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TL;DR: How to Give a Better Blow Job - Part 2

Oral sex is about presence, rhythm, confidence, not porn-star performance.

Techniques like The Claudia, Twist & Shout, and The Cheater combine hand and mouth play to amplify pleasure and reduce fatigue.

Explore deeper stimulation with perineum pressure, blindfolds for sensory play, and jaw-saving positions.

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Communication is key. Pay attention to feedback, ask what feels good, and don’t forget: you don’t need to swallow to be a sex goddess.

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Advanced Oral Sex Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

Let’s be honest: good oral is more than a mechanical act. It’s about presence, enthusiasm, rhythm, communication, and confidence. And in this episode, we dive into the next level of blow job techniques, the ones that hit the inner nerve endings, intensify orgasmic contractions, and bring your partner’s whole body into the experience. By the end, you'll have the best blow job tips to rock your partner's world.

We’re not here to pressure you into performance, because pleasure isn’t a performance. But if you want to explore and experiment, here are some techniques you can try when the mood strikes.

The Claudia: The Handjob to End All Blowjobs

Two hands, fingers interlaced, lube (twice as much as you think you need), and strokes that wrap and slide along the entire shaft. Add warm hands and slow breathing to mimic the sensation of your mouth, and voilà, you’ve got a tunnel of pleasure that can reduce your gag reflex while increasing intensity.

Warm your hands. Use a silky lubricant. Breathe on your partner’s skin as you descend. Use your hands as an extension of your mouth and stroke in a fluid, undulating motion.

The Twist & Shout (With Hands or Mouth)

With your hands: Start with a thumbs-down grip at the base, twist gently as you ascend, and flick your thumb or tongue over the frenulum (aka the F-spot, that sensitive underside where the head meets the shaft). Use a twisting motion that’s subtle and sensual rather than aggressive.

With your mouth: As you reach the head, rotate gently and flick your tongue. Don’t overthink it. Let your body lead.

The Cheater: When Your Jaw Gets Tired

We’ve all been there. Your jaw starts cramping, but you want to keep going. Use your thumb and index finger to press on either side of your lips to create a tighter seal without taxing your muscles. Think of it as outsourcing the work to your hands. Squeeze gently to simulate the feel of a tighter mouth and keep stroking.

The Supermodel (Cheek-Sucking Move)

Suck your cheeks in like you’re serving face on a runway. The pressure amps up the intensity. This is a finishing move for when things are heating up.

The Tight Squeeze

Wrap your lips around your teeth (top lip covering upper teeth, tongue covering bottom teeth) and clamp down on your finger or the shaft gently. You get maximum pressure without ever letting your teeth graze the skin. This one takes practice, but the payoff is worth it.