In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

• Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at [email protected]

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at [email protected]

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.

This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at [email protected]

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi. 

Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at [email protected]

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ 

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too! 

Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed! 

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H. 

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine 

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk