Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

Healing Insecure Attachment can be messy, so I’m laying out the major keys you need to unlock the way forward.

Breaking down “hard” skills of: identifying your attachment, managing triggers, expressing emotional needs, and setting boundaries

Plus “soft” skills of: communicating with empathy, and the discipline of forgiveness and acceptance

I released this episode on Wednesday rather than the normal Thursday because I have a Live Masterclass tonight! If you want to be there, purchase the Boundary Playbook and I’ll email you the Zoom link. You will have access to the Replay as long as you Register for class.

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Have you ever felt like there was something *different* about your attachment with someone? Deeper & more intense, perhaps more dramatic & risky. Hard to let go of but hard to be a part of at the same time? 

Soul Tie: an intense emotional and spiritual bond, usually developed after physical intimacy.

We’re going to talk about how Soul Ties develop and what you can do to prevent unhealthy connections like this going forward.

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You can improve your dating & relationship experiences by improving your ability to manage red flags when they pop up!

EVERYONE has “something,” including you and me. Rather than ejecting too early, let’s talk about managing conflict and misunderstandings better so you don’t accidentally throw away a good thing.

In this episode...
-Difference between Red Flags and Dealbreakers

-How to Handle Red Flags When you Catch One

-The effect of Denial and Misunderstandings

-Common Red Flags

Cuff Me, Choose Me, Love Me Class with Imani - Feb 13

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The season is over but I will be continuing posting videos & doing Q&As on Patreon! Look forward to a Series of content, including breaking down popular television shows!

This episode - Letting Go - takes the process of releasing the past to a high level that won’t just help you over a breakup, but.. if you pay attention.. will be a key for moving through the rest of your life with greater ease and grace.

I hope to be able to help you on your journey in the Attachment Course starting in January! This is no ordinary Course on Anxiety, Avoidance, and Security. You are going to make transformational shifts in your mindset that will affect all areas in your life. After you listen to the episode, I think you’ll get a feel for the vibe we’re on in 2023.

See you there!

Attachment Course

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Let me know in the Reviews how this season has served you (we're almost at the end) and tell me what you want to hear more of!

Thanks for listening in and for your support :)

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What is the Fearful-Avoidant?
Why does the Fearful-Avoidant do what s/he does?
How do you shift the Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style?

Attachment Style Workbook

To watch and join-in live, plus additional audio & written content,  join us on Patreon!

Thank you for your support and let me know how things are going for you in the Reviews :)

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As you are putting more into your personal development, it can become painfully obvious when you come into contact with others who have not! 

You also realize how valuable your resources are, like your time, attention, affection, and space, so you want to protect those things as best as possible. 

Making great decisions and being willing to correct the wrong ones puts the power in your hands to create the experiences you want. I’m going to help you with S.I.F.T. 

Take notes on these  4 Areas you can put focus on to help improve the outcomes of your interactions / relationships!

4-Week Courses begin in January 2023 and info found under Classes at iamtaylorchandler.com

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Live Q&A pt. 2. If you want to join the party, Live Q&As are on Patreon!

Questions also submitted on Patreon

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Dr. Dawn is our resident trauma therapist and she and I are talking about the trauma of heartbreak!

-How It affects you as an attachment wound (relational trauma)
-Taking accountability for behavior in relationships
-Hope for change
-How to move forward

Thanks for listening in! Find my guest here, Dr. Dawn here: @drdawnonthereal

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The primary attachment  of childhood and its impact on your adulthood is significant. I help you understand how we process the attachment issues between ourselves and our mothers and I show you the outcomes in adulthood.

Most importantly, I'm going to challenge you to think about the Mother Issue is a very different way. Instead of just focusing on the relational trauma of it all, we have to prepare to release as a generation so we can stop these cycles of resentment, regret, and missing the emotional mark for ourselves and others.

The Your Mother and Your Attachment Workshop and the accompanying Workbook will help you further along in your journey towards healing this problem!

All Lives Workshop Nov. 12 at 4 PM EST

Black Lives Workshop Nov. 19 at 11 AM EST

YMYA Workbook

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