship expert, and the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas. In this episode, Jessica offers listeners some insight into her book, a practical guide that can help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. We also take a look at the different attachment styles, how they manifest in relationships, and what you can do to begin to deconstruct your monogamous conditioning, as well as some of the pros and cons of abundance, plus so much more. To learn more about embodying new possibilities in life and love, tune in today! To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com