Confidently Insecure

TW: Rape, suicidal ideation 

How does healing after being raped even begin to occur?…what does the victim see as JUSTICE?...how can we guarantee change in this cycle of abuse?

Marlee’s journey: deciding to spend 8 hours with her rapist to heal instead of going through the difficult ass-backwards legal system that probably guarantees no change has inspired me and completely changed the way I look at healing & sexual assault. Please check out more about restorative justice at https://www.rehumanizemovement.com/

https://www.marleeliss.com/  check out her 3 day training on sexual reclamation coming soon!

www.rehumanize.com check out their non-profit and donations are a VERY YES please!!!!!!

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Buzzfeed article referenced: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/laurenstrapagiel/she-was-allegedly-raped-and-couldnt-bear-going-to-trial-so

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Wait...I hope that title wasn't too misleading because these are in fact TWO SEPARATE TOPICS! Okay - so with this virus its been a bit tough to get guests to come over (because, duh, not allowed) BUT FEAR NOT! because so serendipitously - two confidantes stepped in as GUESTS to share the awesome activism and awareness they are doing to make HUGE changes in other's lives. Yall just so selfless I love my confidantes!!!!

CHECK OUT JACOBS SPEECH HERE:https://www.floridatoday.com/story/news/local/2020/02/21/gay-rights-protection-ordinance-sought-students-county-commission/4829465002/

Thank you Kathryn & Jacob the awesome confidantes for sharing their story!

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WOOOO! this was SO FUN and so exhilarating! I was SO NERVOUS to call and surprise some of you that have been doing amazing work during this time.

In this episode I give it ALL to you guys - self care tips, stickers, weird 5am voice memos to myself, and A READING FROM MY BOOK!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

thank you all for being you and being kind to yourselves during this time

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LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES! I thought i knew everything there was to know about sex and masturbation. Until I met Remy. Which is unique because I've been having the big O for over 20 years of my life and Remy just came...2 years ago for the first time! AND NOW SHES THE BEYONCE OF CUMMING. REMY KIASSIMIR - HOST OF HOW CUM PODCAST didn't have an orgasm until the age of 28. So she decided to start a podcast about it! spoiler alert: she DOES come by episode 6! She's giving us confidants all the tips tricks and secrets to her sexual self-pleasure journey.

LISTEN TO MORE OF THE HILARIOUS GORGE REMY ON HER PODCAST “HOW CUM” wherever podcasts are listened to!

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CHECK OUT REMY’S NEW PODCAST 

@weloveisland podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-really-love-island/id1442046937?mt=2

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SOUND THE ALARMS! ITS ANOTHER EPISODE OF HOES THROUGHOUT HISTORY: THE NIGHT WITCHES! #HtH

huge shoutout to @JAZZMYNEJAY and follow her ASOS account @asos_jazzmyne

I know with all the shit happening in the world you guys asked for something a little light - a littler FUNNIER and a little...HOEY-ER! So i present to you the NIGHT WITCHES. OOoOOoSPOOOOKYYYY WITCHES!!! or....ARE THEY? maybe they're the most badass female soldiers you've never heard of? PERHAPS they were soviet union women who proved to the world women should belong in military combat?!

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WELL WELL WELL WELL WELL what do we have here? The end of the world? Over-panic? QUARENTINE?! Well...well...seriously, I can't deal with the stress of whats going on so what better way to take an hour break from this virus stuff to talk bout BUTT STUFF??!

Zach Noe Towers, Steven (stove) Kanter, and KapSLap La DJ Lucas give their respective perspectives on ANAL and all the shitty things it entails!

IF YOU GET ANYTHING FROM THIS EPISODE LET IT BE THAT YOU SHOULDNT BE AFRAID TO EXPLORE YOUR BUTT!

also sorry for the 10min audio fuck up. come on. give me a break.

@zachnoetowers

@stevenkanter

@kapslap

RESOURCES:

MOMENTS OF PASSION article written by JOE DUNCANN 

https://medium.com/moments-of-passion/the-complete-history-of-anal-sex-part-1-34b33ab1355

National Institute of Health

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Ahhh the construct of VIRGINITY! Its a tale as old as time. But we’re here today joined by @Lily_Marston & MAMA DARRAGH to talk all things hymens, backseats, and buttholes. Virgin Mary? I don’t know her. 

Follow Lily: 

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LINK TO SONG: 

https://open.spotify.com/album/39tNwVMO4zHA6QJZyuhuVo?si=u9FfV4eJRqm4TvAqOE4mJg

Search “KAP SLAP” on Apple Music 

WATCH LILY & MEGANS DOC 

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we had to do it. I'm not happy about it BUT I COULDN'T NOT TALK ABOUT POLITICS!!! Theres so much fucking shit on my timelines and in my earballs every day about it!! And of course, with all my frustrations I know the only person who wouldn't yell back at me about this was a stoned white guy - my buddy and writing parter Ian Wolterstorff!!!! Who are YOU voting for?

DONT FORGET TO VOTE IN THE PRIMARIES! IT HELPS LOTS OF STUFF BESIDES DECIDING WHO IS GONNA BE PREZ!

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WWEEEOoooOOOO sound the alarms!!!!

or...don't? wait...should I be freaking out about whats going on in the world with these outbreaks? Or can I keep on my regular scheduled program of managing MY OWN OUTBREAKS (hi yeast fections!) WHEN CAN I PUT DOWN THE GAS MASKS? Do those masks even help?? What about flying? IS IT SAFE or am I being xenophobic? Kelsey & Kapslap talk all things CARONA and historical pandemics....oh....and about kelsey's foster dog eating cum. great.

Learn more about corona virus at:

https://www.who.int/

https://www.cdc.gov/

https://promedmail.org/

USE CODE “CI“ at betterhelp.com for 10% off your first month of therapy :)

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OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW -kelsey getting ready for this episode. 

 

Seriously, could a pain flare (the worst of 2 years) have shown up at a better/worse time than during the recording of this podcast episode with LE DJ KAP SLAP JARED LUCASS?! Kelsey talks about being confidently insecure about the current virus spreading across the world, the crazy shit-uation with JAMEELA JALIL and finally, a surprisingly heartfelt convo with her lover about being in a relationship with someone who is constantly in pain? 

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