Big Lash Energy -Confidence, Relationships & Dating Advice for Women Who Want More!

"I used to be the mean girl." --A Confession most people would take to the grave but that's exactly how Arzo opens up this week's episode—and what follows is one of the most honest, uncomfortable conversations Jayna has ever had on the show. Our host shares a bullying story of her own—one she's never told publicly—and together they dig into a question worth sitting with: what if the "bad kid" isn't the one who deserves less compassion, but more?

This episode isn't about excusing bullying. It's about understanding it—and proving that people, even the ones we've written off, are capable of real change.

This isn't a conversation that's only meant for highschoolers. Bullying doesn't end at graduation. It just gets sneakier. Whether you've been bullied, been the bully, or just believe people deserve room to grow—this conversation will stay with you.

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Ever get the feeling that some people following you are low-key haters? Maybe you posted a win you were proud of and noticed they weren't clapping?

This week, Jayna opens up about a recent milestone that left her asking an uncomfortable question:

Why do some people seem so much more interested in our struggles than our successes?

After noticing a surprising pattern in her own social media analytics—from losing followers after celebrating major wins to gaining thousands during one of the hardest moments of her life—Jayna explores the difference between attention and support, why some people quietly disappear when you start winning, and why your accomplishments should never depend on someone else's applause.

If you've ever felt like your friends weren't as supportive as you'd hoped, questioned why certain people seem uncomfortable with your success, caught YOURSELF hating on someones success or needed a reminder to celebrate yourself regardless of who's clapping...this episode is for you

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THESE are the kinds of unhinged dating app DMs that will make you want to stay single. This week, Jayna is roasting the best of the worst of them! Introducing some of the funniest, most confusing, and downright unbelievable dating app DMs she's received in the past 3 months — bizarre opening lines, over-the-top confidence, unsolicited relationship proposals, and messages that should have stayed in the drafts.

By the end of this episode, you'll understand exactly why some of your hottest friends are still looking for love.

If you've ever survived online dating, or you're thinking about downloading the apps, you'll laugh, cringe, and probably question humanity right alongside her.

Perfect for fans of dating stories, online dating fails, relationship humor, Tinder, Bumble, Facebook Dating, and real-life comedy, this one will have you laughing for sure!

You won't believe the things these men are saying! It's the fourth instalment of the popular series, and the fishing has never been better (or...worse?). This week, Jayna's swiping again with her hazmat suit on, pulling in a fresh net of online dating profiles that range from pitiful to outrageous and everything in between. Who would have thought raccoons, vaccines, and loving your kids TOO MUCH would have anything to do with dating but here we are... Whether you've been swiping on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder, you're sure to find these online dating bios relatable. This episode answers anyone who asks "How come you're still single?" or tries to comfort you by saying "There are plenty of fish in the sea!" HINT: Send this episode to them!

Whether you're single, dating, married, or just here for the group therapy of watching other women survive the online dating landmine, this one's a public service.

Delete the apps. Or don't. Just listen first.

🔥In this episode: hilarious dating profile roasts, online dating red flags, funny dating app bios, Tinder/Bumble/Hinge/Facebook Dating chaos, and the men who really should've asked a female friend to proofread first.

This week, we're playing a game called "Did They Tip?" Jayna shares stories of wild examples of wedding stories where she went above and beyond for her brides and YOU get to guess if they gave a gratuity or not! This one sparks the conversation: Should you tip your wedding vendors? What about business owners? And who actually deserves a gratuity on your wedding day?

From unexpected acts of generosity to moments that left everyone speechless, these behind-the-scenes stories will have you laughing, questioning wedding etiquette, and wondering what you would have done if you were the bride.

Whether you're planning a wedding, work in the wedding industry, or simply love juicy real-life stories with a little debate mixed in, this episode is guaranteed to get you thinking.

Make a guess as to what happened and then ask yourself....Would YOU have tipped?

MEXICO HOSPITAL TO AVOID:

Saint Lukes Hospital, Cabo

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A destination wedding story that proves some things really can go from bad...to worse...to "wait, it gets worse than THAT?!"

As a bridal hair and makeup artist with over 20 years of experience (and more Mexico weddings under her belt than she can count), Jayna Marie has seen a lot. This episode covers one of the wildest chains of events shes ever personally witnessed-- A story where the bride did everything right, trusted the right people and still ended up in a situation no one could have predicted. There's a health scare. There's a 5 figure sum of money, a mexico tourism scam, a piece of jewlery that vanished hours before an international flight home and a cancelled honeymoon. Somehow, by the end of it all, it becomes a Jayna problem too!

This is a story about weddings, trust, unexpected expenses and what happens when "free" ends up costing everyone involved a whole lot more money than they bargained for.

Press play and get ready to take notes, then send this episode to anyone planning an "I Do" in Mexico!

New episodes of Big Lash Energy drop every week. If you love stories about weddings, bridal beauty and the chaos that comes with both, hit follow so you never hit an episode!

HOSPITAL TO AVOID:

Saint Lukes Hospital, Cabo

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Pet peeves. We all have them. The tiny, completely harmless things that somehow make your eye twitch, your blood pressure spike, and your soul leave your body.

This week, Jayna Marie is coming in hot with a full-on rant — a hilarious, relatable list of everyday annoyances that might just be her 49th reason. And she is fully aware that most of them are irrational. That's exactly the point.

Some are universal girl talk moments you'll be texting your friends about. Some are oddly specific. And you'll never guess the most RANDOM word that makes her want to scream!

If you're looking for a funny, relatable comedy episode that reminds you you're not alone in your irrational irritations — this is exactly what you need today.

Hurry up and press play to see if there's anything she's missed!

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Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!

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A Must-Listen for Every Woman With a Business idea or Purpose planted in her heart but is too Scared to Start! Do you feel underqualified for the goal you want to achieve? Do you want to start something but don't feel ready? Or better yet... how do you believe in yourself when you've already failed more times than you can count?

Inspired by a recent talk Jayna Marie gave at the EmpowerHER Women's Luncheon, this episode explores purpose, self-doubt, faith, personal growth, and what it really takes to pursue a dream when confidence isn't showing up for the job.

If you've ever been told to "just believe in yourself" and thought, I'd love to, but my track record has me questioning my abilities, this episode is for you.

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Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!

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How did Jayna end up being a sugar daddy? This week, our host takes a walk down memory lane — and honestly, it's more of a financial audit. She's done things for men that most people wouldn't do for their own family and somewhere along the way, she realized: she wasn't being a girlfriend. She was being daddy. A sugar daddy, to be specific. (The exact kind she always secretly wanted. Shhh!) This episode is a hilarious, horrifying, and weirdly empowering countdown of the most outrageous ways Jayna has financially and emotionally carried the men in her life — and the moment she decided to stop calling it love and start calling it what it actually was: daddy energy. If you've ever dated a man with potential, paid a bill that wasn't yours to pay, or found yourself being someone's life coach, therapist, personal assistant, and emergency fund all at once — this one is going to hit uncomfortably close to home. (Maybe you've got Daddy energy too!) Pour something that will put hair on your chest and get ready to cringe- this is the Fathers Day content we didn't know we needed!

Losing both your wedding photographer and one of your closest friends just two weeks before your wedding day sounds like every bride's worst nightmare.

This week on Big Lash Energy, Jayna shares the story of a friendship that slowly unravelled, a toxic loyalty test she never signed up for, and the sacrifice she had to make to protect her peace.

If you've ever dealt with friendship betrayal, wedding planning stress, people-pleasing, toxic friendships, passive-aggressive behaviour, or someone who seemed to collect grudges like a hobby, this episode is for you.

When you're planning a wedding, your photographer isn't just another vendor. They're with you from the first mimosa to the last dance, helping shape the energy of one of the most important days of your life. So what happens when your wedding photographer seems to hate you?

This episode has wedding photographer drama, friendship drama, wedding planning chaos, a shocking falling out, a plot twist, a hero who was quietly making smoothies at Jugo Juice before one phone call changed everything.