Beyond The High Road of Parental Alienation

To Gift or Not to Gift: Modeling Unconditional Love as an Alienated Parent

00:40 The Dilemma of Gift Giving

Overcoming Mental Barriers to Achieve Your Goals

Understanding and Revising First Thoughts

In this episode of the Beyond the High Road podcast, host Shelby Milford tackles the prevalent "I can't because..." mentality among alienated parents. Shelby shares her personal journey through financial instability, mixed parental guidance, and trauma, illustrating how these factors foster dependence and hinder growth. She discusses the cycle of outsourcing responsibility and the pitfalls of self-pity and entitlement. Emphasizing the importance of self-reliance and financial independence, Shelby urges listeners to break free from societal judgments, create value, and embrace self-belief and resilience. This episode aims to empower alienated parents to move away from dependency, overcome financial hurdles, and achieve personal freedom and well-being.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Start

00:50 Mid-Workout Realization

02:48 Addressing Victim Mentality

04:31 Personal Experiences with Financial Struggles

08:42 Mixed Messages About Money

13:06 Reliance on Others and Toxic Cycles

24:24 Breaking the Cycle of Reliance

25:59 My Inspiration to Take the Leap

27:32 Fear of Cutting the Safety Net

29:00 The Trap of Dependency

29:50 The Slippery Slope of Entitlement

32:00 Creating Self-Sufficiency

33:59 Breaking the Cycle of Victimhood

39:23 Taking Responsibility and Moving Forward

43:04 Empowerment Through Self-Creation

45:47 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Healing Through Vulnerability: Overcoming Trauma and Strengthening Bonds

Managing Anxiety and Preparing for Challenges Amid Crisis

In episode 105 of the 'Beyond the High Road' podcast, Shelby Milford shares a deeply personal story about her pattern of losing sentimental items and grappling with self-judgment. She explores the theme of how clinging to the past and its narratives can hinder personal growth and future potential. Shelby offers insights into overcoming negative beliefs and perceptions, especially for alienated parents, and emphasizes the importance of defining oneself and one's future independent of past experiences. The episode also includes announcements about her upcoming live sessions and the opening of the AP survival course.

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- 10/05/24 4pm Facebook Private Group

- 10/06/24 4pm YouTube Live

00:00 Introduction to Beyond the High Road Podcast

00:28 Upcoming Live Sessions and Announcements

02:00 The Power of Practical Application

02:35 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

04:19 Personal Story of Loss & Identity

10:43 The Illusion of Control

18:11 Embracing Change and Moving Forward

29:48 The Role of Perception in Shaping Reality

34:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Navigating Hardships: Transforming Struggles into Growth

She shares her approach to obstacles, emphasizes the significance of showing up, and offers her thoughts on how setbacks can serve as opportunities for growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to register for a free worry workshop and ongoing group coaching sessions.

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In this episode, Shelby introduces the concept of 'rulesets' and ‘manuals' that we unconsciously create for ourselves and the people in our lives. She dissects the polarizing advice often given to alienated parents, urging them to 'become the opposite of whatever the alienating parent is accusing you of,' and argues for a more mindful, balanced approach.

She stresses the importance of recognizing both good and bad qualities in ourselves and others for personal growth and emotional peace. Shelby also discusses her upcoming course module called 'Roots,' aimed at helping people understand their self-perception and inherent biases. The episode encourages listeners to redefine their perspectives, embrace their unique traits, and find a balanced outlook on life's challenges.

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00:00 Introduction and Announcements

00:58 Course Details and Benefits

03:30 Default Negative Thinking

04:08 Workshop on Worrying

05:30 Rule Sets, Tone & Personal Narratives

08:10 Challenging Black / White Thinking

09:26 "Become The Opposite of Their Accusations"

11:00 Embracing Your Good, Bad, & 'Ugly'

14:25 Haters

15:40 50/50 Concept Introduction

18:50 Finding Peace Through Understanding

30:57 Daily Perceptions and Their Impact

32:53 Conclusion and Course Sign-Up

Navigating the Waves of Grief

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