Christians Who Date

Is there one right person for everyone?

Kalli, Lauren, and Andrea talk through their ideas about “the one” and how they’ve seen this idea play out in dating.

How do you bring other people into the dating process? When do you introduce someone to your friends? Family?

In this episode, Kalli, Andrea, and Lauren unpack:

• Why it’s so important to invite people you trust into your dating life

• When to bring someone around your friends and family

• Why we don't always want to let people in

• How to give and receive feedback with grace

How much does attraction matter in dating? Do you have to be attracted to your boyfriend or girlfriend 24/7?

In this episode, Kalli, Lauren, and Andrea dive into all the questions about chemistry, attraction, and what to do when you’re just not feeling it.

We talk about:

- What attraction actually is (and what it’s not)

- Why it’s normal for attraction to ebb and flow

- How attachment style (and other things) play a role in attraction

The ladies keep it real about chemistry, emotional connection, and how much attraction matters in a relationship.

You have needs. Physical needs. Emotional needs. Spiritual needs. But if you've ever felt like you should be "low-maintenance" or "not too needy," you're not the only one.

In this episode, Kalli, Andrea, and Lauren unpack how to identify your needs and get them met in a healthy way—whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.

How soon is too soon to bring up faith when you're dating? And how do you bring it up naturally instead of making it feel like an interview.

In this episode, Lauren and Andrea talk through the real-life questions they ask to bring up THE most important thing in their life: their faith. It's what shapes their worldview. It's the lens they look at everything else through, and it's an ESSENTIAL conversation, but that doesn't mean they have to take a super intense deep-dive on the first date.

From casual convos to discussing non-negotiables, Lauren and Andrea unpack what it looks like to go hundies in on faith, but also treat people like humans.

How slow or fast is a healthy speed to move in a dating relationship? What does building trust look like?

Kalli, Andrea, and Lauren talk through their biggest pacing fails and what they've learned about setting a healthy dating pace.

Resource:

How to Develop a Relationship: The Intimacy Ladder with Jason Vallotton

Andrea, Kalli, and Lauren sit down to recap the highs, lows, and unexpected plot twists of their dating lives in 2024—what worked, what flopped, and what they’re hoping for in 2025.

The ladies talk about:

• The biggest lessons they learned from dating last year
• What they’re looking forward to in 2025
• How they’re staying hopeful, intentional, and open to all that 2025 holds (dating-wise and for life in general)

Valentine's Day feels HIGH stakes. If you're dating, it feels like there are a lot of expectations. If you're single, it feels like you're 100% gonna be sad all day. But is it possible to have a Valentine's Day and just... enjoy it?

In this episode, Kalli, Andrea, and Lauren talk about how even though they've spent a LOT of Valentine's Days single, they don't hate it, and you don't have to either.

PLUS Lauren talks through the LA fires, Andrea talks about about going on a zillion first dates in the last three months, and Kalli talks about how she feels about her FIRST Valentine's Day in a relationship.

3 best friends taking on the dating world with jokes and Jesus.

The Christians Who Date sit down with arguably one of the most entertaining couples ever to talk about setting healthy boundaries, prioritizing fun in your relationship, and dating in community. Jess and B-Real Gulino share their dating story and the advice they would give their single selves.