This conversation delves into the complexities of parental alienation, exploring personal experiences, emotional struggles, and the importance of community support. The panel discusses the challenges faced in navigating relationships, the role of institutions, and the impact of recovery tools in managing crises. Through shared stories and insights, the discussion highlights the need for patience, understanding, and resilience in the face of familial estrangement.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation is a complex issue that is often misunderstood.
• Personal experiences of alienation can vary greatly among individuals.
• Community support plays a crucial role in recovery from parental alienation.
• Emotional regulation is key in navigating relationships with estranged family members.
• Institutions often lack understanding of parental alienation, complicating recovery efforts.
• Recovery tools, such as patience and surrender, can help manage crises.
• It's important to take time before responding to emotionally charged situations.
• The journey of recovery is ongoing and requires continuous effort and support.
• Coping mechanisms evolve over time as individuals gain more experience in recovery.
• Building resilience is essential for dealing with the challenges of parental alienation.

Chapters

00:00 - Understanding Parental Alienation
02:39 - Personal Experiences and Introductions
05:42 - Check-In: Current Emotional States
08:54 - Navigating Relationships and Recovery
11:48 - The Role of Institutions in Parental Alienation
14:54 - Complexities of Parental Alienation
17:56 - The Impact of Recovery Tools
20:40 - Coping Mechanisms in Crisis
24:06 - Community Support and Resilience
26:47 - Reflections on Recovery and Growth

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Charles McCready, a compassion-based coach who shares insights on parental alienation and the healing journey for parents and children. The conversation covers the importance of understanding child alienation, the dynamics of trust and connection, and the role of grandparents. Charles introduces his nine-step program designed to help parents navigate their emotions and improve their relationships with their children. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-work, support networks, and the importance of living one's life while waiting for reconnection with children.

Key Takeaways

• Advocate for parents to take their own healing journey.
• Changing parenting styles can positively impact relationships.
• Children often experience loyalty conflicts during alienation.
• Understanding the alienating parent's control mechanisms is crucial.
• The nine-step program focuses on both parents and children.
• Building trust with adult children requires a different approach.
• Grandparents should also engage in their own healing process.
• Self-work is essential for effective parenting.
• Living your life while waiting for reconnection is important.
• Support networks can provide necessary resources for parents.

Chapters

00:00 - Healing Journeys and Parenting Dynamics
02:52 - Understanding Child Alienation and Its Effects
05:57 - The Nine-Step Program for Reconnection
08:56 - Building Trust and Connection with Adult Children
11:39 - The Role of Grandparents in Alienation
14:50 - Empowerment Through Self-Work and Support
17:48 - Living Your Life While Waiting for Reconnection
20:43 - Strategies for Reestablishing Contact
23:53 - The Importance of Support Networks
26:42 - Conclusion and Future Conversations

For more detailed information regarding Charlie McCready and the 9-step program, please click the link below:

https://charliemccready.com/

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1sU40Zul0RDNDxb-Vmh0-bWkXpyRnO0qj/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1JcmEUSYpt25kkBUCQP2DnmtO7bZI7Cz-/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1WaClh5wrJ3AYY9cD4lnrD0aYg-wh61cJ/view?usp=sharing

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

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Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this conversation, Lawrence Joss interviews Charles McCready, a parental alienation coach, who shares his personal experiences and insights on the complexities of parental alienation. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by parents, the concept of pre-alienation, and the importance of understanding the child's perspective. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to focus on their own healing and emotional regulation to foster trust and connection with their children. Practical strategies for preparing for interactions with children and the long-term nature of healing from alienation are also highlighted.

Key Takeaways

• Grief and vulnerability are interconnected in parental alienation.
• Parental alienation can begin subtly and escalate over time.
• Understanding pre-alienation helps in recognizing early signs.
• Children often feel caught in loyalty conflicts during alienation.
• Emotional regulation is crucial for parents dealing with alienation.
• Parents must focus on their healing to support their children.
• Trust is built through consistent, safe interactions with children.
• Preparation for meetings with children can prevent emotional triggers.
• Healing from alienation is a long-term process requiring dedication.
• Self-awareness and understanding of triggers are key to recovery.

Chapters

00:00 - Understanding Grief and Vulnerability
00:41 - Introduction to Parental Alienation
02:04 - The Complexity of Parental Alienation
03:56 - Personal Experiences with Alienation
05:45 - The Concept of Pre-Alienation
08:52 - Cognitive Dissonance in Children
10:02 - The Dynamics of Healing and Safety
11:58 - Navigating Emotions as a Parent
17:47 - The Nine Emotions of Alienation
22:05 - Practical Strategies for Parents
27:04 - The Importance of Continuous Healing

For more detailed information regarding Charlie McCready and the 9-step program, please click the link below:

https://charliemccready.com/

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1sU40Zul0RDNDxb-Vmh0-bWkXpyRnO0qj/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1JcmEUSYpt25kkBUCQP2DnmtO7bZI7Cz-/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1WaClh5wrJ3AYY9cD4lnrD0aYg-wh61cJ/view?usp=sharing

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - [email protected]
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode, Lawrence Joss explores the transformative power of nonviolent communication, sharing personal anecdotes and practical examples. He emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for open dialogue, understanding feelings and needs, and building connections in relationships. Through various scenarios, he illustrates how effective communication can lead to healing and growth, both personally and within family dynamics. The conversation highlights the significance of vulnerability, empathy, and the ongoing journey of mastering communication skills.

Key Takeaways

• Creating a safe space allows for open communication.
• Nonviolent communication can transform relationships.
• Understanding feelings is key to resolving conflicts.
• Building bridges requires empathy and connection.
• Vulnerability fosters deeper conversations.
• Effective communication can lead to healing.
• Recognizing needs is essential in dialogue.
• Personal growth is a continuous journey.
• Emotional work is necessary for transformation.
• Nonviolent communication is a powerful tool for change.

Chapters

00:00 - Creating Safe Spaces for Communication
02:53 - The Power of Nonviolent Communication
05:45 - Navigating Difficult Conversations
09:03 - Understanding Feelings and Needs
11:50 - Building Bridges in Relationships
14:42 - Transforming Conflict into Connection
18:00 - The Role of Vulnerability in Communication
20:51 - The Journey of Personal Growth
24:00 - The Impact of Nonviolent Communication on Relationships

For more information regarding nonviolent communication:
https://www.cnvc.org/

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - [email protected]
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode, Lawrence Joss explores the complexities of estrangement and the transformative power of nonviolent communication (NVC). He discusses the emotional turmoil experienced by both parents and children in estranged relationships, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding. Through real-life examples, he illustrates how NVC can facilitate healing and connection, even in the most challenging situations. The conversation highlights the need for space, boundaries, and the role of support systems in navigating difficult family dynamics. Joss encourages listeners to practice NVC in everyday interactions and to engage with their community for support and growth.

Key Takeaways

• Nonviolent communication is crucial for healing relationships.
• Understanding emotions is key to effective communication.
• Children in estranged relationships often feel overwhelmed and confused.
• Honesty must be paired with compassion to avoid harm.
• Creating space and boundaries is essential for emotional well-being.
• Reflecting feelings back to others fosters connection.
• Support systems play a vital role in navigating estrangement.
• Practicing empathy can transform everyday interactions.
• Acknowledging the complexity of feelings leads to better understanding.
• Community engagement is important for personal growth and healing.

Chapters

00:00 - Understanding the Impact of Parental Alienation
02:56 - The Power of Nonviolent Communication
06:03 - Navigating Difficult Conversations with Children
08:45 - Emotional Responses and Understanding Needs
12:05 - Building Bridges Through Reflection
14:56 - Real-Life Applications of Nonviolent Communication
17:41 - Addressing Feelings of Abandonment
21:01 - Creating Connection in Challenging Situations
23:51 - The Importance of Community Support
26:41 - Finding Paths Forward in Relationships
30:02 - Encouragement and Closing Thoughts

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - [email protected]
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode, Lawrence Joss and John discuss Byron Katie's The Work, a transformative framework for addressing limiting beliefs and emotional pain. They explore the internal processes of dealing with trauma, the impact of thoughts on family dynamics, and the importance of personal agency in finding peace. John shares personal experiences and insights on how The Work has helped him and others navigate complex emotions and relationships, emphasizing the power of self-awareness and internal freedom.

Key Takeaways

• It's all internal, and I can actually deal with it.
• The Work is a phenomenal framework to work through limiting beliefs.
• Every time you do The Work, it's a little bit different.
• The thought creates anxiety and fear, but I'm still the same person.
• I can find love for her after all we've gone through.
• I don't need that person to change to find peace.
• The Work allows me to continually find a place to go when things aren't working.
• I've seen people's lives radically alter in doing The Work.
• It's an empowerment model that doesn't have a fee associated with it.
• The internal change can manifest outwardly in relationships.

Chapters

00:00 - Understanding Internal Freedom
02:55 - Exploring Byron Katie's The Work
06:01 - Navigating Family Dynamics
08:47 - The Power of Thought and Perception
12:02 - Agency and Personal Responsibility
15:05 - Transformation Through The Work
17:43 - Conclusion and Reflections

This link contains downloads for worksheets, a video library, podcasts, and more on Byron Katie’s work:

https://thework.com/

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - [email protected]
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Laurence Joss engages in a deep conversation with John about Byron Katie's transformative work. They explore the impact of limiting beliefs, particularly in the context of parental alienation and estrangement. John shares his personal journey with the work, detailing how it has helped him navigate emotional pain and trauma. The discussion includes practical applications of the work, focusing on the four questions that guide individuals in questioning their stressful thoughts. The episode emphasizes the importance of community support and the resources available for those dealing with similar challenges.

Key Takeaways

• Byron Katie's work helps in identifying and questioning limiting beliefs.
• The process involves writing down stressful thoughts and questioning them.
• Emotional responses can be traced back to specific thoughts.
• The work encourages individuals to explore their internal experiences.
• Community support is crucial in navigating parental alienation.
• The questions in the work are designed to provoke deep self-reflection.
• Understanding one's emotional ecosystem can lead to healing.
• The work can be applied to various personal and relational challenges.
• Resources for the work are freely available online.
• Engaging with the work can lead to transformative insights. 

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction to Parental Alienation and Byron Katie's Work
02:59 - Understanding Byron Katie's Journey and the Work
05:48 - The Process of The Work: Questions and Turnarounds
08:51 - Exploring Limiting Beliefs and Emotional Responses
11:53 - Practical Application: A Case Study on Parent-Child Relationships
14:54 - Deep Dive into Emotional Ecosystems and Healing
17:53 - The Importance of Community and Support
20:40 - Final Thoughts and Resources for Listeners

This link contains downloads for worksheets, a video library, podcasts, and more on Byron Katie’s work:

https://thework.com/

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email - [email protected]

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss discusses the importance of community service, personal transformation, and emotional well-being, particularly in the context of parental alienation. He shares his experiences with nature, the significance of having a plan for emotionally charged days like Father's Day, and the impact of nonviolent communication and 12-step programs on mental health. The episode emphasizes the value of podcasts as a resource for support and encourages listeners to engage with their communities and contribute to the cause.

Key Takeaways

• Commit to picking up a service position and show up at meetings.
• Personal transformation can occur through connection with nature.
• Having a plan for emotionally charged days is crucial.
• Dance and movement can help reconnect with emotions.
• Podcasts can significantly improve mental health and coping mechanisms.
• Regular attendance in 12-step programs leads to significant lifestyle changes.
• Service to the community can provide personal relief and fulfillment.
• Sharing resources and information is vital for community support.
• Engagement in community activities can help alleviate feelings of isolation.
• It's important to express gratitude and love, even in challenging relationships.

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction to Community and Service
02:45 - Personal Transformation Through Nature
06:01 - Navigating Father's Day Emotions
08:56 - The Importance of Communication and Connection
11:51 - The Role of Nonviolent Communication
14:44 - The Impact of 12-Step Programs
17:58 - The Power of Service and Community Engagement

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email-      [email protected]

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this 100th episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss reflects on the journey of creating a supportive community for those affected by parental alienation. He shares insights from a recent survey, highlighting the generational impact of estrangement and the importance of community support in healing. The episode emphasizes the struggles of grief, loss, and anxiety while celebrating the transformations experienced by listeners and participants in the community. Joss encourages connection and self-care, reminding everyone that they are not alone in their experiences.

Key Takeaways

• You're not alone in your grief.
• Community-based activities have been transformational.
• One third could track generational alienation.
• Two thirds are in the court system.
• Two thirds said their relationships improved.
• Grief, loss, and anxiety are top struggles.
• Community is what saves my life every day.
• Transformation means I can breathe and engage in life.
• Self-care is essential for relationships with children.
• I love you, and that's transformational.

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction and Personal Reflections on Grief
02:55 - Celebrating 100 Episodes and Community Engagement
05:40 - The Birth of Parental Alienation Advocates
08:55 - Understanding Generational Impact of Alienation
11:44 - Survey Insights: The Community's Struggles
15:02 - Mental Health and Community Support
17:51 - Transformation Through Connection and Healing
20:38 - Closing Thoughts and Affirmations

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email-      [email protected]

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

This conversation explores the themes of self-love, gratitude, and recovery from alienation. The speakers share their personal journeys, emphasizing the importance of connecting with oneself and the transformative power of gratitude. They discuss how alienation has led to unexpected connections and deeper empathy in relationships, as well as the challenges and growth that come from navigating these experiences. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the ongoing process of healing and personal development.

Key Takeaways

• Learning to love oneself is crucial for recovery.
• Gratitude can shift perspectives and enhance life experiences.
• Alienation can lead to unexpected and valuable connections.
• Empathy for others can transform relationships.
• Past experiences shape our current perspectives on relationships.
• Self-connection is essential for healthy relationships with others.
• Recovery is a long process that requires patience and humility.
• Community support is vital in the journey of healing.
• Recognizing the importance of small wins in recovery is key.
• Gratitude can be found in the most challenging situations.

Chapters

00:00 - The Journey of Self-Love
02:05 - Understanding Gratitude in Recovery
04:00 - Alienation and Unexpected Connections
09:20 - Transforming Relationships Through Empathy
13:00 - Lessons from Past Relationships
20:22 - The Importance of Self-Connection
25:41 - Hope and Community in Recovery
29:38 - Gratitude for Future Opportunities

Related Gratitude Episodes:

• “Grateful and Grieving” – A panel of alienated parents share their stories Part 1
•  “Grateful and Grieving” – A panel of alienated parents share their stories Part 2 
• Letting Go, Holding On: The Paradox of Healing from Alienation & Estrangement

If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

Email-      [email protected]

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

Please donate to support PAA programs:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXS

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]