Clarity on Fire

Conscious breakups & brave conversations with normal person Marina


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The last few months of 2018 were pretty monumental for Marina. The turning point was in October when she met to a retreat with 300 other women hosted by powerhouse inspirational couple Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach.

She returned from the retreat having witnessed real-deal true love, which solidified the realization that her partnership wasn't that, and that it was time to end things.

But how do you break up in a more evolved, conscious way? Is it even possible? Rachel and Marina talked about…

  • How she knew it was time to end her romantic relationship, and what you may need to ask yourself if you're in a similar position.
  • Why she and her ex decided to keep going to therapy and continue living together, post-breakup.
  • How to respond to the people in your life who may not understand your relationship choices.
  • The uncomfortable experience she had being one of only a handful of women of color at the personal development retreat.
  • How she bravely voiced her discomfort and got a very unexpected response from the event's leaders, and the ripple effect she's produced.

After you've listened, leave a comment to let us know how Marina's wisdom resonated with you.

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RESOURCES MARINA MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Resources for unpacking racism and white supremacy:

Rachel Ricketts IG @iamrachelricketts FB @rayrayricketts

Rachel Cargle IG @rachel.cargle FB @rachelcargle

Layla Saad IG @laylafsaad

Catrice Jackson IG @catriceology

Follow Black Women Conference

Val Day Sanchez IG @authorvaldaysanchez

Mindful of Race by Ruth King

White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo

Resources for relationships:

Conscious Uncoupling by Katherine Woodward Thomas

Gottman Institute

Find a therapist (there's even a filter for Gottman Method!)

One other amazing human she mentioned:

Aaron Rose ("who benefits from this belief?") IG @aaronxrose

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