Family Disappeared

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss delves into the complexities of alienation and estrangement within family dynamics. The conversation explores how communication styles, conflict avoidance, and personal reflections on parenting contribute to these issues. Guests share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of understanding and adapting communication to foster healthier relationships. The discussion highlights the challenges of navigating emotions, the impact of family origins on behavior, and the potential for growth and healing through self-awareness and accountability. 

In this conversation, participants explore the complexities of parental alienation, the futility of seeking validation from professionals, and the transformative power of recovery. They share personal experiences of navigating the legal and mental health systems, the challenges of communication, and the journey toward self-acceptance and healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of personal growth, compassion, and finding balance in life amidst struggles.

Key Takeaways

• We contribute to alienation unknowingly.
• Conflict avoidance can perpetuate dysfunction.
• Meeting children where they are is crucial.
• Disagreements can strengthen relationships.
• Communication styles are learned behaviors.
• No communication can be a damaging form of communication.
• Defensive responses hinder connection.
• Reflecting on past mistakes is essential for growth.
• Understanding family dynamics is key to healing.
• Taking ownership of our actions fosters accountability. Nobody wins in alienation; it's a losing game for all.
• The desire to win can lead to destructive behaviors.
• Seeking validation from professionals can drain energy.
• Personal growth often requires letting go of the need to be right.
• Recovery involves shifting focus from past trauma to present healing.
• Finding balance is crucial for emotional well-being.
• Self-care practices can significantly improve mental health.
• Embracing change can lead to new opportunities for happiness.
• Compassion for oneself is essential for healing.
• Sharing experiences in the community fosters understanding and growth.

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss and a panel of parents discuss the complex dynamics of parental alienation. They explore their roles in contributing to alienation, the emotional struggles they face, and the impact of their family of origin on their current relationships. Through personal stories and reflections, the panel emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, forgiveness, and healing in navigating the challenges of estrangement and rebuilding connections with their children.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation is a complex issue that affects many families.
• Self-reflection is crucial in understanding our role in alienation.
• Emotional dysregulation can lead to unintentional alienating behaviors.
• Forgiveness and compassion for ourselves are essential in the healing process.
• Family of origin dynamics often influence our current relationships.
• Codependency can hinder our ability to be present for our children.
• It's important to allow children to have their own experiences with both parents.
• Learning from mistakes can lead to personal growth and improved relationships.
• Support groups provide valuable resources and community for healing.
• The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience and understanding.

Episode Highlights:
00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation
02:53 Understanding Our Role in Alienation
06:12 Panel Introductions and Personal Stories
08:56 The Alienator Within Us
12:11 Reflections on Personal Contributions to Alienation
14:52 Family of Origin Influences
18:08 Coping Mechanisms and Their Impact
20:48 Learning from Mistakes
24:01 The Journey of Healing and Forgiveness
26:52 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
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Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

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Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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Join us as we embark on a profound exploration of narcissistic family dynamics with our esteemed guest, Randi Fine, a renowned expert in narcissistic abuse. Through this engaging conversation, we unravel the complexities of family roles, parental alienation, and the emotional challenges faced in these environments. Randi brings clarity to the distinctions between dysfunction and true narcissistic traits, offering new perspectives for those navigating these tumultuous waters. As we share personal stories, the episode invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider the impact of patriarchal influences on familial relationships.

Our discussion takes a closer look at the red flags in relationships that often indicate narcissistic behavior, such as rapid relationship progression and manipulative conversational tactics. With Randi's insights, we explore the dynamics of the golden child, scapegoat, and invisible child, and how these roles shape family interactions. We shine a light on the courage required to break free from toxic systems, emphasizing the importance of self-care, personal empowerment, and setting strong examples for the younger generation. The path to healing is fraught with challenges, but the rewards of personal growth and self-discovery are worth every step.

As we wrap up this episode, we celebrate the power of community and gratitude in the healing process. By fostering an environment of support and positivity, we encourage listeners to engage with their healing journeys and share their experiences with others who may benefit. Whether it's through simple joys or deeper connections, this episode is a heartfelt invitation to embrace transformation and continue the journey of growth alongside a supportive community. We look forward to connecting with you in future episodes, where we'll continue to explore these vital themes and offer paths to liberation and empowerment.

Randi Fine - www.randifine.com
"Close Encounters Of The Worst Kind" Randi Fine
https://www.randifine.com/books
FAMILIES DIVIDED TV "Navigating the Dating Scene in Today's World After Alienation from your Children - Randi Fine"

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Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss engages with Randi Fine, a narcissistic abuse expert and recovery coach. They delve into the complexities of narcissism, particularly focusing on its definition as a serious personality disorder, the dynamics of narcissistic abuse within family systems, and the profound impact it has on children. Randi explains how narcissists manipulate their victims, the psychological mechanisms at play, and the long-term effects of growing up in such environments. The conversation also highlights the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships with narcissists and offers insights into the journey of recovery from narcissistic abuse.

Key Takeaways

• Narcissism is a serious personality disorder, not just inflated self-esteem.
• Narcissists objectify people and see them as tools for their needs.
• Children in narcissistic families often suffer from anxiety and other disorders.
• Narcissistic indoctrination starts from birth, affecting children's development.
• The roles assigned to children in narcissistic families can be damaging.
• Narcissists use psychological warfare to control their victims.
• Recognizing red flags in relationships is crucial for prevention.
• Recovery from narcissistic abuse is a complex journey.
• Narcissists require constant admiration and attention to function.
• Understanding the dynamics of narcissistic abuse can aid in healing.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Narcissism and Its Impact

02:57 Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder

05:50 The Dynamics of Narcissistic Abuse in Families

08:45 The Role of Children in Narcissistic Relationships

12:03 The Psychological Mechanisms of Narcissism

14:58 The Long-Term Effects of Narcissistic Parenting

17:48 Recognizing Red Flags in Narcissistic Relationships

21:13 The Journey to Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

Randi Fine - www.randifine.com
"Close Encounters Of The Worst Kind" Randi Fine
https://www.randifine.com/books

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss and Melanie Gill delve into the complexities of parental alienation, and it's profound effects on children. They discuss the concept of ambiguous loss, where children experience a sense of loss for a parent they cannot connect with, leading to emotional neglect and trauma. The conversation explores the roots of parental alienation, therapeutic interventions, and strategies for parents to foster secure attachments with their children. Melanie shares success stories that highlight the potential for change and healing within family systems, emphasizing the importance of understanding attachment as a lifelong bond.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation leads to ambiguous loss for both parents and children.
• Children experience emotional neglect during parental alienation.
• Mindfulness and EMDR can help parents manage their triggers.
• Video interaction guidance supports attunement between parents and children.
• The attachment bond between parent and child is permanent.
• Therapeutic interventions can lead to significant family healing.
• Alienators can change when they recognize the harm they cause.
• Children may exhibit behaviors resembling autism due to trauma.
• Role reversal in children can occur in enmeshed relationships.
• Hope exists for families to reconnect and heal.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation and Ambiguous Loss
04:50 Understanding the Impact of Alienation on Children
11:01 The Roots of Parental Alienation
16:14 Therapeutic Approaches and Interventions
21:30 Strategies for Parents to Foster Secure Attachment
26:17 Success Stories and Hope for Change
31:58 Conclusion: The Permanence of Attachment

Contact Melanie Gill - [email protected]

FAMILIES DIVIDED - youtube.com/c/FamiliesDividedTV

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Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss engages with Melanie Gill, an attachment specialist and psychologist, to explore the profound impact of attachment theory on child development and the implications of parental alienation.

They discuss how disrupted attachment relationships can lead to mental health issues, the neuroscience behind child development, and the importance of advocacy in addressing these challenges. Melanie shares her insights from years of experience as an expert witness in parental alienation cases, emphasizing the need for proper forensic assessments to uncover the truth in complex family dynamics. The conversation highlights the critical role of community support and the ongoing journey of healing for families affected by these issues.

Key Takeaways

• Attachment is fundamental to child development.
• Disrupted attachment can lead to mental health issues.
• Children adapt to their environments, often at a cost.
• Cognitive dissonance can create turmoil in a child's mind.
• Lying can have damaging effects on the brain.
• Neuroscience provides insights into trauma and development.
• Advocacy is crucial for policy change in child welfare.
• Forensic assessments can reveal underlying family dynamics.
• Community support is essential for healing.
• Understanding attachment can help in addressing parental alienation.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Attachment and Parental Alienation
04:14 Understanding Attachment Theory
10:51 The Impact of Disrupted Attachment
19:04 Neuroscience and Child Development
21:29 Advocacy and Political Engagement
28:40 The Role of Forensic Assessment
33:11 Coping with Parental Alienation

Contact Melanie Gill - [email protected]

FAMILIES DIVIDED - youtube.com/c/FamiliesDividedTV

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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What if understanding a single term could transform your family's future? Tune in to our latest episode of the Family Disappeared Podcast, where we dissect the complex issue of parental alienation with the invaluable insights of Dr. Kelley Baker. I share my personal journey of overcoming chronic pain through a collaborative therapeutic approach, underscoring the power of a well-coordinated team that understands the emotional and physical toll parental alienation can take.

Explore the delicate dance between attorneys and mental health professionals in family court cases. Dr. Baker sheds light on how understanding their distinctive roles can significantly impact case outcomes. Learn practical strategies to foster cooperation between your legal and mental health advisors, and discover how to navigate the challenges of professional disagreements. Dr. Baker shares her wisdom on assessing and treating parental alienation, emphasizing balanced professional engagement and the importance of avoiding perceived favoritism.

Discover how integrating individual and family therapy can support child and family mental health. We discuss the necessity of communication between therapists and how parents can facilitate this process through court orders and HIPAA releases. Hear about successful holistic approaches to reintegration, featuring Dr. Baker's inspiring case study that underscores the power of collaboration among legal and mental health professionals. Stay with us until the end for a chance to win a free consultation with Dr. Baker and a sneak peek into her upcoming book on therapeutic interventions for parent-child contact problems.

Dr Baker has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation.  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "Dr Kelley Baker ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be October 7, 2024."

Contact Dr Kelley Baker - [email protected]
Her new book - "Therapeutic Interventions for Parent-Child Contact Problems" is scheduled for release in Fall 2024.

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Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

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Dr. Kelley Baker discusses the court system, assessments, no-contact orders, and the challenges of parental alienation. She emphasizes the importance of advocacy, education, and collaboration between mental health professionals and legal professionals. The conversation also touches on the distinction between parental alienation and estrangement, the impact of false abuse allegations, and the frustrations within the court system. Dr. Baker highlights the need for accurate assessments, timely interventions, and unified teamwork to support families in high-conflict divorces.

Key Takeaways

• Advocacy and education are crucial in navigating the court system and addressing parental alienation.
• Collaboration between mental health professionals and legal professionals is essential for effective interventions.
• False abuse allegations can have a lasting impact on the credibility and reputation of the accused parent.
• Challenges within the court system include delays in obtaining assessments and court orders and the need for coordinated teamwork.
• Accurate assessments, timely interventions, and unified approaches are key to supporting families in high-conflict divorces.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Introduction and Overview

03:23 Advocacy, Education, and Collaboration

13:19 Recognizing Levels of Resistance in Parental Alienation

19:01 Parental Alienation vs. Estrangement

20:26 Accurate vs. False Abuse Allegations

28:33 Challenges within the Court System

32:19 The Importance of Unified Teamwork

33:18 Conclusion and Closing Remarks

Dr Baker has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation.  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "Dr Kelley Baker ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be October 7, 2024."

Contact Dr Kelley Baker - [email protected]

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa, a chronic pain specialist, about the correlation between physical and emotional pain. They discuss the book 'The Way Out' and the concept of pain reprocessing therapy. Vanessa shares success stories of clients who have found relief from chronic pain through this therapy. They also talk about the importance of language in describing pain and the practice of somatic tracking. Overall, the episode emphasizes the possibility of finding relief from pain and improving relationships through understanding and working with the body's sensations.

Key Takeaways

• Physical and emotional pain are often correlated, and addressing emotional pain can help alleviate physical pain.
• Pain reprocessing therapy can help individuals understand and change their relationship with pain, leading to relief.
• Language is important in describing pain, and reframing how we talk about pain can impact our experience of it.
• Somatic tracking is a practice that involves getting curious about the sensations in our body and learning to be present with them.
• Finding relief from chronic pain is possible, and it can lead to improved relationships and a richer life.

PPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" .  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "VANESSA ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."

Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.com
"The Way Out" by Alan Gordon

"Tell Me About Your Pain" podcast: curablehealth.com/tellmeaboutyourpain

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa Blackstone, the executive director at Pain Psychology Center, about chronic pain and its emotional and physical components. They discuss how chronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and how it affects relationships.

Vanessa explains the concept of Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) and how it helps individuals change their response to pain. They also explore the connection between emotional trauma and physical pain, and the importance of getting to know and understand the pain.

The episode ends with Lawrence sharing his personal experience with chronic pain and expressing gratitude for the journey it has led him on.

Key Takeaways

• Chronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and it affects relationships.
• Pain reprocessing therapy (PRT) helps individuals change their response to pain by providing tools and psychoeducation.
• Emotional trauma and physical pain come from the same part of the brain, and our brain sends physical sensations to our body as a response to emotional triggers.
• It is important to get to know and understand the pain before trying to make it go away, as it helps us respond to the physical sensations in a healthier way.
• Chronic pain can be a result of unresolved emotional trauma or a type A personality that is constantly powering through.
• Slowing down, taking care of ourselves, and changing our response to pain can have a profound impact on our overall well-being and relationships.

Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.com

PPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" .  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "VANESSA ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]