You heard it here first: sex gets better as you age. Don’t believe me? Listen to this episode.

I sit down with Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and sex educator, for a refreshing conversation about pleasure, confidence, and why desire does not have an expiration date. We talk about how so many people are taught to expect sex to fade over time, and why that belief is doing way more damage than aging ever could. Susan shares what actually helps couples stay curious, connected, and turned on long term, especially when shame and routine start creeping in. We also get into kink, power dynamics, and sexual longevity. Susan explains how confidence, embodiment, and caring for your body play a huge role in pleasure as you get older, and why performance-focused sex often gets in the way of real intimacy.

This episode is permission-filled, honest, and surprisingly hopeful. If you want proof that your best sex might still be ahead of you, this conversation will absolutely change your mind.

Episode Highlights: 

00:00 Maintaining Sexual Health and Stamina

25:53 Embracing Confidence and Sexuality

27:43 Maintaining Sexual Health with Age

29:43 The Role of Nitric Oxide

30:48 The Benefits of Pumping

32:20 Advanced Treatments for Sexual Health

34:26 Red Light Therapy and Lubricants

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