In this episode, we sit down with Josh and Jaelyn Harrel for a courageous and grace-filled conversation about their journey through pornography addiction, hidden identity struggles, and the painful road to healing and restoration in marriage. As they share candidly about what it looked like to disclose deep secrets and choose connection in the face of betrayal, we’re reminded that God's love can redeem even the most broken places when we choose to walk in the light.

Takeaways:

1. Pornography deeply affects intimacy: Even "secret" struggles erode trust and closeness in marriage.
2. Full disclosure takes time and courage: Healing requires honesty—even when it’s messy or slow.
3. Sexual identity struggles are real in the church: Silence fuels shame; trusted spaces bring hope.
4. The betrayed spouse also has a healing journey: Restoration involves both people doing the heart work.
5. God restores what's been shattered: When we surrender and stay open, beauty rises from the brokenness.
6. Supportive community matters: Trusted friends and wise counselors help carry the weight.
7. Restoration begins with choice: Daily, imperfect steps toward truth and trust make a difference.

Website: restoredliving.com

Instagram: @restoredliving

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