Bad Queers

We've got company!

This week, we're joined by Black Queer Dom, a Black Queer Kinky educator and leader rooted in sexual wellness, Black feminist theory & gender justice. They founded the Black Queer Dom Society, a community of practice, health & wellbeing for Black Queer, Trans and Non Binary folks.
We chat with Black Queer Dom about their journey into the world of kink and BDSM and how it could be empowering for Black Queer, Trans, and Non Binary folks.

Shoutouts

Shana: Thurst Lounge: DC’s only Black-owned LGBTQ+ lounge is opening soon. Shaun Mykals and Brandon Burke are opening a nightlife venue targeting DC’s Black LGBTQ+ community, as there are currently no Black LGBTQ-owned bars or nightclubs in DC. Thank you Queerency for highlighting them. Follow @thurstlounge on IG 

Kris: Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents - Founded by Sue Kerr, this LGBTQ blog provides coverage on the social, economic, cultural and political happenings impacting our community. Follow on IG: @pghlesbian

BQD: Dc Cuddle Club and LA Cuddle Club - Where you can practice consent and be ready to get into kink spaces - lead by two Black queer women. Follow on IG: @dccuddleclub and Eventbrite LA Cuddle Club

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

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As promised, Shana turns on her best Tommy Smyth voice to recap the thrilling NWSL final. In queer news, Marlon Wayans opens up about his unconditional love for his trans son, Kai.  We send our condolences to Jesús Ociel Baena, Mexico's first nonbinary magistrate, and their partner who were found murdered in their home.

Can family members change? In AIABQ, we get an update from two listeners on their struggle for acceptance from their family members.   

And we're our Bad Queer discussion, we compare the public attitudes around Dwyane and Zaya Wade to Marlon and Kai Wayans.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Ali Krieger - NWSL championship winner - new retiree - Mom - future wife. Congrats on your career! And congrats to Megan Rapinoe on her retirement. @alikrieger and @mrapinoe 

Kris:  Nicky Saunders - The Voice of Content Branding - one of the more helpful platforms online. Follow Nicky on IG @thisisnickys, listen to her podcast - Nicky and Moose.

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

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October was an especially violent month for our Black trans and GNC family. Rest in absolute peace to Skylar Harrison, A'neé Roberson, Chyna Long, Dominic Dupree, Lisa Love, and London Price.

In slightly better news, the "lesser evil" party picked up some key election day W's. The NWSL season is drawing to an entertaining close as college women's hoops got off to an entertaining opening week.

Does being a "gentlewoman" perpetuate toxic male stereotypes? How to stop being a scapegoat for a friend's bad behavior and navigating the (still) toxic sports industry all in AIABQ.

Shoutouts:

Shana: The Lezthetician - Black, Queer esthetician, lovingly known as a lezthetician, based in LA . Prioritizing skincare for the LGBTQ+ community and according to THEM they are changing trans skincare for the better through top surgery and FFS post-op treatments. Follow on IG @thelezthetician 

Kris: A'ja Wilson - upcoming book “Dear Black Girls How to Be True to You”, out Feb. 2024. Through honest stories and inspiring lessons from her life, A’ja Wilson reminds us to never doubt who we are or apologize for being true to ourselves. Dear Black Girls is a must-read for every Black girl out there.”  Follow on IG @aja22wilson

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

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The global attack on LGBTQ people continues in Alabama, as pharmacies are refusing to refill trans kids’ prescriptions despite gender-affirming care being legal.  Mass arrests of queer Nigerians continue without proper investigations. In AIABQ, we explore trans men in lesbian spaces and how to deal with friends who ignore red flags when dating.
Shana gives an altar call to fellow Law & Order SVU queers and Kris shares what she thinks was missed in the Jada/Will media frenzy.

Shoutouts:

Shana: BEAM - Black Emotional & Mental Health Collective. It’s a movement dedicated to creating a world where there are no barriers to Black healing. They just launched a new podcast called Black Healing Remixed to bring real intimate conversations to you. Follow @_beamorg 

Kris: Feelmore Social - cocktail lounge in Oakland. The sex-forward club adds to Black queer owner, Nenna Joiner’s Feelmore brand - which includes popular adult shop, Feelmore Adult in Oakland and Berkeley. Follow them on IG @feelmoresocial and @feelmoreadult

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It was a huge week for women's sports. Congratulations to the Las Vegas Aces on their back to back championship win. Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris are getting divorced, breaking the hearts of all queer sports fans. Congrats to Che Flores coming out as the first trans and nonbinary referee. In AIABQ? we discuss Dylan Mulvaney, moving on from queer best friends and whether iPhone users could date someone with an android. Bad queer opinions - we want Gen-Z to loosen up.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Sydney J. Colson - For the live stream. The night night. The 2 points. The defense. The one liners. The new show You truly won this championship. You are the face of the league. Follow on IG at @sydjcolson

Kris: Kia Barnes - Friend to Bad Queers and previous guest who called out Yung Joc after his lies about turning down $250K to perform at an LGBTQ event. Kia brought the receipts for his past performances at ATL Pride 2017 and her own gay ass bday bash. Follow on IG @kiacomedy

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We've got more company! This week we welcome Jessamyn Stanley,  yoga instructor, entrepreneur and the co-founder of The Underbelly. We spanned multiple topics from polyamory and representation in yoga to dating the rugby team and what it's like being LGBTQ+ in the south. Naturally, astrology was brought up and Jessamyn shares multiple Bad Queer Opinions around Harry Potter and the practice round of polyamory. 

Follow Jessamyn:
@mynamejessamyn
www.jessamynstanley.com
www.theunderbelly.com
@theunderbellyyoga

Shoutouts:
Shana: Shahem Mclaurin - Black, genderqueer, social worker/therapist. Shahem uses their platform to address social and mental health issues while showcasing their style, cooking skills and personal journey. Follow and support @5hahem on IG 

Kris: A re-shoutout to Devin and Brit Kirkland- founders and CEO of Deon Libra, an adaptogenic stress care brand that is Black and queer owned. They won an Allure Best of Beauty Award, Ulta Beauty Accelerator, at the WWD beauty and wellness forum, just released their Smoove Exfoliating Cleaners - in addition to their Big Up Body Glaze and Unbothered Elixir. Follow and support their brand @deonlibra_ on IG 

Jessamyn: My coworker - Angel Foster. She is a pilates instructor and incredible creator.  Follow @angel.foster and listen to her podcast "The Foster"

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We've got company! Welcome Moe Ari, Love and Connection Expert from Hinge. In this episode we celebrate National Coming Out Day by sharing Moe's coming out journey, navigating their queerness, finding transgender representation and how coming out impacted familial and romantic relationships. We also discuss dating stereotypes, communication in marriage and rooting for the bisexual community. Ever have issues finding a therapist? Moe has you covered.

Keep up with Moe: @loveoutproud, @beyourownlovegoals, www.themoeari.com

Shoutouts

Shana: Strands for Trans - The world’s first registry of trans-affirming hair, beauty and wellness industries. Over 7,500 businesses and counting. Follow @strandsfortrans on IG 

Kris: Maurice Harris - Maurice Harris is a Los Angeles based artist who is best known as the visionary behind Bloom & Plume, a bespoke floral design studio located in Echo Park. He also founded Bloom & Plume Coffee shop in LA. Follow Maurice on IG @bloomandplume and his coffee shop @bloomandplumecoffee

Moe: xHood - @parentxhood on IG - Created by Mia Cooley. Community for Black queer people to build and nurture healthy families and parent happy children.   

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Surprise, surprise, the US receives a 'C' grade on the global rating scale for LGBTQ+ rights scorecard and the Texas drag ban is ruled unconstitutional. Angelica Ross announces she is leaving Hollywood for politics and, in more politics, lesbian power house Laphonza Butler fills Diane Feinstein's senate seat in California. We discuss what we expect for Beyoncé's upcoming film (and yes we are bringing fans to the theater). And is it ever too soon to start couples therapy? 

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Shoutouts:
Shana: That Art Party - Creative play dates for BIPOC adults. Located in the bay area, it is queer and latina owned where they curate art and play experiences. Follow on IG at @that.art.party 

Kris: Cielo Sunsarae, founder and executive Director of the Queer Trans Project. The Queer Trans Project in Jacksonville, Florida in Spring 2021 as a response to limitations imposed by local queer organizations on LGBTQ+ individuals seeking essential resources. 

Among their resources are their Build-A-Queer kits that are 100% free. You can select packers, binders, bras, makeup, and more to your kits. They offer free national shipping across the US and Puerto Rico - Follow on IG @queertransproject

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After attending four Renaissance World Tour shows (you can guess who went to three shows and who went to one), we HAD to dedicate an entire episode to the once-in-a-lifetime experience that is Beyoncè's Renaissance World Tour. We get into everything from the stage production, sets, dancers, outfits, mute challenge rankings, what's next, and Beyoncè's unprecedented reign.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Dr. Yvette Noel-Schure - Not only Beyoncé’s 27-year-long publicist, and many other stars, she is also the Chief Communications Officer and Co-Founder of Schure Media Group. She has also been transparently sharing her grief about Josiah JONTY Robinson, her beloved bonus son to get justice for his murder. Jonty was fully out and proud and we carry him with us each day. Follow @yvettenoelschure 

Kris: Nina Chanel Abney- artist who I’ve previously shouted out has a new collab to celebrate 50 years of Timberland and it’s that shit. Follow Nina on IG @ninachanel to check out the collab and whatever pieces are left

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This week, we cover the Angelica Ross tea party, Tyler Perry's unwanted dating advice for successful Black women, and a very rare smart move by the U.S. military to reverse the harmful effects of Don't Ask Don't Tell.  In Am I A Bad Queer? we chat Florida trips and obsessive best friends. We're back to our top 5 lists with advice for our younger queer selves.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Coastal Curl - they specialize in helping folks with waves, kinks, coils and curls to embrace their natural hair texture. Black and Queer Owned in Oakland. Follow @coastal.curl on IG

Kris: Kolumn Mag - celebrates the lives of People of Color, by giving our world texture. Follow on IG @kolumnmagazine 

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