Barbie Does Dating

Have you ever noticed that engaged people “suffer from a sort of “Single Amnesia?” Do your married friends Married-splain things (the married persons version of mansplaining)? It happens. Those that are not married or in an engaged relationship field comments that come in the form of advice. This advice can come across as condescending.

One common question offered by someone suffering from Single Amnesia is, “Why are you still single?” Or there is the statement, “You are being too picky.”

Others may also be concerned and genuinely want to connect. This episode features some great humor from comedian and podcast host of the Latter-day Lives Podcast, Shawn Rapier along side our usual trio of hosts.

So tune in to laugh and get some great advice on how to take and how to discuss dating between those who are single and those who are in a committed relationship.

Women Behaving Badly w/ Shawn Rapier

Often times we hear stories about men who behave “questionably” and sometimes just outright poorly in dating situations. But what about stories with women behaving badly? Joining our regular hosting trio of Barbie, Steve, and Nick, is Stand Up Comedian Shawn Rapier from the Latter-day Lives Podcast. Shawn shares a hilarious and only sort of disturbing story from his pre-married years that will leave you in stitches…and maybe a little nervous.

Shawn also shares some thoughts on dating and his views on how he met and married his wife of 25 years. This episode is one you won’t want to miss.

*Disclaimer: We, the hosts and producers of the Barbie Does Dating Podcast honor and respect women. But we also wish to recognize that, in fairness and equal treatment towards women, that we have to give some time to the examples of craziness and illogical behavior that sometimes presents itself in modern day society. If you are offended by what you hear, please send us an email so that we can properly address your concern. Thank you.

Don't wait till you're perfect

Barbie asked on her facebook page, “OPINIONS NEEDED!! For my married friends. If you could tell single people one quality to look for in their future spouse, what would it be?”

In this episode Barbie, Steve, and Nick are joined by a very most special guest (Nick is writing this). Heidi, Nick’s wife, Mrs. Sage Wisdom, joins the show in her first ever podcast appearance. They all talk about the answers that were given on Barbie’s social media poll, as well as some of the answers that they have/had in the past. We also learn that Heidi had a 13 page booklet of all the qualities that she was looking for in a husband, and how Nick was short by just 1! Which one is it?

What are the top qualities you look for in a spouse? Contact us and let us know! This is also the 2nd to last episode we are recording in the murder room. Pictures coming soon to memorialize the once great podcast studio.

Bad advertising in Dating

On an earlier episode of Barbie Does Dating, Are Strong, Independent Women Intimidating, our three hosts, Barbie, Steve, and Nick discussed the various challenges surrounding what some call the “Independent Woman.” Based on some listener feedback and some of our own thoughts on the subject, we felt that we needed to revisit the topic of that episode.

So on this episode of the Barbie Does Dating Podcast, we are revisiting that topic but with a slightly different approach, and perhaps even a slightly different definition of what we meant when we said “Independent Woman.” This episode is being hosted by Barbie and Steve, which means you know it will be fun and funny.

We would love to hear from you! Tell us what you want to hear about on the show, and what your best and worst of this episode is. Please contact us, we would love to hear from our listeners!

What's your one quality?

Everyone (well, most everyone) has a kissing story to tell. When it comes to dating, kissing can be passionate, awkward, funny, embarrassing, or simply “good.” In this episode of the Barbie Does Dating podcast, we share funny first kisses, and we talk about “the tongue.”

When is it okay to “French Kiss” and how can kissing impact the relationship? We discuss this and more with plenty of laughs, and stories that might be so scary to make your own tongue go down your  own throat. Kissing Stories! From first to French, the good, the bad, the wet.

Here is the “virgin kiss” that Barbie refers to in the episode. Stay till the end to see the awkwardness.

Are you dealing with dating burnout? Tired of going on first date after first date and are just getting exhausted? We hear ya! So our hosts, Barbie, Steve, and Nick, have some advice, some empathy, and a few laughs thrown in to help you over come the stress of dating.

Dating burnout can happen when you are first starting in the dating world, or if you are a “seasoned single.” The reality is that it is hard for people to go through the emotional ups and downs of the dating scene. First dates feel like you have to put on your best face and just hope for a second date…unless it was a bad date in which case you have to go through the stress of avoiding a second date. Trying to manage the emotional marathon that is the dating world can be exhausting and perhaps even a little depressing. Loss of hope is another common issue for those with dating burnout.

Good thing Barbie and the gang have your back. Give this episode a listen for a fun break from the dating blues. See if you can’t find a way to make dating burnout turn into a few low burning embers of faith in the notion of finding meaningful relationships.