One of the biggest lies the devil has pulled over our society is that "Science" and "Religion" are somehow incompatible. They actually align perfectly. In fact, the deeper you dig into scientific knowledge, the more evidence you discover of the existence of God. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as Douglass Ell and I talk about our journeys through scientific truth to find God. We talk about how while the truth is overwhelming, it is also intellectual. The deeper conversion must include the heart also. We talk about our own fears and painful experiences on this journey. We talk about how we still struggle to trust and what to do about it. You can find Doug's book about the scientific proof of God at his website or on Amazon. You can find his newest book The God Proofs on it's own website, or also on amazon. I'm happy to announce I have a book out and available! You can find it on Amazon (more options to come.)

I'm really excited for this episode. I can honestly I've been looking forward to this discussion since his email first reached my inbox. Early in my marriage, someone introduced me to the book Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs. This book is a game-changer in the seemingly impossible crazy cycle of marital conflict. This book has been the foundation of much of the coaching work I've done in both mine and others' marriages. Emerson has yet another new book that is the culmination of his research and thought. I got a chance to talk to him about it! It's called Lightbulb Moments in Marriage. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as Emerson and I go over this new book, along with the challenges that men face in the 21st century. What does it really mean to love your wife? What do you do when you feel totally stuck? How do we attempt to rebuild when one or both parties has seemingly given up? These are all topics Emerson gives practical advice on throughout this episode. You don't want to miss it! You can find this new book on the Love and Respect Website, or on Amazon. Check out Dr. Eggerichs's work - it has the power to transform your marriage. I'm happy to announce I have a book out and available! You can find it on Amazon (more options to come.)

Yeah, another publication protesting against the dangers of relativism. It's easy to let this topic pass, simply claiming to know how bad it is, right? Don't be so quick. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I review C S Lewis's book Abolition of Man. He is writing during the rise of relativism after World War 2, and as a classical English professor is uniquely suited to bring this issue up. The invitation is not to merely to oppose relativism in the universities, but even where it tries to creep into our homes. Fighting for objective truth, and the goodness of truth is essential! I talk about how to do that in this episode. I'm happy to announce I have a book out and available! You can find it on Amazon (more options to come.) Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

We all like to win! It feels good to really crush the other team with a stunning victory. Unless that "other team" is your wife or your children... To win in relationships isn't about crushing...so how do we do it? Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I explore the issue of how to follow Christ's example of conquering through vulnerability. Christ had every reason to be "right" and was perfect - yet He wins our hearts through His weakness. His greatest moment of conquest was not sending forth legions of angels, but dying upon the cross. How can you do the same? I'm happy to announce I have a book out and available! You can find it on Amazon (more options to come.) Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

Jesus specifically tells his followers not to babble in prayer. Many people believe that repetitive prayers like the Rosary might fall into this category. Worse, even those who love the Rosary can sometimes fall into mindless repetition. This is not good. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I explore why and how to properly pray repetitive prayer. What are the dangers, what is Our Lord warning against? How do we understand those dangers and react well when we pray our many Catholic repetitive prayers? How can you as a man lead your household well in these prayers? Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

We know we're supposed to forgive. I think we men even persuade ourselves that we're doing "ok" with that. I believe most men aren't even aware of the bitterness and resentment they harbor for their loved ones - particularly their wives. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I explore why and how to forgive our wives. It is a more subtle and more difficult thing than we might think, but it's critically important. Our Lord Himself gave us the prayer where we ask God to forgive us as we forgive others. Are you aware of what you're really asking for? Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

Sometimes it's easy to be a Christian in society - but not really in these times. There are many men I know who are struggling to balance their faith and their public careers. Living in a society that is moving away from traditional Christian values means that we will come into a conflict. How we react to that defines who and what we become next. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as Anthony Freda shares his story of how his career and desires to do great art came into conflict with the forces of the world. He talks about lessons he's learned and ways he's grown along the way. It's a story we can all connect to - even us engineers. :) You can read more about Anthony on his website. Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

In the abstract, we Christians know we will be accountable for our words and deeds to Jesus at our moment of judgement. Yet all too often it doesn't feel real We say things, to our wives, to our Christian brothers, to our children, that we know we should not say. We make ourself to be a hypocrite. Jesus had strong language about that. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I talk about the importance of our words and the powerful effect that they can have in our world, in our families, and inside our own interior. We must be men of action. We must be men where our words align with our action, in charity. To fail to do this is a far great risk than we want to admit or consider. Also if you struggle with it, consider my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

Mental health challenges are real and common. Many of them do require professional help. Many of us, however, make our situation worse through our own actions. Many of us resist the Lord's plan to our own peril. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I talk about a cool overlap between psychology and the faith: that of how our resistance and fear of something can make the situation blow up horribly. Accepting, even welcoming, something we may not find comfortable (but isn't what we want to make it mean) can transform our experience. When we bring the Lord into the picture, and accept Him and His plan, the effect is even more powerful. This goes far beyond anxiety or depression, and into our unhappiness in almost every part of life. Also, I'm announcing my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way

Marriage is hard - but we often do a lot to make it worse. So often we throw bricks up on top of our crosses then complain about how heavy it is. The way to address these difficulties is hard for all of us - but not always in the same way. Join me in the next episode of Catholic Life Coach For Men as I talk about how to handle conflict in a marriage. So many people avoid it entirely, while others approach conflict like Thor spinning his hammer. Balance is always found in the middle. I give you practical ways to enter into conflict without making things worse Also, I'm announcing my course on Anger. It's a collection of powerful ideas and exercises that will help you regain control of your temper - and protect those you love! You can find it here: St Joseph's Way