We’re happy to be joined by Jonathan Higgins and Jordan “JoHo” Daniels of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme. We talk origin story, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off.

Shoutouts:

Kris: Moodeaux - Founded by Brianna Arps, Moodeaux is a Black, woman, and queer-owned fragrance brand redefining perfumery with clean, unisex scents and its “Flaunt How You Feel” ethos. Follow on IG @moodeauxofficial

Shana:  Queer Nightlife Community Center (QNCC pronounced Kink) run for and by queer nightlife workers to empower queer, trans and low-income communities through access, support and celebration. During the day the space will provide healthcare services and work-based training before transitioning to music programming in the evening. Follow @qncc.bk on IG 

Jordan: Edwin Sotos and Luis Cornejo - for what they're doing with Apaga El Odio, which is helping lead the work to hold Univision and Telemundo accountable for showing ICE propaganda during their shows. Follow on IG: @edwinsotos and @luis_thee_lmft

Sondra Morris -  of my friends who runs Tagg Magazine for queer women. They are currently in a rebrand so check out their stories and advertise with them. Follow on IG: @sondrawritesstuff @taggmagazine

Nathan Serrato - Queer coaching and relationships under Queer Conscious. Follow on IG: @queerconscious

Jon:  Ericka Hart - Love their content, how they hold everyone accountable and the way she continues to uplift accountability and her family is adorable Follow on IG: @ihartericka

Pennywise- I believe they are queer and doing her thing in IT: Welcome To Derry and reminds the girls what they can do when you put your mind to it 

Episode Notes:
1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary
2:04 - Guest Intro: Jon & JoHo
3:34 - Guest Inter

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This week, the Supreme Court tells Kim Davis to get a life, the 2026 Grammy noms are in, and studs are making moves — 2K style.

Shoutouts:

Kris: DeAndré Upshaw - Content creator and producer. His Y2K and pop culture content is some of the best online. “Follow if you miss flip phones and TRL”.  You can support him on IG @deandretheegiant

Shana: WAGS of Women’s Sports - Celebrating the wives, girlfriends and couples of women’s sports. They said “Think ‘The L Word’ meets ESPN”. Follow and heart eyes @wagsofwomenssports on IG

Episode Notes:
1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

3:16 - Category is: Supreme Court same sex marriage

6:25 - Gov Shutdown Update

14:25 - Category is: 2026 Grammy Nominations 

28:16 - Category is: Sports

41:39 - am I a bad queer?

49:30 - Bad Queer Opinions

56:00 - Shoutouts

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Election week came in swinging — and the Category is: Democrats came to collect! From major wins in New York, Virginia, and California to historic firsts across the map, we break down what these results mean for 2026. Plus, Kehlani’s first-ever Top 10 hit and a public romance that’s got the internet folded in half.

Then in Am I A Bad Queer?, we dig into some messy dating dilemmas — from the ongoing Court and Lex TikTok controversy to wondering if you’re just there for someone else’s benefit.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Seasoned - London’s first strictly 25+ girls, gays and theys. Seasoned isn’t just a party, it’s a space to connect, let loose and celebrate queer joy in all its forms. Follow on IG @seasoned.szn 

Kris: Destin Conrad’s alternative jazz album released back in August. Check it out if you haven’t already. Follow Destin on IG @destinconrad

Episode Notes:
1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
3:49 - Category is: Election Night 2025 Recap
19:24 - Category is: “Folded” Earns Kehlani First Top 10 — Goes Public with (again) KWM
26:00 - Category is: Gold’s Gym Transgender Controversy 
36:20 - Am I A Bad Queer?
59:30 - Bad Queer Opinions
1:03:30 - Shoutouts

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After a little maternity leave (and a lot of life), Shana and Kris are finally back! This week, we catch up on new babies, new businesses, and the queer chaos we missed. From honoring Miss Major Griffin-Gracy to Snoop Dogg’s unexpected LGBTQ+ pivot, Trump’s latest shutdown mess, and why the WNBA deserves better — we’re jumping right back in. Plus: new Queer Urban Dictionary terms and some soft stud appreciation to top it off.

Shoutouts:

Shana: Lesbian Land - A queer media brand created for women and nonbinary people who love women. They tell stories through video, digital series and playful online content - that reflect the joy, awkwardness, flirtation and fullness of sapphic connection. Follow and check out their events @welcometolesbianland on IG 

Kris: D'Vaughn and Kris Plan a Wedding by Chencia C. Higgins - Two women, one fake wedding, six weeks to fool everyone — and maybe fall in love for real. D’Vaughn and Kris Plan a Wedding by Chencia C. Higgins is a hilarious, heartfelt Black queer rom-com about coming out, showing up, and finding love on reality TV. Follow Chencia on IG: @chenciachiggins 

Episode Notes:
1:26 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
5:43- Our last 2 months
19:29 - Category is: Rest in Peace Miss Major Griffin-Gracy
22:12 - Category is: Politics
27:49 - Category is: A Post Ch@rlie Kirk World.
34:07 - Category is: Another One Bites the Dust - Netflix’s Queer Ultimatum is Cancelled
38:10 - Category is: Love is Love ft. Snoop
41:52 - Category is: WNBA, NWSL
57:30 - Category is: Pop Culture, What We’re Watching
1:13:32 - Bad Queer Opinions
1:19:14 - Shoutouts

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[The full episode is a Patreon Exclusive] We’re back with Heart Life Vol. 3: Summer of Unavailability - aka that season where everyone’s crushing, but no one is available.

Kris and Shana catch up on Shana's dating adventures, ghosters spinning the block, and therapy holding up a mirror we didn’t ask for. We talk play parties, expanding who we date, and the fine line between being open and just plain tired.

In Queer Urban Dictionary:
 Breadcrumbing — when someone gives just enough attention to keep you around, but never actually shows up.
Fusion — lesbian relationships where you blink and suddenly share a bank account.

It’s giving honest, tired, slightly messy - but we’re trying.

Episode Notes (for the preview): 

1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

3:33 - Opening introduction to Heart Life 

6:05 - Dating & Catching Up 

11:48 - Therapy recaps 

16:36 - Friends & Desire 

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We've got company! This week we’re joined by Brandon Kyle Goodman — writer, actor, and the mind behind Heaux Church, Tell Me Something Messy, and Big Mouth’s own Walter the Lovebug!

We talk queer sex education, non-monogamy, writing, love, and what it means to find freedom in your “mess.” Brandon shares how being Black, queer, and nonbinary has shaped their relationship with intimacy and joy — and delivers one of the funniest Bad Queer Opinions yet.

Stay tuned for Queer Urban Dictionary (Frot + Bull Queer) and shoutouts to some incredible queer creators and spaces.

Shoutouts:

Kris: For Everyone Collective - is a formerly incarcerated worker-owned brand combining design with community organizing. Follow and support on IG @foreveryone.collective

Shana: Thique Party - An event series celebrating plus size queer and trans bodies. Curated by DJ Mangumami - Follow so you can hit up the next party: @djmangumami and @thique.party 

Brandon: Everywhere is queer - A worldwide map of 19,000+ LGBTQ+ organizations and job board - Follow on @everywhereisqueer

Episode Notes: 

0:59 - Queer Urban Dictionary

2:45 - Guest Intro: Brandon Kyle Goodman

3:41 - Guest Interview with Brandon Kyle Goodman 

56:08 - Bad Queer Opinion 

1:10:30 - Shoutouts 

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We’ve got company!! This week on Bad Queers, we get a little steamy and a lot educational with The Vagina Based Collective, lead by Feignix and Papi, known as “The Sinners” behind a movement that’s redefining shameless living, especially in the bedroom. 

We talk queer sex education, how intimacy evolves in long-term relationships, and what it really means to unlearn shame while exploring kink, toys, and identity. 

Plus, Kris teaches us about albutophilia (yes, bath time counts) and Shana breaks down trixic identity for our Queer Urban Dictionary. Stay for Bad Queer Opinions — where we talk flirting, fascism, and the myth of the gold star lesbian.

Shoutouts: 

Kris: Blaque/Out Magazine - Blaque/OUT Magazine, founded by Tamara Leigh, is a digital publication celebrating Black & Brown Queer and Trans culture while amplifying intersectional voices. Follow on IG @blaqueoutmagazine

Shana: BABE Wine Bar: Your queer wine bar within a bar. Based in Brooklyn, BABE is an intentional queer space, full of queer, mostly BIPOC wine drinkers. There’s expert queer sommeliers, good music and great vibes. Follow and join their next event @babewinebar

The VBC: 

Feignix - 100% Switch - Stephanie Wong, Ms. D - We have a lot going on and coming out collaboration, keep an eye out! 

Papi - All of our Clitizens who share the message for Shame is Man Made. Messages and kind words keep us going! 

Episode Notes: 

0:59 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

3:28 - Intro: Vagina Based Collective 

3:59 - Vagina Based Collective Interview 

50:43 - Bad Queer Opinion

1:01:59 - Shoutouts 

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This week in Queer Urban Dictionary, Kris explains the gender-inclusive pronoun per, while Shana celebrates the “ace of hearts.” Then we’re joined by comedian, host, producer, and professional catfish Tribble (Ellis Ever After, Ask Tribble Inc.) 

We get into the wild world of queer relationships, accountability panels, and why women need to chill when it comes to “dabbling in the dark arts" (aka straight women in queer experiences). Plus, Tribble gives us the tea on what’s missing (and what’s overdone) in podcasting, their approach to dating, and the myth that only studs and white women get to be the “cool lesbians.” 

Of course, we wrap up with Bad Queer Opinions and shoutouts — from a NatGeo docuseries on Hurricane Katrina to safe queer spaces like As You Are DC, and parties by Queer Aunties + Club Cleo.

Shoutouts:

Kris: Hurricane Katrina: Race Against Time - NatGeo docuseries series looks back at the lessons learned from the storm, and why we can't forget the tragic aspects that were man-made ahead of its 20th anniversary. The five part series is  directed by Traci A. Curry and executive produced by Ryan Coogler. You can watch it on Hulu. The first episode is available on National Geographic’s YT

Shana: As You Are: A safe and celebratory space for the LGBTQIA+ Community. Café by day, bar and dance lounge by night - Follow @asyouaredc on IG 

Tribble: Queer Aunties - They do dope 30+ parties, started in LA and travel to other cities. @queerauntiesla

Club Cleo - Dope Black lesbians who are on the pulse socially, and host great events @clubcleola

Episode Notes:

1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

3:35 - Guest Introduction with Tribble 

3:55 - Guest Interview 

53:03 - Bad Queer Opinion 

1:09:17 - Shoutouts

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This week on Bad Queers, we've got company! Welcome Autumn Breon, multidisciplinary artist, abolitionist, and all-around visionary. Autumn uses performance, sculpture, and installation to explore Black queer feminist liberation, Diasporic memory, and the systems we’re ready to leave behind.

In this episode we discuss:
- Autumn’s journey from studying aeronautics at Stanford to becoming a queer Black feminist artist
- How Diasporic memory, history, and imagination shape her creative process
- Her performance piece Dignity Denied and what it means to use the body as an altar
- Why queerness is not a hall pass for misogyny (and other Bad Queer Opinions)

Plus: guilty pleasure crushes, Beyoncé queers being the best queers, and the rituals that fuel Autumn's art.

Shoutouts: 

Kris: LaDarrion Williams is a Los Angeles based-playwright, filmmaker, author, and screenwriter and author of Blood at the Root and Bones at the Crossroads. This book series follows a Black teenager, Malik, who gets accepted into a magical HBCU and he goes there to learn about his ancestral magic and uncover dark secrets surrounding his mother’s mysterious disappearance. The books are available to purchase now, you can follow LaDarrion on IG @itsladarrion

Shana: Bliss Sundays - Global ecosystem for queer women 25+ based out of Houston. They host a range of events from mixers that center queer women from all different spectrums. Recess events to parties and networking. Follow and support @blissxsundays 

Autumn: Repro Uncensored: A group at the intersection of art and technology who are fighting censorship. Follow @reprouncensored

Episode Notes: 

1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary

3:20 - Autumn Breon Introduction

4:30 - Autumn Breon Interview 

51:23 - Bad Queer Opinions

1:03:56 - Shoutouts

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This week on Bad Queers, Kris teaches us “H&H” (high and horny) while Shana breaks down “homo fomo.” Then we’re joined by storyteller, filmmaker, and writer Amber J. Phillips known as Amber Abundance — aka your fave fat Black queer femme auntie from the Midwest. 

We catch up with Amber on everything from launching her Substack Toxic Femininity (yes, it’s giving Black femme scripture) to building Ample World. We get into Black queer femmes choosing desire instead of waiting to be chosen, why “straight-passing” is a trash term, and what it takes to silence the fed in your head. 

Plus: breakup dates are not closure, successful u-haulers are the exception not the rule, studs deserve a little more shade, and Amber has one very real Bad Queer Opinion about Ellie blocking our view of the tall WNBA girlies. 

As always, we close with shoutouts — including Tracee Ellis Ross’ new travel show, the Youth Trans Emergency Project, and love to everyone at Black Star Film Fest.

Shoutouts: 

Kris: Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross - Tracee’s new travel show on Roku Channel. She invites audiences to join her solo trips to Morocco, Mexico, and Spain. Just renewed for a second season, go check out season 1 on the roku channel Follow Tracee on IG: @traceeellisross

Shana: Youth Trans Emergency Project: They help families of trans youth through the maze of accessing healthcare after a clinic closure. They can find care providers, provide grants, and have a network of care. Check out their website: www.transyouthemergencyproject.org

Amber: Everyone who went to Black Star Film Fest. Friend Kia Lou who won a pitch competition around Black queer lesbians in standup comedy. Shoutout to Black Storytellers 

Follow Amber @amberabundance and on substack @ToxicFemininity 

Episode Notes: 

1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

2:33 - Amber Abundance Introduction 

3:24 - Interview with Amber Abundance 

55:10 - Bad Queer Opinions 

1:10:17 - Shoutouts

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