Bad Queers

This week on Bad Queers, we define pansexuality and explore the queer history of 18th-century molly-houses in Queer Urban Dictionary. In "Category Is," we get into Simone Biles vs. Riley Gaines and the ongoing fight for trans inclusion in sports, TS Madison educating NeNe Leakes on trans dating, and Doechii’s powerful moment at the BET Awards. Plus, we answer your "Am I A Bad Queer?" questions about dating app validation, saying no to tokenism, and summer queer crushes. In "Bad Queer Opinions" we have a community note around vegans at BBQs and being the single friend in a friend group.

Shoutouts: 

Kris: Black Market Vintage has released their annual Juneteenth shirt - designed by Black queer artist, Nina Chanel Abney. Get yours and wear them as much as yall used to wear those Old Navy 4th of July shirts. Follow them @blkmktvintage @ninachanel 

Shana: The Seattle Plant Store - Seattle’s radically queer plant shop. Found through Planthony, their enthusiastic employee. Go buy some gay plants - @seattleplantstore 

Episode Notes: 

• 1:16 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
• 4:25 - Category is: Simone Biles vs. Riley Gaines 
• 9:09 - Category is: Hearts not parts
• 18:13 - Category is: Doechii Speaking Out at BET Awards 
• 32:12 - Am I a Bad Queer? 
• 44:54 - Bad Queer Opinion
• 50:57 - Shoutout

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This week, we’re joined by Shylo and Chelsea of the EMVP Podcast—a show for emotionally mature, vulnerable people navigating the highs and lows of life as Black queer women. We get into their journey from friend breakups to building a podcast, the reality of LA life as transplants, and Shylo’s reflections on her breakout role on Twenties. 

Shoutouts:

Shana: Spark Social House: A third place for the LGBTQ+ Community to connect. Neither work nor home, Spark is more like a home away from home. Based in DC, whether you are there for a day or for a while, connect with Spark. They host coworking, pop ups, watch parties, sapphic parties and more. Follow @sparksocialdc  

Kris:  Point of Pride: Empowering trans folks to live more authentically. They provide Financial aid for surgery, hair removal & healthcare. Free chest binders & femme shapewear. Support them at pointofpride.org and Follow on IG @pointofprideorg

Shylo: The Liberated Chair. Get your hair done by Coree Moreno or Bryson Karter and you also get vibes. They've curated a space for people to feel safe and get their hair done dowwn. Follow on IG @theliberatedchair 

Chelsea: Chef Rashida Holmes, the owner of Bridgetown Roti in East LA. Brings flavors from East Trinidad to LA. My favorites are oxtail patties and her mom's curry chicken the Follow @chefrashitaholmes or @bridgetownroti

Listen and support- EMVP Podcast

IG: @emvppodcast

Episode Notes:
1:17 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
3:34 - Guest Introductions - Shylo and Chelsea
4:15 - Guest Interview 
59:10 - Bad Queer Opinions
1:22:50 - Shoutouts

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This week we share first impressions of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2, recap Week 1 of the WNBA (the WNBA scriptwriters are so back), and spotlight the protest to reclaim the historic site of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot. We also talk about a new interfaith Pride campaign urging faith leaders to show up for LGBTQ+ folks this June.

In Am I a Bad Queer?, we get into summer dating fatigue and how to expand your friend group without falling into performative allyship.
 And in Bad Queer Opinions, a PSA about financially motivated U-Hauling and why your birth chart isn’t a free pass for bad behavior.

Shoutouts:

Kris: Quita Loves Sports - sending love to one of my fav sports content creator. She’s created well-researched and produced content for years now. Follow her on Youtube @QuitaLovesSports

Shana: A few weeks ago Kris gave a shoutout to the book 7-10 split by Karmen Lee. I devoured it. It is so good. Filled with queer tension, to lead to (delicious?) descriptions of their intimacy and breaking down walls to better connect with each other. I loved it. Shoutout to @authorkarmenlee 

Episode notes:

1:16 - Queer Urban Dictionary: Lavender marriage + ERE
4:50 - Category is: Reclaiming the site of historic Compton’s Cafeteria  Protest
7:05 - Category is: Recommit to Pride
9:40 - Category is: The Queer Ultimatum Season 2 is here
16:30 - Category is: WNBA script writers - week 1 recap 
30:30 - Am I a Bad Queer?
42:30 - Bad Queer Opinions
48:32 - Shoutouts

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This week we discuss week 1 of Diddy's federal trial, Halle Bailey’s restraining order against DDG and Tory Lanez prison/legal updates. We also give our long awaited White Lotus S3 recap and spotlight a 21-year study showing donor-conceived adults raised by lesbian moms are thriving.

In Am I a Bad Queer?, how to call out your queer friends biphobia, the best way to avoid being friends with your fellow queer boss and more. 

Finally, Bad Queer Opinions breaks down when outing is okay and why it’s time to stop hiding your partner’s face online.

Shoutouts:

Kris: Intelexual Media - Teaching history you didn't learn in school. Author and educator Elexus Jionde history, sex, sociology, and pop culture with a heavy focus on black women, whose stories are not told enough in history retrospectives and documentaries. Follow on Youtube @intelexualmedia

Shana: Athlete is Agender - True stories of LGBTQ+ people in sports. Written by Katherine Locke (@bibliogato) and Nicole Melleby (@nicolemelleby). This book is about being queer and loving and playing sports. Highlights a mix of athletes we should be paying attention to and how anyone should be able to play the sports they love. 

Episode Notes:
1:16 - Queer Urban Dictionary - Questioning + Anchor Partner
2:25 - Category is: DDG + Diddy
14:00 - Category is: Lesbian Super Moms
16:02 - Category Is: White Lotus S3 review
37:12- Am I a Bad Queer?
49:08 - Bad Queer Opinion
56:47 - Shoutouts

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This week on the podcast, we revive the iconic acronym “TWID” (The Woman I’m Dating) and dig into the reclaimed ballroom term “Bricks,” honoring its complex roots and modern meaning. In 'Category is', we react to the Supreme Court’s frustrating move to uphold the trans military ban, recognize our Hunger Games transition by discussing the Black dandyism theme of the 2025 Met Gala, and talk WNBA season hype, including A’Ja Wilson’s sold-out sneaker drop. We address your Am I A Bad Queer? questions—from dodging chaotic straight friends at Pride to finessing free drinks at the straight clubs. And in Bad Queer Opinions, Kris unpacks the tension behind the Met Gala’s record-breaking $31M and Shana throws shade at Jeremy Pope’s cosplay fit. 

Shoutouts:
Kris: Play it forward - How Women Are Changing Sports to Change the World. Play It Forward features twenty‑five inspirational stories of badass women from all corners of the sports universe. From profiles of professional athletes and Olympians at the top of their game to everyday women putting in the work without a crowd, these are true tales of fierce competitors, dedicated teammates, and passionate advocates who are all too accustomed to hearing the word “no.”The book is available now, follow on IG @togethxr

Shana: A’Ja Wilson for an ICONIC A’One Drop. Putting the game on notice, A’Ja drops her first signature footwear and apparel collection. The shoes sold out in MINUTES. And more drops are coming. From shirts to shorts to shoes, and other color patterns. This one is for the books. Congrats @aja22wilson! 

Episode Notes:
2:11 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
5:40 - Category is: Trans Military Ban
7:40 - Category is: The Met Gala Recap 
31:15 - Category Is: WNBA is back
41:46 - Am I a Bad Queer?
50:38 - Bad Queer Opinion
58:37 - Shoutouts

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This week we’re joined by Jared Robinson—creator of JUDYS, a love letter to Black and brown queer friendship. We dive into small-town beginnings, fashion-to-film transitions, what makes a Good Judy, and why perfect gays are boring. Plus: Queer Urban Dictionary terms Mx. and Good Judy, behind-the-scenes tea, and Bad Queer Opinions on gay men and queer women friendships, queer characters and Issa Rae's Black Mirror episode.

Shoutouts:
Shana: Trans Guy Supply is the world’s leading trans-owned online marketplace dedicated to supporting trans men, trans masculine, nonbinary, gender nonconforming, trans folks, butches and allies. Follow and support @transguysupply 

Kris: Get Free: A Black Feminist Reunion. This is the largest Black feminist gathering in the US! Join us from June 5th to 7th at the Hyatt Regency New Orleans for a weekend of energizing workshops, inspiring keynotes, and powerful discussions. We'll celebrate our rich history, strategize for the future, and build a vibrant Black feminist future together. Follow on IG: @blackfeministfuture

Jared: My amazing Community. JUDYS - Production, producers, gaffers, cast, etc. Thank you for everything. Also my loved ones, friends and family who were holding me down.

Episode Notes:
1:15 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
2:14 - Guest Introduction - Jared Robinson
3:07 - Guest Interview 
46:17 - Bad Queer Opinions
55:32 - Shoutouts

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Five years later and we’re still standing on business. We’re celebrating with Queer Urban Dictionary lessons (Gender Cues + Ponk), in Category is we discuss then vs. now moments, the moments that made us and discussing our queer hair experiences in Hair-apy. Of course, we share your messy Am I A Bad Queer? dilemmas, and take a stroll down Bad Queer Opinions memory lane. Cheers to 5 years of Bad Queers!

Shoutouts:
Kris: UK Black Pride - celebrating their 20th year in August. Founded by Lady Phyll, UK Black Pride is the world’s largest celebration for LGBTQI+ people of African, Asian, Caribbean, Latin American and Middle Eastern-descent. Follow on IG @ukblackpride

Shana: @Slipp3rywhenwet for introducing me to Salsa Soul Sisters which is the oldest Black lesbian organization in the US. Existing from 1974-1993, in the aftermath of Stonewall to particularly focus on issues of racism impacting lesbians of color. Read more about the Salsa Soul Sisters @Slipp3rywhenwet

Episode Notes:
2:23 - Queer Urban Dictionary
4:09 - Category is: Then vs. Now Topics
18:38 - Category is: The Moments that Made us
24:57 - Category is: Hair-apy
41:24 - Am I a Bad Queer?
55:50 - Bad Queer Opinions
1:02:09 - Shoutouts

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This week, we’re breaking down AIAB in Queer Urban Dictionary and giving you the sapphic position you didn’t know you needed (shoutout to Pearl to Peach). In Category Is, we unpack Montana’s surprise block on an anti-trans bill, the ongoing attack on queer books, and our latest TV obsessions—from 911 Lone Star to White Lotus S3. Plus, advice on dodging your ex, opening up your relationship, and planning a traditional gay wedding without the peanut gallery. And yes, Gayle King gets a Bad Queer Opinion. So do the straights.

Shoutouts:
Kris: Black Girls Tennis Club - serves as a pathway to liberation for Black women & girls through PLAY with adult and youth programs in VA and NY. Follow and support BGTC on IG @blackgirlstennisclub

Shana: New Women Space - A safe space for women and the LGBTQIA+ communities we have infused the location with love, joy, friendship, found family, shamanic journeys, and so much more. Follow and support @newwomenspace

Episode Notes:
1:15 - Queer Urban Dictionary
7:05 - Category is: Montana Republicans Say No to Prosecuting Parents for Trans Care
10:58 - Category is: Book Bans
17:14 - Category is: What are we watching? About to Watch?
36:15 - Am I a Bad Queer?
46:24 - Bad Queer Opinions
53:12 - Shoutouts 

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From Sapphic Visibility Day to NFL allyship (and mess), we’ve got range. This week: AGAB vs. gender narratives, Khalen Saunders’ queer-friendly football camp, Ts Madison’s new reentry house, WNBA draft talk, and the messy return to your ex’s kickball league. We close with Bad Queer Opinions: You don’t owe anyone a redemption arc—and Beyoncé’s done more for the LGBTQ+ community than most. 

Chicago Podcast Salon to see Kris & Shana: https://events.eventnoire.com/e/the-podcast-salon-april-edition

Shoutouts: 

Kris: Ethiopian Girl Skaters- Non profit dedicated to empowering girls across Africa to dream big and break barriers through skateboarding @ethiopian_girl_skaters

Shana: Something Casual - A queer day afro party featuring your favorite queer and trans DJs. Hip Hop, afrobeat, amapiano and more @somethingcasual._ 

Episode Notes:
1:16 - Queer Urban Dictionary 
3:52 - Category is: NFL Saints Khalen Saunders to launch LGBTQ+ Friendly Youth Football Camp
6:59 - Category is: Ts Madison opens Black trans “Starter House” in her former Atlanta home
10:52 - Category is: March Madness, WNBA Draft predictions
38:50 - Am I a Bad Queer? 
52:25 - Bad Queer Opinions
59:19 - Shoutouts

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Come celebrate 5 years of Bad Queers!
 We’re throwing down all month long with virtual events and an in-person celebration in Chicago. Don’t miss the chance to connect and toast to five years of this podcast. 

This week, we unpack major headlines—from the CDC’s sudden shutdown of key HIV prevention initiatives to Cory Booker’s record-breaking filibuster speech. Plus, a win for the LGBTQ+ community: country artist Tanner Adell comes out as pansexual at the Billboard Women in Music Awards. 

In our advice segment, Am I a Bad Queer?, we dig into:
- Is having a “backup bae” while in a relationship ever okay?
- Coming out and feeling like a queer newbie
- Going back in the closet to safely explore sexuality 

For Bad Queer Opinions, we’re talking:
Why we need to celebrate positive masculine traits
The hard truth: not everyone in the LGBTQ+ community is a safe space 

Shoutouts:
Kris: Shaundel Washington-Spivey - elected first Black and LGBTQ mayor of La Crosse Wis. on Tuesday Washington-Spivey is a former elected school board member and community leader who co-founded Black Leaders Acquiring Collective Knowledge (B.L.A.C.K.), Inc., a nonprofit organization that supports La Crosse youth through various programs and initiatives. 

Shana: Be Steadwell - Author of Chocolate Chip City - Black women and queer people are at the center. It’s got magic, hot sexy scenes, and is grounded in spirit, resistance and dreams. Imagine what DC would look like if we all stepped in our power. Coming out June 3rd - Follow on IG @besteadwell 

Episode Notes:
1:16 - Queer Urban Dictionary - AMAB and TINA
5:12 - 5 Years of Bad Queers: Join us for in person and virtual events
10:41 - HIV Prevention Offices Shut Down at CDC 
13:19 - Good Trouble: Cory Booker breaks a 68-year-old Senate record with a 25-hour speech
18:06 - Tanner Adell Comes Out as Pansexual 
21:30 - Am I a Bad Queer? Advice Segment 
36:11 - Bad Queer Opinions
46:38 - Shoutouts

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