Family Disappeared

In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa, a chronic pain specialist, about the correlation between physical and emotional pain. They discuss the book 'The Way Out' and the concept of pain reprocessing therapy. Vanessa shares success stories of clients who have found relief from chronic pain through this therapy. They also talk about the importance of language in describing pain and the practice of somatic tracking. Overall, the episode emphasizes the possibility of finding relief from pain and improving relationships through understanding and working with the body's sensations.

Key Takeaways

• Physical and emotional pain are often correlated, and addressing emotional pain can help alleviate physical pain.
• Pain reprocessing therapy can help individuals understand and change their relationship with pain, leading to relief.
• Language is important in describing pain, and reframing how we talk about pain can impact our experience of it.
• Somatic tracking is a practice that involves getting curious about the sensations in our body and learning to be present with them.
• Finding relief from chronic pain is possible, and it can lead to improved relationships and a richer life.

PPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" .  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "VANESSA ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."

Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.com
"The Way Out" by Alan Gordon

"Tell Me About Your Pain" podcast: curablehealth.com/tellmeaboutyourpain

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
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In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Vanessa Blackstone, the executive director at Pain Psychology Center, about chronic pain and its emotional and physical components. They discuss how chronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and how it affects relationships.

Vanessa explains the concept of Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) and how it helps individuals change their response to pain. They also explore the connection between emotional trauma and physical pain, and the importance of getting to know and understand the pain.

The episode ends with Lawrence sharing his personal experience with chronic pain and expressing gratitude for the journey it has led him on.

Key Takeaways

• Chronic pain can be a result of parental alienation, estrangement, or erasure, and it affects relationships.
• Pain reprocessing therapy (PRT) helps individuals change their response to pain by providing tools and psychoeducation.
• Emotional trauma and physical pain come from the same part of the brain, and our brain sends physical sensations to our body as a response to emotional triggers.
• It is important to get to know and understand the pain before trying to make it go away, as it helps us respond to the physical sensations in a healthier way.
• Chronic pain can be a result of unresolved emotional trauma or a type A personality that is constantly powering through.
• Slowing down, taking care of ourselves, and changing our response to pain can have a profound impact on our overall well-being and relationships.

Pain Psychology Center - www.painpsychologycenter.com

PPC has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a 50-minute consultation, along with a free copy of their new workbook "The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook" .  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "VANESSA ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be September 30, 2024."

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

Have you ever felt the heartache of being alienated from your own children or grandchildren? Today, we invite you on a profound journey of healing and understanding as we explore the emotional and psychological experiences of alienated parents and grandparents. Joined by Stephen and Anna from the Parental Alienation Anonymous community, we share invaluable insights into self-compassion, grounding oneself, and the critical importance of maintaining direct communication rather than being ensnared in triangulated dialogues. Through personal reflections and poignant stories, we underscore how setting boundaries can pave the way for healthier family dynamics.

Navigating the turbulent waters of parent-child relationships amidst personal struggles and isolation is no easy feat. We confront the feelings of guilt, shame, and confusion that often accompany decisions meant to protect or distance oneself from children during challenging times. By reflecting on past choices and their impact, we emphasize the necessity of community support, resources, and personal resilience. This episode sheds light on the ongoing journey of unpacking past actions and seeking a balanced approach to reconnecting with our children.

Understanding family dynamics, dysfunction, and the role of boundaries forms the heart of our discussion. Anna's candid sharing about growing up without boundaries, leading to codependency in her adult relationships, and Lawrence's reflection on his own boundary struggles during his divorce, offer relatable and powerful lessons. We explore the concept of "leaky boundaries" and the challenges of conflict avoidance, using vivid metaphors and heartwarming anecdotes to bring our points to life. Join us for a thoughtful and enriching conversation dedicated to learning, setting, and modeling healthy boundaries for personal growth and better relationships.

*PLEASE NOTE: The PAA survey mentioned in this episode is closed for 2024.  The new version of the survey will be released in January 2025.

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

What happens when you receive an unexpected Father's Day card from an estranged daughter after years of silence? Join us on this heartfelt episode of the Family Disappeared Podcast, where we unravel the emotional and healing journeys of alienated parents. We’re diving deep into the experiences of our regular panelists, Anna and Stephen, who share their personal stories of growth. Hear firsthand how small, positive interactions, like a simple card or text, can carry immense weight and significance on the path to recovery.

Shifting our perspectives is a cornerstone of this episode. We discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating minor victories without letting a pessimistic outlook overshadow them. Anna sheds light on her transformative journey through a 12-step program, revealing how acknowledging her own role in family dynamics led to profound growth. This episode emphasizes the necessity of self-reflection and taking responsibility for our actions, rather than succumbing to the urge to fix others as a means of regulating our own emotions.

The conversation doesn’t stop there. We explore the concept of "splitting" in parents, especially during times of emotional stress, mirroring the children's struggles with conflicting realities. You'll hear about Stephen's joyous reconnection with his daughter and Anna’s healing encounter with her son, both highlighting the complexities and emotional depths involved in mending estranged relationships. This episode offers valuable insights into the importance of mindful parenting, personal growth, and the ongoing journey toward genuine, heartfelt connections. Tune in for a rich tapestry of stories and lessons that shed light on the intricate dynamics of estrangement and the hope for healing.

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

Navigating the turbulent waters of parental alienation can feel overwhelming, but what if there was a way to become the stable, unyielding lighthouse your children need? Join us as we share heartfelt stories, including my own personal journey from chaos to calm that inspired the birth of this podcast. We're thrilled to welcome Cindy from iSNAF, whose invaluable insights into family systems and misaligned dynamics shed light on the complex roles parents play in these situations. Cindy also brings exciting news—a special giveaway for a free seat in one of iSNAF's grief groups, designed to help families heal together.

Together with Cindy, we examine the intricate dance of grief and transformation through the stages of denial, bargaining, anger, depression, and acceptance. Discover how stepping outside your own pain to serve others can be a powerful catalyst for healing. We emphasize the importance of self-compassion and transformational tools like vision boards, helping parents rebuild their lives amidst the heartache of parental alienation. Cindy's stories of reunification, including a mother reconnecting with her sons and a father's daring act of solidarity, serve as poignant reminders that change is possible with courage and a bit of creativity.

From setting healthy boundaries to ensuring financial well-being, this episode covers crucial steps toward personal empowerment and stability. Learn how to become a "lighthouse parent," find strength in supportive communities, and avoid the pitfalls of misinformed advice. Cindy shares inspiring success stories and practical tips for navigating the challenges of parental alienation, emphasizing the importance of self-stabilization and emotional regulation. Tune in to hear about roundtable programs designed to support parents in areas like grief and financial management, ensuring you are better prepared for the journey of reunification with your children.

ISNAF website:  isnaf.info

"ISNAF has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a place on the 'Parental Alienation Grief Program' that they offer.  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "I LOVE ISNAF" or "ISNAF ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be August 26, 2024."

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This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

What does it feel like to confront the painful reality of parental alienation head-on? Join us for an emotional exploration into the lives of parents navigating this devastating issue. We begin with a deep dive into the transformative power of family systems therapy, a lifeline for those grappling with estrangement and alienation. I share my own journey, from the heartache of discovering Amy Baker's work to the profound relief it brought me. We also welcome Cindy Hirsch, CEO of ISNAF, who enriches our understanding of parental alienation with insights about the organization’s mission and the vital resources they offer, like e-books, roundtables, and grief groups.

Our discussion takes you through the harrowing process of divorce, the unexpected rise of parental alienation, and the relentless legal battles that followed.  We also highlight the extensive support available for parents through ISNAF, including a 135-page handbook, private coaching, and specialized programs on healing and resilience. This episode is a powerful testament to the unwavering hope, community strength, and indispensable resources that can guide parents through the labyrinthine challenges of parental alienation.

ISNAF website:  isnaf.info


"ISNAF has generously offered our listeners the chance to win a place on the 'Parental Alienation Grief Program' that they offer.  In order to be included in the raffle, please post the following on our YouTube page:  "I LOVE ISNAF" or "ISNAF ROCKS!".  The winner will be drawn at random, 2 weeks after the episode is broadcast, which will be August 26, 2024."

Don't forget to Subscribe to our YouTube Channel:
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If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

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PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

Ready to transform your journey of healing from parental alienation? Tune in as we share how connecting with a supportive community can turn feelings of pain into a resurgence of hope and joy. You'll discover how emotional, spiritual, and physical healing can empower you to change your relationships and interactions. Hear from Seth, who navigates his son's rare disease amidst the emotional toll of alienation, and Mary, who reflects on her unexpected growth from divorce and alienation.

Gain insights from personal stories of resilience and recovery, demonstrating the transformative power of community support. Through honest conversations, Mary and Seth reveal how their experiences of shifting family dynamics and fostering positive connections have brought profound changes to their lives. This episode underscores the importance of prioritizing emotional sobriety, self-care, and maintaining a simple, mindful approach to recovery. Join us for an inspiring discussion that highlights the significance of personal growth, resilience, and finding joy outside of relationships with our children.

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PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

What if the pain of losing connection with your family could be transformed into a journey of healing and acceptance? In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, we explore the profound impact of parental alienation and the transformative power of finding supportive communities.  We welcome newcomers like Mary, who bravely recounts her painful estrangement from her youngest daughter and grandsons, and highlights the crucial role that Parental Alienation Anonymous (PAA) played in her healing.

Vanessa and Mary take us deeper into their initial apprehensions and eventual solace found in PAA meetings, revealing the dual benefits and challenges of these 12-step gatherings. Seth reflects on the authenticity and safety he experienced in  meetings, emphasizing the importance of community support for individuals at different stages of their struggles. We also discuss various entry points to the community, whether through structured meetings or the flexibility of our podcast, all contributing to a holistic approach to recovery that includes therapy, meditation, and self-care practices.

Moreover, Seth and Vanessa shed light on the healing power of humor, nature, and finding beauty in everyday moments. They explain how engaging with both podcasts and community meetings provides a supportive environment where individuals can share their grief without burdening other relationships. The episode wraps up with reflections on connecting with nature and finding moments of joy, illustrating how these elements contribute to emotional healing. Join us as we continue our collective journey of exploring, growing, and healing together, and make sure to share this episode with anyone who might benefit from our discussion.

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PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

Can early childhood emotional experiences dictate the quality of our adult relationships? Join us on Family Disappeared as we welcome Noah Rothschild, a somatic therapist dedicated to uncovering the hidden impacts of our formative years. We take a deep dive into how childhood emotional injuries carve out our need for external validation, and introduce the weighty concept of emotional incest—where a child becomes the emotional regulator for a parent. Rothschild explores how these early experiences can manifest as physical blocks within our bodies, emphasizing the transformative power of attachment and presence in parenting. This episode promises to offer profound insights into self-healing and the intricate mind-body connection.

Be prepared for a transformative journey as we explore Integrative Body Psychotherapy (IBP), and it's reparenting techniques. Discover how recognizing our children's behaviors as reflections of their struggles and inherited trauma can engender compassion for ourselves and them. Rothschild sheds light on the importance of somatic work, highlighting how reparenting can break generational patterns and cultivate healthier relationships. This episode underscores the crucial role of self-healing in changing the course of our lives positively, and how it can lead to a deeper, more compassionate family dynamic.

We delve into the power of 'Good Parent Messages' in IBP, drawing from the wisdom of pioneers Jack Rosenberg and Beverly Kitaen-Morse. Imagine the healing potential of affirmations like "I love you" and "I see you" in rewiring our inner dialogue and filling the voids left by unmet childhood needs. Through a blend of breathwork, movement, and cognitive therapy, IBP bypasses surface-level narratives to address core emotional wounds. Whether discussing the significance of grounding oneself or releasing stored trauma, Rothschild's insights offer a path to profound presence and self-love. Don't miss this episode if you're eager to understand the mind-body connection, and embark on a journey of self-healing.

Dr Noah Rothschild - www.noahrothschild.com
Instagram - 'innerchildhealer'
Free Facebook group -' innerchildempowerment with Noah Rothschild'


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PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]

Have you ever wondered how reconnecting with your body could heal emotional wounds? Join us as we share a transformative journey through somatic therapy, guided by the expertise of integrative body psychotherapist Noah Rothschild. This episode promises to shed light on how moving beyond traditional talk therapy to somatic approaches can help address deep-seated traumas and foster healthier relationships. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, we explore the profound impact of somatic therapy, especially for those grappling with parental alienation, estrangement, and other relationship challenges.

Moving from cognitive stories to sensory experiences, we delve into the world of Integrative Body Psychotherapy (IBP). Many of us feel stuck in our heads, battling stories that seem insurmountable. Noah reveals how awakening the body’s sensory neurons can unlock generational wounds and subconscious patterns. Discover the critical role early life experiences play in our emotional disconnection and learn how accessing the perceptions of the heart and body can lead to profound healing and self-discovery.

Limbic attunement, the cornerstone of feeling safe and loved from early childhood, is often overlooked but vitally important. We discuss how it's absence can lead to defense mechanisms that shape our interactions with others, including our children. Through the practice of self-attunement and simple breathing exercises, we highlight how cultivating presence within ourselves can enhance emotional well-being and strengthen our relationships. Tune in to learn practical tips and gain insights into fostering genuine connections through the transformative power of attunement and somatic therapy.

Dr Noah Rothschild - www.noahrothschild.com

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PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR ARTWORK TO THE FAMILY HOPE PROJECT:
https://pa-a.mykajabi.com/questionnaire

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager
Kriztle Mesa - Social Media Manager
Gen Rodelas-Kajabi Expert
Kim Fernandez - Outreach Coordinator

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- [email protected]