Christians Who Date

History has been made, folks. For the first time ever, all three Christians Who Date are in relationships at the same time. 

We’re spilling all the tea on:

- Kalli's ginormous news

- Andrea's pickleball romance

- Lauren's dating bootcamp

Grab your favorite mug, your emotional support water bottle, and strap in for some major life updates and plenty of jokes.

We grew up hearing we should pray for our husbands. There are entire books and journals around it. But what has it actually looked like?

This week, we're unpacking what it's looked like for us to...

• Toe the line between praying for marriage and idolizing it.
• Ask boldly for something that was God’s idea
• Trust that God's not waiting for you to get married before healing your loneliness, fear, or pain.

If you’ve ever wondered: “Is it okay to want marriage this much?” or “What do I pray while I wait?” - this one's for you!

As Christians, we can get really fixated on finding someone with the same “calling.”

But how much does that actually matter?

In this episode, we talk about the balance between making your calling too big of a deal and not making it a deal at all. If someone’s dream is to live overseas and yours isn’t, that’s probably a no-go. But we’ve also seen people (and been people) who take this idea to an extreme that it doesn’t need to go.

We dig into how our Christian culture talks about calling, how that’s shaped the way we date, and how much pressure is too much pressure in this area.

What happens when you're "just friends" with someone and...

• They have a crush on you
• You have a crush on them
• You both have a mutual crush on each other, but you're in denial

Kalli, Lauren, and Andrea sit down to answer this topic idea thrown out to us by one of you 🎉 :

"Healthy friendship boundaries between single guys and single girls."

How do you take care of your own heart and the other person's heart inside of a friendship that has the potential to be more than a friendship?

Does anxiety in a relationship mean it's not from God?

This week, we sit down with our friends and dating experts, Joy and Mathieu Rossignol.

After experiencing their own anxiety throughout ten months of dating, they were finally able to work through it and get married and engaged IN TWO WEEKS.

Joy is a marriage and family therapist, and together, she and Mathieu have coached hundreds of people experiencing dating anxiety.

If you’ve ever found yourself constantly questioning a relationship or wondering if it’s God’s will, this one’s for you!

Follow Joy on Instagram: @joyrossignol

Check out Joy and Mathieu's Podcast: When You Don't Know

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What happens when you’ve convinced yourself you’re content being single… then realize maybe you’re not?

In this episode, our friend Kate (37) opens up about her story of coming to the Lord, spending 10 years on the mission field, and getting really honest with herself about her desire to be married.

We talk through...

• ​Pride that can come from being single
• ​Transparency vs. Vulnerability
• ​Letting God meet you in the tension between contentment and longing for more

In a 2024 survey, 50% of people said they're single and not looking for a relationship.

Meanwhile, in the church, marriage and family are talked about all the time. Marriage even feels elevated as the godliest relationship status sometimes.

As three people who are not married and have been single in the church for most of our lives, we wanted to weigh in on the question:

Is the church doing enough to serve single people? Or is it failing this growing population of people?

Tune in to find out.

Andrea is finally bringing the question to the table that all of us singles are asking: "How do you actually get a boyfriend?" (Or girlfriend, for you guys out there.)

Kalli and Lauren open up about how they met their boyfriends, we trade tips on dating with intention, and we talk honestly about the balance between putting yourself out there and still living your life to the fullest.

What if your best stories don’t have to wait until you’re married?

In this episode, Andrea and Lauren sit down (without Kalli 😫) and talk through:

• How they met and became friends on the mission field
• Going from being super single to dating up a storm
• Dreams they’ve gone after in their single years
• Myths they no longer believe about singleness
• How they’ve chosen to live each day to the fullest, with or without a relationship

Camp crushes hit different.

In this episode, we're spilling all the details on:

• Lauren’s “camp” (that was mostly manual labor) where she fell in love with a guy mid-lunch prayer
• Kalli’s crush who sang a song in front of the whole camp… that wasn't for her.
• Andrea’s crush who gave her a nickname that made her feel less than delicate.