In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss speaks with therapist Emily Moon about the complexities of parenting during high-conflict divorce situations. They explore the emotional challenges faced by parents, the impact of parental alienation, and the importance of vulnerability and accountability in parenting. Emily shares her personal experiences with alienation and offers insights into common challenges parents face, including counter-parenting dynamics and the need for emotional regulation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of teaching children about right and wrong while acknowledging their feelings and developmental stages.

Key Takeaways

• Parenting in high-conflict situations can be overwhelming.
• Striving for perfection in parenting can lead to harm.
• Alienating parents often prioritize conflict over children's well-being.
• Hopelessness is a common feeling among targeted parents.
• Children's emotional states are influenced by their parents' emotions.
• Vulnerability fosters deeper connections with children.
• Parents should acknowledge their imperfections to teach accountability.
• Understanding child development is crucial in parenting discussions.
• Counterparenting can severely impact children's emotional health.
• Support systems are essential for parents navigating these challenges.

Emily Moon: https://www.emilymoon.life/

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

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Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

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In this New Year's episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss reflects on the past year, discussing personal growth, community support, and the journey of reconnecting with children affected by parental alienation. Guests share their experiences of acceptance, forgiveness, and the importance of setting intentions for the new year, emphasizing the need for patience and self-compassion in the healing process. In this conversation, participants reflect on their intentions for the New Year, emphasizing the importance of setting personal goals, the healing power of writing, and the significance of building connections with family. They discuss the challenges of acceptance in relationships, the joy of community, and the value of service as a means of personal growth. The dialogue highlights the emotional complexities of family dynamics and the shared journey of recovery, culminating in a hopeful outlook for the future.

Key Takeaways

• Community support is vital during challenging times.
• Personal growth often comes from acceptance of difficult situations.
• Reconnecting with children requires patience and understanding.
• Forgiveness is a nuanced part of emotional recovery.
• Setting intentions can help guide personal growth in the new year.
• It's important to acknowledge both the joys and struggles of parenting.
• Practicing self-compassion can lead to a richer life experience.
• Engaging in lighthearted activities can balance serious recovery work.
• Building a supportive community can foster healing and connection.
• Recognizing the blessings in life can shift focus from loss to gratitude. Setting goals can create balance in life.
• Writing can be a powerful tool for healing.
• Journaling helps process emotions and experiences.
• Creating connections is essential for emotional well-being.
• Acceptance is key in navigating family relationships.
• Service to others can provide a sense of purpose.
• Embracing joy and community enhances recovery.
• It's important to allow space for all emotions.
• Modeling acceptance can positively influence children.
• Finding joy in simple activities can uplift spirits.

LINKS FOR PREVIOUS THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS PODCASTS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvS8LXhLs3w&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=18

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GirAtZbHciI&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=19

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlzMvk29zYo&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this Christmas episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss and guests discuss the challenges of parental alienation during the holidays. They share personal stories of estrangement, recovery, and the importance of community support. The conversation highlights the emotional complexities of missing loved ones while also finding joy in new traditions and connections.

The guests reflect on their journeys, the significance of planning for the holidays, and the cherished memories that bring warmth to their experiences. In this conversation, participants share their experiences and strategies for navigating the emotional complexities of the holiday season, particularly in the context of estrangement and alienation. They discuss the importance of having a plan, finding joy through service, creating new memories, and leaning into community support. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mental health and self-care during the holidays, encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings and seek connection with others.

Key Takeaways

• Christmas can be a painful reminder of estrangement.
• Recovery allows for a better connection with oneself.
• Creating new traditions is essential for healing.
• It's important to live for oneself, not just for the kids.
• Hope for the future is a powerful motivator.
• Community support is crucial during the holidays.
• Finding joy in small moments can uplift spirits.
• Planning for the holidays can provide structure and comfort.
• Cherished memories can bring warmth amidst challenges.
• Emotional well-being is key to navigating estrangement. The devastation of alienation can lead to a lack of motivation during the holidays.
• Having a plan can provide emotional grounding and structure.
• Engaging in service work can help shift focus from personal pain to joy in helping others.
• Creating new holiday memories is essential for personal healing.
• Mental health strategies, such as community support, are crucial during the holidays.
• Leaning into relationships and connections can combat feelings of isolation.
• It's important to acknowledge and communicate personal feelings and needs.
• Finding joy in small traditions can help maintain a sense of normalcy.
• Self-care practices are vital for emotional well-being during the holidays.
• Embracing gratitude can lead to a more positive holiday experience.

LINKS FOR PREVIOUS THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS PODCASTS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvS8LXhLs3w&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=18

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GirAtZbHciI&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=19

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlzMvk29zYo&list=PLXKmbDpvEQfXvYyjv88EZIkhDJZtGT8h2&index=

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with attorney Rachel King, who shares valuable insights on navigating the legal system, particularly in family law.

They discuss the importance of understanding the attorney-client relationship, managing legal fees, and clients' rights when facing attorney misconduct. Rachel also provides a sneak peek into her upcoming book, which aims to empower individuals going through divorce and family law issues. The episode concludes with a discussion on self-representation in court and the challenges it presents.

Key Takeaways

• Understanding your agency in legal matters is crucial.
• 95% of family law cases settle, often without trial.
• Effective communication with your attorney can prevent misunderstandings.
• Reviewing invoices promptly can help manage legal fees.
• Judges have discretion, making family law unpredictable.
• Observing court proceedings can provide valuable insights.
• Self-representation requires a solid understanding of the law.
• Emotional detachment is key for effective legal representation.
• Word choice in court can significantly impact outcomes.
• Reporting attorney misconduct is a viable option.

Chapters
00:00 Navigating Legal Relationships

04:46 Understanding Attorney Fees and Billing Practices

10:59 Addressing Attorney Misconduct and Client Rights

15:42 Insights from Rachel King's Upcoming Book

31:10 Self-Representation in Family Law Cases

Rachel King - https://rachelkingattorney.com/
Rachel's book - "Getting Divorced - Now What?"

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
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Feeling overwhelmed during a court appearance can be a daunting experience, but attorney Rachel King is here to guide you through the legal maze with confidence. In our latest episode, Rachel draws from her expertise to share transformative strategies for selecting the right attorney and maintaining agency in your legal battles. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, Rachel's insights will empower you to navigate the legal landscape with poise. Her upcoming book promises to be a vital resource for anyone looking to better understand the intricacies of legal representation.

We dive into the heart of family law litigation, highlighting the importance of selecting a trustworthy attorney who communicates openly and sets realistic expectations. Trusting your instincts is essential when choosing legal representation, especially in challenging situations like divorce or parental alienation cases. Rachel also sheds light on recognizing ineffective legal representation and understanding when an attorney may not be the right fit, ensuring you're never stuck with unrealistic promises or poor communication.

Effective client-attorney communication is the cornerstone of a successful legal journey. Rachel emphasizes the need for clear expectations and understanding between clients and their legal representatives, urging both parties to establish mutual guidelines from the outset. As we wrap up, we focus on the positive impact of community support and kindness, encouraging listeners to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from its empowering insights. Join us in spreading gratitude and continuing our exploration of the legal world with open hearts and minds.

Rachel King - https://rachelkingattorney.com/
Rachel's book - "Getting Divorced - Now What?"

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Dr. Sue, focusing on the themes of healing, responsibility, and the complexities of parent-child and grandparent-grandchild relationships. Dr. Sue emphasizes the importance of empathy, self-compassion, and understanding in navigating these relationships, while also addressing the challenges posed by narcissistic individuals. The discussion highlights the need for personal growth and the significance of setting boundaries to foster healthier connections.

Key Takeaways

• Healing starts with taking responsibility for our actions.
• It's crucial to meet children where they are emotionally.
• Self-compassion is essential for personal growth.
• Children should not bear the emotional burdens of their parents.
• Empathy can bridge gaps in strained relationships.
• Grandparents must resolve issues with parents first.
• Time and patience are key in rebuilding relationships.
• You can only change your own behavior, not others.
• Good enough parenting is sufficient for healthy development.
• Conflict resolution requires compassion and understanding.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Responsibility
02:55 Navigating Parent-Child Relationships
06:14 The Role of Grandparents in Reconnection
09:02 Empathy and Understanding in Relationships
11:49 Self-Compassion and Overcoming Shame
14:50 Boundaries and Emotional Needs
18:04 Managing Conflict with Narcissistic Individuals
20:53 The Importance of Personal Change
24:04 Final Thoughts and Resources

Dr Sue Cornbluth - www.drsueandyou.com

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

What happens when the people you love decide not to spend the holidays with you? Join me, Lawrence Joss, as I navigate the emotional minefield of family dynamics during Thanksgiving. Through my personal journey, I explore the crucial steps of emotional and spiritual healing, finding solace and understanding in the face of family estrangement. Drawing from personal growth and the support of a 12-step program, I share the emotional labor required to accept and validate loved ones' choices. Whether you're experiencing alienation from your children or strained relationships with siblings, discover how community and support groups, like Parental Alienation Anonymous, can be a lifeline during the holiday season.

Our journey doesn’t stop at understanding; it moves toward action, creativity, and new traditions. I offer insights on managing limited interactions during holiday gatherings, emphasizing the importance of being present, flexible, and understanding, especially when time with loved ones is scarce. From creating collaborative artworks to redefining Thanksgiving traditions, this episode is a heartfelt guide for fostering positivity in challenging circumstances. Hear how embracing new Thanksgiving traditions can bring unexpected joy, and uncover practical advice on navigating reunions with young adult children. Connect with our podcast community, share your stories, and become part of a supportive network dedicated to healing and growth.

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss interviews Dr. Sue Cornbluth, a national parenting expert specializing in parental alienation and estrangement. The conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, emphasizing the importance of self-connection and accountability in healing relationships.

Dr. Sue shares her insights on the differences between alienation and estrangement, the necessity of self-compassion, and effective communication strategies for reconnecting with children and grandchildren. The episode highlights the long-term nature of healing and the need for parents to take responsibility for their actions while fostering healthier relationships.

Key Takeaways

• Self-compassion is crucial for emotional healing.
• Reconnecting with oneself is essential before reconnecting with children.
• Alienation involves one parent brainwashing the child against the other.
• Estrangement is when children distance themselves from their parents due to various factors.
• Accountability means feeling the impact of one's actions on one's children.
• Healing takes time and requires self-awareness and coping skills.
• Effective communication is key to rebuilding trust with children.
• Acceptance does not mean liking the situation but recognizing it.
• Parents must meet children on their terms for reconnection.
• No one is a perfect parent; mistakes are part of the journey.

Dr Sue Cornbluth - www.drsueandyou.com

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss delves into the complexities of alienation and estrangement within family dynamics. The conversation explores how communication styles, conflict avoidance, and personal reflections on parenting contribute to these issues. Guests share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of understanding and adapting communication to foster healthier relationships. The discussion highlights the challenges of navigating emotions, the impact of family origins on behavior, and the potential for growth and healing through self-awareness and accountability. 

In this conversation, participants explore the complexities of parental alienation, the futility of seeking validation from professionals, and the transformative power of recovery. They share personal experiences of navigating the legal and mental health systems, the challenges of communication, and the journey toward self-acceptance and healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of personal growth, compassion, and finding balance in life amidst struggles.

Key Takeaways

• We contribute to alienation unknowingly.
• Conflict avoidance can perpetuate dysfunction.
• Meeting children where they are is crucial.
• Disagreements can strengthen relationships.
• Communication styles are learned behaviors.
• No communication can be a damaging form of communication.
• Defensive responses hinder connection.
• Reflecting on past mistakes is essential for growth.
• Understanding family dynamics is key to healing.
• Taking ownership of our actions fosters accountability. Nobody wins in alienation; it's a losing game for all.
• The desire to win can lead to destructive behaviors.
• Seeking validation from professionals can drain energy.
• Personal growth often requires letting go of the need to be right.
• Recovery involves shifting focus from past trauma to present healing.
• Finding balance is crucial for emotional well-being.
• Self-care practices can significantly improve mental health.
• Embracing change can lead to new opportunities for happiness.
• Compassion for oneself is essential for healing.
• Sharing experiences in the community fosters understanding and growth.

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss and a panel of parents discuss the complex dynamics of parental alienation. They explore their roles in contributing to alienation, the emotional struggles they face, and the impact of their family of origin on their current relationships. Through personal stories and reflections, the panel emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, forgiveness, and healing in navigating the challenges of estrangement and rebuilding connections with their children.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation is a complex issue that affects many families.
• Self-reflection is crucial in understanding our role in alienation.
• Emotional dysregulation can lead to unintentional alienating behaviors.
• Forgiveness and compassion for ourselves are essential in the healing process.
• Family of origin dynamics often influence our current relationships.
• Codependency can hinder our ability to be present for our children.
• It's important to allow children to have their own experiences with both parents.
• Learning from mistakes can lead to personal growth and improved relationships.
• Support groups provide valuable resources and community for healing.
• The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience and understanding.

Episode Highlights:
00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation
02:53 Understanding Our Role in Alienation
06:12 Panel Introductions and Personal Stories
08:56 The Alienator Within Us
12:11 Reflections on Personal Contributions to Alienation
14:52 Family of Origin Influences
18:08 Coping Mechanisms and Their Impact
20:48 Learning from Mistakes
24:01 The Journey of Healing and Forgiveness
26:52 Conclusion and Call to Action

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]