This episode covers: Step 2 of the 12 Steps / Believing in a Power greater than ourselves / The root of the problem. Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

1:09 Pornographically addicted

1:32 Step 2 - Restore me to sanity

1:59 Jay gets self-righteous

2:53 Hurt in the name of

Here's our latest episode, which covers:

-Step 1 of the 12 Steps

-How it reflects the steps toward God

-What Jay and Lori see in their clients

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:34 What this season is based on

2:04 Step 1's key phrases

2:27 What Jay sees with the guys he works with

3:02 A different perspective on our powerlessness

3:57 The difficulty Jay had with this step

5:35 How some addicts deal with this

6:28 The "disobedient dog" in Jay

Here's our latest episode, which covers:

-What happened to Jay and Lori in 2020, including run-ins with the IRS

-A behind-the-scenes look at how they celebrated their 25th Anniversary

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:22 Preview of Season 3, and Jay's history with it

1:37 What Lori will be covering/cautioning in Season 3

2:18 For those who've been through betrayal trauma (look for the "S")

2:59 Where were we in 2020?

Hello everyone.

In this episode we cover:

-A quick recap of the season on Betrayal Trauma

-Jay and Lori's favorite episodes

-This season's blooper reel

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

2:50 What this episode is about: a recap & joy (and Lori being stupid : )

0:48 If you've been betrayed

1:06 Guys, imagine if your wife…

In the last full episode of Season 2, we talk about a not-so-fun reality that exists in many areas of our nation: Injustice through Systems of Oppression. BUT we also share something you can do if you find yourself on the receiving end of injustice.

This one starts out talking about the partner's anger at God (it might just be something else). Then we talk about the addict's anger at God, himself… and the wife. And what he should do if he's angry with the wife.

This is a continuation of the last episode where we're covering how Lori responded to those who objected to how we've recovered.

This exchange, however, got a little nastier than the last one.

In this episode we give an example of how to respond to someone who is gentle, yet still misunderstanding the issues involved after betrayal.

Submission in marriage is regularly misunderstood, so this episode discusses what God meant it to look like in marriage… and what it might look like after betrayal.

This episode covers THE thing that can make a situation go from bad to traumatic. We also discuss things that can make the process less damaging for you.