🚩If you don't send this to every one of your single friends, do you even care? This is the dating advice our host wishes someone gave her when she was newly single and brokenhearted. She's sharing the embarrassing things she did that proved she wasn't ready to date yet, how she finally healed and 5 questions to ask yourself before you start swiping right. It's the big sister talk every woman needs to hear. Listen up so you can learn how to spare yourself from more heartache, slower healing time and more bad dates! (EWE!)

If you're wifed up, don't sleep on this—you know your single friend is gonna come running to you when she needs advice. Consider episode 175 of BLE your love doctor cheat sheet. Armed with this info, you'll be qualified to lovingly (or savagely) warn her when she's about to become a red flag parade.

Funny, brutally honest, and painfully relatable—this is your chance to learn from Jayna's mistakes!

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IN THIS EPISODE

-How to heal after heartbreak

-How to tell if you're ready to start dating again

-5 Questions to ask yourself before dating

-How to tell if you're healed?

-Big sister advice

-Should you try online dating?

Our host is answering listener questions sooooo juicy, she had to call for back up! Listen in as Jayna shares the mic with her mom (Wendy), and best friend, Elsa. She's asking for their hot takes on some situations that had one woman speechless! (Hint: Her name starts with W and rhymes with "bendy"!)

You asked:

"I caught my husband buying another womans used panties..is it cheating?!"

"I told my friend I have a crush on him...now what?!"

"Am I wrong to refuse to drive in my husbands car?...he cheated on me in there!"

"My wife wants an open marriage...is this the beginning of the end?!"

...and more!

Give this one a listen and let us know if you agree more with the advice from one of the old married ladies or the one who's been divorced TWICE!!

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Ready for a laugh? Last week we went shopping for men. This week, we're digging through the bargain bin! Jayna's spent weeks searching for the best of the worst men on the facebook dating app just so you could have a giggle! Think half-assed bios, tragic pickup lines, enough red flags you'd think you were in a parade...and snakes!

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You'll never believe the wild and cringey things some men put in their dating profiles! Listen in as Jayna scrolls through the Facebook dating app (AKA: The Human Clearance Rack) so we can all have a laugh! She's describing each potential date, reading what he wrote in his bio and letting you be the judge and jury-- Would you swipe left or right?

This one's a lighthearted look at the world of online dating and proves that while there may be many fish in the sea....first you've gotta get through a lot of bottom feeders!

Warning: this episode may contain excessive eye-rolling, secondhand embarrassment, and uncontrollable laughter at the fact that this really is what some men think women want!

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IN THIS EPISODE:

-Funny Dating Stories

-Surviving the World of online dating

-Facebook Dating App

-Funny Dating Profiles

-Finding love online

(Part 3 of "My Cougar Love Story") Ten years later, Jayna and Dre reunite for a much needed hug and trip down memory lane. They always knew their breakup was more of a "see you later" then a final goodbye...so what happens when they finally see eachother again? Will Dre confirm that everything Jayna said in the past two episodes was true? Maybe she suffered from a horrible case of delulu! Dre and his best friend Pat chime in on what they thought about this series and as a special bonus, you'll get to hear the song Jaynas cub wrote for her back in the day. (CAREFUL...listening may result in you looking at your man and asking "Why havent YOU written a song for ME?!")

This episode is sure to have you believing in love again and contemplating "Can you really be friends with an ex?"

⭐ If you'd like to check out Dres latest album, CLICK HERE

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IN THIS EPISODE:

-Navigating age gap relationships

-Dating older women

-Interracial love

-Crazy Date Stories

-Unconventional love

-Following your heart

In Part 2 of "My Cougar Love Story", Jayna picks up where she left off—the most awkward "meet the parents" moment since Ben Stiller met Robert De Niro. These aren't just any parents... we're talking a pastor and his very proper wife. (Gulp.) If you could take one guess at how they might feel about their precious son dating a much older, twice divorced woman from another country....you'd probably be right. What you might not expect, however, are all the lengths Jayna would go through in order to try and win them over. Let's just say, she tried everything short of speaking in tongues- a full blown PR campaign for redemption! Was it a losing battle? Listen and find out!

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IN THIS EPISODE:

-Navigating age gap relationships

-Dating older women

-Interracial love

-Crazy Date Stories

-Unconventional love

-Following your heart

Who knew a cougar romance would be just the thing Jayna needed to get her groove back? In this episode, our host shares the touching story that started out as an online flirtation with a (much younger) pastors son that blossomed into one of her most meaningful love connections. (Halleluja!) Follow along as the unlikely pair go from late night phone calls and sexy texts to that nerve-wracking moment they finally meet in person. A story about letting go of timelines, trusting your gut, and discovering that age really is just a number when two people truly connect. It's an unconventional tale about what can happen when you say "screw it" to what everyone might think and follow your heart instead.

NOTE: This one is best listened to with an open mind!

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IN THIS EPISODE

-Crazy date story

-Dating youger men

-Romance after divorce

-Dating as a middle aged woman

-Cougar love story

So you went out for margaritas and came home with a 25-year-old? Honey, it's happened to the best of us! (Jayna included!) In this extra spicy episode, we're talking about the real pros and cons of dating younger men—like stamina that won't quit, and the sudden need to Google slang mid-sex (Wtf is "Rizz?").

We'll explore what makes older women irresistible (hint: it's not just the matching bra and panties), why younger men are flocking to us like moths to a well-lit, emotionally stable flame, and whether or not it's worth pulling a hamstring for love—or at least a really good time. You'll get to take a peek into Jayna's DMs, hear some real-life cougar tales from BLE besties and we'll even get some men to chime in on the conversation!

You're going to love how Jayna flips the script on the whole concept of "cougar". ( Did you know you could get catfished into roleplaying as somebodys step mom?!) These young men really are risking it all for grown women who know what they want!

Warning: this episode may cause spontaneous confidence and the urge to update your dating app age filter.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

-The benefits of dating older women

-Why dating in your 40s is the best

-Conversations with men on why they like older women

-Real life cougar stories

-Dating advice for women over 30

Its True Crime- BLE style! You're never going to believe what happened with Jayna and her cleaning lady (no WONDER she has trust issues!). This one's a wild ride! Press play then decide if YOU think listening to murder documentaries saved her life. This one's going to have you waiting on the edge of your seat, adding locks to your doors and saying "OMG!!!

As mentioned:

JAYNA'S LIST OF BINGE-WORTHY PODCASTS

Betrayal

Stories of people who have been betrayed by lovers, friends and family

Trashy Divorces

All the messy details of your favourite celebrity and historical divorces

Was I In A Cult?

People share their first hand accounts of their time in all kinds of different cults.

Kill List

Recenty won "best true crime podcast" and for very good reason. I was hooked from episode 1.

Pretend

All kinds of people pretending to be someone else.

Scamfluencers

This one's all about scammy influencers. Think Ponzy scemes, fake products and phoney claims.

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IN THIS EPISODE

-Why women love true crime

-Scam artist story

-The Lululemon Murder

-The benefits of listening to murder documentaries

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WARNING: Do NOT Listen Without Tissues.

Who knew a 17yr old could be this thoughtful! Last week, it was Arzos prom and Jayna was doing everything she could to surprise her teen but this week, It's graduation and Arzo's flipping the switch! Just wait till you hear how Jayna got surprised! This is the heartwarming story you've been waiting for... a nod to second chances, highschool teachers and a timely reminder that theres still so much good in the world.

Now grab that Kleenex and press play. (At least they're happy tears!)

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IN THIS EPISODE

-Life in highschool

-Parenting a Teen

-Teacher Appreciation

-Choosing Your Family

-Beautiful Adoption Story

-It takes a village to raise a child