By Andee Martineau - Podcaster, Best-Selling Author, Parenting Coach
Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actuall
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Tired of chasing after your kids' attention, wishing they’d just listen already? Plot twist: instead of trying to get their attention through behavior battles, let’s flip the focus to giving them the kind of attention that matters.
In this episode, we’re breaking down why high-quality, intentional attention is the secret sauce to getting the connection and cooperation you crave (without bribes or begging). Because when your kids feel truly seen and heard, their good behavior starts showing up on its own. No magic wands, just a little mindset shift that changes everything.
So, ready to ditch the “Do you hear me?!” cycle and step into attention-connection-mode? Let’s do this! ❤️
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I teach about Emotional Expression ALL. THE. TIME!
If you're in League with me (my amazing CMP implementation program) you've heard me talk nonstop about this. Because taking the trip from Mad --> Sad is where it's at.
Today I'm taking you on a bit of a journey. I'm sharing an experience from earlier this week where I allowed myself, okay let's be honest, where I intentionally released some pretty big emotions. Better out than in, as they say!!
It brought on 24 hours of on-and-off crying, puffy eyes, a HUGE emotional release, and a nervous system reset.
I'm getting real, raw, and vulnerable today in this unscripted episode full of lots of emotion. I can't wait for you to hear it. Love you all!!!
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Are you consuming or creating? Are you thinking about doing something, or are you actually doing it? We're diving into the difference between massive and passive action in parenting.
As the holidays approach, we're talking about how to maintain a calm, confident, and connected parenting approach, no matter the season.
Explore the concept of massive action—taking action until you achieve the desired results—and how it contrasts with passive action, which involves consuming information without creating tangible outcomes.
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By pulling out and examining our thoughts and emotions, we can decide which ones serve us and which ones need to be let go. This practice is crucial for maintaining a calm and connected parenting approach, especially in emotionally charged situations.
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I'm sharing practical insights on building connection with children through empathy, presence, and truly seeing and hearing them. I share one of my favorite poems of all time by John Rodel. It doesn't have a title but I call it “The Tear Catcher.” This poem captures the power of being there without trying to fix, showing how empathy can create a lasting bond between parents and kids. I'm going to share with you the Seen and Heard Approach and explain how “Stop, Drop, and Roll” can help you pause and be present, especially during emotional or challenging moments. Let's replace traditional discipline tools with practices that make children feel secure and understood.
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In this powerful finale of our five-day Connect Method Parenting Bootcamp, we’re wrapping up with the ultimate blueprint for connection-first parenting! I’m guiding you through creating a parenting structure rooted in trust, influence, and, most importantly, connection with your child. Just like you wouldn’t build a house without a blueprint, this episode gives you the essentials to build a solid, connection-based approach in your home that will stand the test of time.
In this episode, I’ll revisit the strategies introduced throughout the bootcamp, with practical steps to help you put down correction and pick up the tools of connection. We’ll explore how to create a relationship plan, introduce the Response Plan Assistant, and choose closeness as the foundation of every interaction.
If you’re joining me for the Parenting Pivot, these insights will give you a solid 30,000-foot view, making our CMP deep dive even more impactful. For everyone listening, grab a notebook, dive in, and make these strategies yours. And hey, why not share this episode with a friend so you can unpack it together? Because in the end, connection isn’t just about parenting—it’s the key to thriving relationships all around!
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I understood exactly three words: rápido, izquierda, and muy bien.
But I didn’t need to know Spanish to get the point—the instructor’s tone, expression, energy, and body language said it all. Just like your tone, expression, energy, and body language say it all to your kids.
They can read you like a hawk. That's why parenting "tips and tricks' aren't enough. Your kids can see right through them. If you want your kid to WANT to listen to you you're gonna like today's episode. The Connect Method Parenting framework helps you dial in your connective tone, expression, energy, and body language so you're sending these kinds of messages to your kids...
"I'm here for you."
"Your BIG emotions are welcome here."
"It's okay to mess up."
"I love how you see the world."
"This is hard."
Today's episode is Day 4 of a LIVE 5-Day Parenting Bootcamp I taught last month. Let's goooo!!
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Today, we're diving into the heart of what makes parenting click—connection! We'll explore why attachment is our #1 need and how it shapes every little interaction with our kids. Join Andee as she shares gems from her recent five-day training, giving you the inside scoop on the Connect Method Parenting framework. Whether you're ready for the Parenting Pivot or just want to bring more connection into your family life, this episode is packed with insights you'll love!
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Today's focus is on emotions, nervous systems, and triggers. We explore how our perceptions shape our emotional experiences and how to navigate these emotions with compassion and understanding. The PEACE process helps us pause, explore, affirm, and create new responses, fostering emotional regulation and deeper connections with our children.
Let's do this!!!
Ep #84 Drama At The Train Station
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To celebrate us starting the PIVOT this week, I'm sharing a five day training I did about a month ago with you all. So excited to share it. It's going to be a great resource for everyone who's starting the PIVOT with me this week because we're going to be spending the next eight weeks deep diving on these strategies. And so looking at them from a 30,000 foot view before deep diving is going to be very valuable and make the work we do in the PIVOT even more impactful.
Now, for those not starting the PIVOT this week, I want you to listen to these episodes from the five day bootcamp very carefully. Take notes, do the assignments I'm asking the parents who are live to do because I'm giving you the entire Connect Method parenting framework over these five episodes. It's the Connect Method parenting blueprint. When you build a house, you wouldn't even consider building a house without a blueprint. It guides the entire process of building from start to finish so the house makes sense so it doesn't crumble and fall apart. So when you're building a connection based parenting structure, you have to have a blueprint so that it makes sense, so that it doesn't fall over, so that it's structurally sound.
Let's dive in!
Ep #84 Drama At The Train Station
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