We recently got a question that was intended for our monthly Dear Krachel segment, but it's a subject that I've been considering writing about for a long time, so I decided to tackle it at length in a blog, instead!

Here's what Mary wrote:

"Hi Rachel!

You had mentioned on a recent podcast that you haven't had an alcoholic beverage in 3 years. I was wondering if you wanted to share what brought you to this life change.

My husband has been sober for over a year and a half and I went through the rocky journey of cutting back/abstinence. I have now participated in "dryuary" (no drinking in January), took a break in April and am now completing a 90-day break. This is huge for me and challenging at times. Overall I feel better for it.

I got excited when you shared you don't drink and wanted to know your story since I feel this lifestyle is very connected to socializing, productivity, and general outlook on life.

I'm not saying I'm never going to drink again, but would love your input on the subject since it's so prevalent in our society. I listen to you and Kristen religiously and respect your interpretation of life."

Mary is right—there are a lot of implications, both personal and social, when it comes to quitting something that a majority of people enjoy. It can be frustrating, lonely, and intimidating to break away from the crowd for any reason, let alone one that's so woven into the culture.

So, I'm getting into the reasons why I stopped drinking alcohol, as well as how to deal when you want to go your own way but are afraid of being judged or left out.

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