April 09, 2024

Breaking the Mold: The Unexpected Role of a Male Caregiver

49 minutes

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Carlos Olivas left everything - his home, job, family and friends to care for his father with Alzheimer's dementia. He shares stories about their family, his childhood, and the hurdles of caregiving. Like so many caregivers, his journey began in a critical moment when a call from the dentist about his father's health prompted Carlos to become his main caregiver, putting his career and personal life on hold. This move highlights the deep value of family and the extensive sacrifices caregivers make.

In the discussion, Carlos talks about quitting his job due to the lack of remote work opportunities in his sector. His decision was driven by a sense of familial duty and a desire to support his father. He notes the impact on his social life and the guilt over not choosing professional care. Carlos emphasizes the importance of seeking help, overcoming obstacles, and personal development in the caregiving journey. He also discusses the role of male caregivers, the use of humor to maintain connections, and the formation of a support network, praising his dad's girlfriend's positive impact. Offering advice to fellow caregivers, Carlos stresses the significance of accepting mistakes, practicing self-care, and gratitude, and the lessons he continues to learn from his father.

About Carlos:

Carlos Olivas, a family man and caregiver, began a transformative journey in 2015 by leaving his career to care for his father with Geriatric Alzheimer's & Dementia. As a Caring Across Generations fellow, Alzheimers Association advocate, and Into the Dark Blue men's group ambassador, he passionately promotes compassionate caregiving and mental health awareness. Through his role as a social media content creator, he shares heartfelt narratives and valuable insights globally. Carlos is a member of We are HFC’s Care Squad and a caregiving.com Champion, engaging as a speaker on various media platforms, blogs, and podcasts. His experiences highlight themes of love, resilience, and life's vibrant hues.

Connect with Carlos:

Website: https://linktr.ee/charlierobot

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlierobot

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliedoescharliethings

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carloseveryday/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Charlierobot

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