Summary

This conversation explores the profound effects of parental alienation on individuals and families, highlighting personal growth, emotional healing, and the journey of reconnecting with estranged children. The speakers share their experiences, insights, and the importance of community support in navigating the challenges of alienation and recovery.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation can lead to a feeling of survival rather than living.
• Engaging in creative expression, like dance, can be healing.
• It's essential to meet estranged children where they are emotionally.
• Recovery involves accepting powerlessness over the situation.
• Children also suffer from the effects of parental alienation.
• Communication should be approached with compassion and understanding.
• Recovery is a continuous journey, not a destination.
• Building a supportive community is crucial for healing.
• Trust in the child's ability to see through alienation.
• Navigating relationships requires emotional intelligence and self-awareness.

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction to Parental Alienation and Personal Growth

04:33 - The Journey of Reuniting with Children

11:38 - Impact of Parental Alienation on Relationships

15:15 - Parenting Without Access: Challenges and Insights

20:37 - Navigating Emotions and Recovery

24:02 - Shifts in Relationships and Communication

30:01 - Lessons Learned and Moving Forward

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss introduces a compilation of impactful moments from previous episodes, focusing on the theme of parental alienation and its profound effects on families. The conversation highlights personal stories of struggle, recovery, and the importance of community support. Various speakers share their experiences with parental alienation, the journey of healing, and the systemic issues within family courts. The episode emphasizes the need for authenticity, vulnerability, and personal growth in the face of adversity, while also calling for systemic change to better support families in crisis.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation can affect anyone in a family.
• Emotional and spiritual work is crucial for healing.
• Support groups provide a sense of community and understanding.
• Recovery involves focusing on oneself and personal growth.
• Authenticity in parenting can lead to healthier relationships.
• Systemic issues in family courts need to be addressed.
• Parenting roles evolve through personal experiences and recovery.
• Acceptance of what is can lead to peace and healing.
• Resources for emotional and legal support are essential.
• Sharing personal stories can help others feel less alone.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Best of Family Disappeared Podcast

01:36 The Impact of Parental Alienation

03:38 Personal Stories of Struggle and Recovery

09:59 Understanding Parental Alienation

12:40 The Journey of Recovery

15:42 Authenticity and Vulnerability in Parenting

19:12 Systemic Issues in Family Courts

20:16 Evolving Parenting Roles

22:49 Lessons from Recovery Steps

29:43 Resources for Support and Change

33:38 Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues the conversation with Dr. William Bernet, focusing on the innovative resources and strategies being developed to address parental alienation. They discuss a new book aimed at educating judges and mental health professionals, the importance of the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG), and the need for accurate information in the field. Dr. Bernet shares insights on the challenges faced by mental health professionals and advocates for awareness of misinformation surrounding parental alienation. The episode concludes with a hopeful story of reunification between a parent and child, emphasizing the potential for positive outcomes in challenging situations.

Key Takeaways

• The new book on parental alienation will be concise and free.  Its title will be "Parental Alienation Theory: official synopsis".
• Innovative testing is being integrated into evaluations for parental alienation.
• The PASG aims to educate and support professionals and families.
• Misinformation about parental alienation is prevalent and harmful.
• Mental health professionals need to seek out education on parental alienation.
• Early intervention can lead to positive outcomes for families.
• The importance of community support in dealing with parental alienation.
• Adversarial collaboration can help resolve disagreements in the field.
• The new book will be available in multiple languages.
• Staying in touch with children can lead to reunification after alienation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation and New Resources

03:03 Innovative Testing and Evaluation in Parental Alienation

10:20 The Launch of a Groundbreaking Book

15:16 Understanding the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG)

18:11 Advice for Mental Health Professionals

22:58 Misinformation and Advocacy in Parental Alienation

25:29 Positive Outcomes and Hopeful Stories

Know more about Dr. Bernet and PASG here:

https://www.pasg.info/

Book title "Parental Alienation Theory: official synopsis"

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss interviews Dr. Bill Bernet, a child psychiatrist and forensic psychiatrist with extensive experience in parental alienation. They discuss the historical context of parental alienation, the role of Richard Gardner in defining the term, and the challenges faced in the court system. Dr. Bernet shares insights on the polarization within the family law community and highlights collaborative efforts to bridge divides. The conversation also touches on innovative strategies for early intervention and the significance of the PARQ test in assessing parental alienation.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation was not widely recognized in the early days.
• Dr. Bill Bernet has been involved in parental alienation for decades.
• Richard Gardner introduced the term parental alienation syndrome in 1985.
• Many therapists still struggle to identify parental alienation.
• Judges have varying levels of understanding about parental alienation.
• Polarization exists between domestic violence advocates and parental alienation proponents.
• Early intervention is crucial for addressing mild cases of parental alienation.
• The PARQ test shows a 99% accuracy in identifying alienated children.
• Collaboration between different advocacy groups is essential for progress.
• The focus should always be on the well-being of the children involved.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation

02:57 Dr. Bill Bernet's Journey in Parental Alienation

05:55 Understanding Parental Alienation: Historical Context

09:08 The Role of Richard Gardner in Defining Parental Alienation

11:51 Navigating the Court System: Challenges and Strategies

14:56 Polarization in the Family Law Community

18:07 Collaborative Efforts: Bridging Divides

21:08 Future Directions in Parental Alienation Research

23:53 Innovative Strategies for Early Intervention

26:54 The PARQ Test: A Breakthrough in Assessment

29:48 Conclusion and Reflections on the Journey

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence and Anna explore the themes of recovery, personal growth, and the impact of family dynamics on relationships. They discuss the importance of community support, the challenges of powerlessness in relationships, and the journey towards self-discovery through meditation and emotional awareness. The conversation highlights the significance of letting go of titles and embracing a more authentic self, as well as the role of chaos in shaping one's identity. Through their personal experiences, they emphasize the transformative power of recovery and the importance of vulnerability in healing.

Key Takeaways

• Recovery is about community, not just individual experiences.
• Letting go of titles can lead to a more authentic self.
• Personal growth often comes from painful experiences.
• Building a relationship with oneself is crucial in recovery.
• Meditation can help regulate the nervous system and promote peace.
• The journey of recovery involves learning to feel emotions.
• Support groups provide a space for vulnerability and growth.
• Chaos can become addictive, making peace feel uncomfortable.
• It's important to give oneself permission to ask for help.
• The work done in recovery can positively impact future generations.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Recovery and Flexibility

01:58 Personal Experiences in Recovery

03:48 Understanding Powerlessness in Relationships

08:11 The Impact of Family Dynamics

11:54 Addiction to Chaos and Finding Peace

16:03 Exploring Meditation and Self-Discovery

20:14 The Role of Titles in Relationships

 26:06 Community and Support in Recovery

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues the conversation with Dr. Alan Blotcky, focusing on the complexities of parental alienation. They discuss the importance of succinct communication in court, the dynamics of alienation, the role of experts, financial challenges in legal proceedings, and the impact of social media on perceptions of parental alienation. Dr. Blotcky shares success stories from reunification therapy and emphasizes the need for a supportive team to navigate these challenging situations. The conversation concludes with a positive message about the potential for change and healing in the context of parental alienation.

Key Takeaways

• Advocating for oneself is crucial in parental alienation cases.
• Succinct communication in court can significantly impact outcomes.
• Understanding the behaviors and their effects is more important than labels.
• Success in reunification therapy is possible with the right approach.
• Financial resources can limit access to expert testimony.
• Many therapists lack an understanding of parental alienation.
• Social media can spread misinformation about parental alienation.
• Judges may resist new information and cling to old biases.
• Building a supportive team is essential for navigating legal challenges.
• Parental alienation can be addressed and improved with the right strategies.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation

02:55 Navigating Court and Advocacy

06:10 Understanding Alienation Dynamics

08:49 The Role of Experts in Legal Cases

11:52 Financial Challenges in Legal Proceedings

14:46 Reunification Therapy Success Stories

19:01 The Impact of Social Media on Perceptions

22:11 Shifts in Understanding Parental Alienation

24:52 Closing Thoughts and Positive Messages

Dr Alan Blotcky - https://www.alanblotckyphd.com/

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss speaks with Dr. Alan Blotcky, a clinical and forensic psychologist specializing in parental alienation. They explore the complexities of parental alienation, including its definitions, behavioral strategies, and varying degrees of severity. Dr. Blotcky emphasizes the importance of effective legal representation and the need for both parents to engage in therapy for successful reunification. The conversation also addresses common misconceptions about parental alienation and the challenges faced in the court system.

Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation can be mild, moderate, or severe.
• Effective legal representation is crucial in parental alienation cases.
• Judges often order reunification therapy without addressing the alienating parent's behavior.
• Alienating parents may not realize the harm they cause to their children.
• The treatment for parental alienation varies based on severity.
• Coordination among all parties involved in a case is essential for success.
• Misconceptions about parental alienation can hinder progress in cases.
• More information in court does not always lead to better outcomes.
• Therapists play a critical role in addressing parental alienation.
• Support from the community is vital for those affected by parental alienation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Parental Alienation

09:02 Understanding Parental Alienation

18:08 The Role of Attorneys in Parental Alienation Cases

23:51 Misconceptions About Parental Alienation

Dr Alan Blotcky - https://www.alanblotckyphd.com/

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss interviews Dana, a previously alienated child who has grown into an adult and author. Dana shares her journey of healing from childhood alienation, the complexities of reconnecting with her mother, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, the lessons learned from regret, and the power of choice in moving forward. Dana's insights provide valuable guidance for others facing similar experiences, highlighting the need for education and self-empowerment in the healing process.

Key Takeaways

• Being an alienated child is part of her experience, not her identity.
• Reconnecting with estranged parents can be complex and requires readiness.
• Navigating family dynamics is challenging for alienated children.
• Community support is crucial for healing and understanding.
• Education about psychological abuse can empower individuals.
• It's important to express one's truth for personal healing.
• Regret can be a powerful motivator for change and growth.
• The power of choice is essential in moving forward after trauma.
• Healing involves facing uncomfortable emotions and experiences.
• Service to others can be a transformative part of the healing journey.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Alienation and Healing

04:24 Reconnecting with the Mother

11:30 Navigating Family Dynamics

20:12 The Importance of Community and Support

26:27 Lessons from Regret and Healing

34:46 The Power of Choice and Moving Forward

Dana Laquidara - https://danalaquidara.com/

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Lawrence Joss interviews Dana Laquidara, an adult alienated child who shares her powerful story of parental alienation. Dana recounts her early experiences of being separated from her mother at a young age, the emotional turmoil it caused, and the long journey of healing and reconnection with her family. The conversation delves into the psychological impact of alienation on identity, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the importance of community and support in the healing process.

Key Takeaways

• Dana shares her traumatic experience of being alienated from her mother at four years old.
• The emotional impact of parental alienation can lead to repression of feelings in children.
• Children often feel powerless and afraid to ask questions during alienation.
• Dana's journey highlights the importance of community and resources for healing.
• Reconnecting with a parent after alienation can be a complex emotional process.
• The narrative controlled by the alienating parent can distort children's perceptions.
• Dana's memoir, titled 'You Know Who', reflects her experiences and insights.
• Healing involves acknowledging and processing repressed emotions.
• The journey of healing can take many years and requires self-discovery.
• Dana emphasizes the importance of understanding the child's perspective in alienation situations.

Dana Laquidara - https://danalaquidara.com/

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In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Randi Fine, an expert on narcissistic personality disorders. They delve into the complexities of trauma bonding, the effects of parental alienation on children, and the importance of reunification therapy. Randi explains the role of 'flying monkeys' in narcissistic relationships and emphasizes the need for internal validation and resilience in the healing process. The discussion also highlights the critical role of legal support for parents fighting for their children in cases of parental alienation.

Key Takeaways

• Trauma bonding can lead to unhealthy relationships.
• Children affected by parental alienation need reunification therapy.
• Narcissists often use 'flying monkeys' to manipulate others.
• Internal validation is crucial for healing from narcissistic abuse.
• Legal support is essential for parents in custody battles.
• The effects of narcissistic abuse can be lifelong.
• It's important to recognize reactive behaviors in abusive relationships.
• Support from family and friends is vital for those in trauma bonds.
• Healing is a continuous process that requires resilience.
• Acknowledging one's own behavior is key to rebuilding relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Trauma Bonding and Narcissism
04:23 The Impact of Parental Alienation on Children
10:42 Understanding the Role of Flying Monkeys
12:35 Reconnecting with Ex-Flying Monkeys
18:04 The Importance of Internal Validation
24:17 Fighting for Children in the Legal System


Randi Fine : https://www.randifine.com/

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