This is one of the MAJOR keys to understanding and Shifting to Secure Attachment,

so the lack of understanding around it greatly (and negatively) affects someone's intended path forward.

Because of this, I take a significant amount of time in the beginning setting up the frame for you and I will repeat myself again and again in this episode. I need you to get this so I am checking for understanding. Please be patient! (with me and yourselves - thank youuu)

If this was easy to understand, it would be easy to fix. It's a bit more complicated than just the concepts of the Attachment Styles itself. We are going into the nuts and bolts here. If learning the 4 Attachment Styles is Level 1, this is Level 2.

Whew! Be prepared to take some notes and review them afterwards!

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Stephanie and I talk about the importance of being in community and sharing what's going on with us with others,
working through fear,
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I'm so happy for her and proud to have worked with her! :)

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Welcome to Season 7! I'm so excited to share with you.

This episode I'm breaking down people-pleasing -
What it looks like for the Anxious Attachment Style & the Avoidant Style
Why we have this disease
How to break it

Thank you for believing in me to help you break these patterns! It just keeps getting better.

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It's the season finale and Dr. Dawn is here for a trauma check-up before we go!

We're talking about respecting others' perspective,
-the traumatic surprise of COVID,
-the ecosystem of therapy and why we refer
-tips for entering healthy relationships in this strange time
-reflection on: Are you relationship material?
-making excuses for bad relationships
-the question of: "What has happened, happened. What's the point of going to therapy if it won't change it?"

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Courtney and I talk about how she overcame the pain of the past to find purpose in her life. She is doing things she couldn't imagine doing before after doing the work to free herself from what was holding her back!
Often going forward means redefining relationships with those who have been closest to us. It's among the hardest parts of this work - but she did it, and she keeps doing it. She keeps choosing herself and sees that by choosing herself, others actually benefit!

Great for you Courtney :)

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This is about enabling. The ways we support problematic dynamics through our own actions (or non-action).

-What is the difference between helping and enabling, and why does it matter so much?
-What it looks like in individuals and within relationships
-What you can do about it

Two episodes left in the season. Turn on your notifications so you know when we come back!

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Robyn Minefee provides mind-body therapy, like yoga and walk-and-talk therapy! I love that she helps you see the importance of holistic health. We’re going to talk about how compulsion, obsession, and other addiction-related behaviors show up in relationships (like with people-pleasers), how you can begin managing your anxiety or depression now, and what was was so hard about the job where we met!

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First, I start with 'The Big Reset' where I address boundaries and expectations and you get a better idea of who I am! This was actually a great reflection for me especially as I get more grounded in my role here.

Perfect pairing with Arabia! Arabia and I worked together 1-on-1 first. She shares about realizing her achievements did not fulfill her, so she set out to embrace the relational part of her. She did the work and came into awareness of her ability to balance, which took a lot of unlearning and re-learning a more relaxed way to experience herself and relationships.

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This episode has parallels to problems found within insecure attachment styles, but it’s important to make some clear distinctions between ‘standard’ attachment issues and issues that are very specific to addiction.

I’m getting into how I got super-familiar with addiction and made the connection between addiction, codependency, and general insecurity.

Then we talk a bit about the history of addiction and how it has evolved into the monster it is.

After that, I shed light on how growing up in a family with addiction addiction most likely affects you now as an adult.

I’m confident this is going to be very helpful for many people. Please share with who comes to your mind!

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Anastasia reached out because she wanted to break codependent patterns that have existed in her family for generations.

We talk about...

-what Generational Codependency is and how Anastasia broke the pattern

-how it has affected how she relates to her family (and how they relate to her),

-and the difficulties in setting boundaries in relationships that don’t have the foundation of respect and understanding...

-but the reward you get when you stick with yourself anyway and do the healthy thing!

We worked together 1-on-1. If you’re interested in starting a package of sessions like she did, please use this link to schedule your 20 minute phone call (outside of U.S. will use Zoom Audio and the link will be included in your Appointment Confirmation Email)

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