Do you know how to recognize stinking thinking in a moody person or yourself? There are distinct signs that a person is slipping into a dark mood where things like resentment and self-pity are present. There is even a prediction of an addict's relapse. 

#stinkingthinking #relapse 

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How do you recognize and deal with toxic friendships? Is there a way to analyze your friendship and know that it isn't good for you? And if you recognize it isn't healthy, can you end it? And if you want to end it, how do you do it? Are there any biblical considerations? This video will answer all these questions.

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Do you find yourself or someone close to you taking offense easily to where it is a problem in the relationship? When someone is offended, is the person responsible for their own offense, or is the offender responsible? The question is important because offenses not dealt with appropriately can harm the relationship.

#offenses 

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Practicing radical acceptance is a way of detaching and letting go of what you don't like all at once. It doesn't come naturally to most of us. What does come naturally is to get worked up and control what we don't like. Instead, radical acceptance has you do the opposite. Find out how to put it into practice.

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Counting the cost of confronting is wise when you are dealing with dysfunctional family dynamics.  There is a time to confront and a time not to confront. You get to decide which it is depending on the person, the situation, and what is in your best interest. Watch this video to find out how you can make a wise decision.

#dysfunctionalfamily  #confronting 

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Emotionally immature people cause problems in relationships. You need to know how to recognize whether someone is mature or immature so you can make wise choices in response. Watch this video to learn how to identify whether a person is emotionally immature or emotionally mature.

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Can a dysfunctional person be a born-again Christian? Many people who claim to be Christians are dysfunctional and toxic causing great harm to those they are in a relationship with. Those people are often confused about whether the dysfunctional person is saved and the answer matters.

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One of the reasons people say that they cannot set boundaries is that the other person won't respect them. They ignore them, challenge them, or violate them. They use manipulative tactics to get you to back down. Action boundaries don't depend on the other person's response. It is entirely up to you to decide what you will and won't do. They don't require anyone's permission or approval. You are the only one who matters.  Watch this video to learn how to use action boundaries.

#Boundaries #HealthyBoundaries #ChristianBoundaries

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Dysfunctional families pick a scapegoat to blame for everything that goes wrong. This woman's story is an example of how a family fails to take care of their own responsibilities, expects the scapegoat to take them all on, and then blames the scapegoat for everything that doesn't work. Scapegoating is an incredibly abusive, manipulative, and crazymaking role in a dysfunctional family that typically lasts for life. If you aren't sure whether you are a scapegoat or you know you are but can't make sense of the confusing messages, listen to this podcast.

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Typically, boundaries in relationships are you deciding what you will do and not do and not telling others what to do. This is because you cannot control what others do. However, there are times when you must use imperative boundaries. This podcast explains when to use imperative boundaries.

#Christianboundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyboundaries #abusiverelationship 

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