Be happy with the home & fittings that they have worked for together and not always be asking for more. Like having to have this season's new soft furnishings, for example, it won't matter next season that you had last seasons furnishings.

Don't waste time "wishing you had this and that"

Never being satisfied will only make you and your husband unhappy, instead be happy and proud with what you have, the important thing is you did this together, whether you are a stay at home wife or career wife you are still a team, a team that built your home together.