In Episode 97 of Beyond the High Road Podcast, Shelby Milford delves deep into the challenges and emotional struggle that come with parental alienation. She reflects on past experiences, including court battles and the stresses of proving her worth as a mother. Shelby shares insights from Mark Manson on finding purpose by understanding what you are willing to struggle for. Through personal anecdotes, she discusses the importance of redefining pain and setbacks as part of the journey, and emphasizes the need for clarity and brutal honesty with oneself about goals and motivations. Shelby encourages listeners to embrace their struggles with intention and focus, ensuring that they are aligned with their true desires and ultimate goals in their fight for reunification.

00:00 Introduction and Recap

00:40 The Gym Analogy: Embracing the Struggle

02:59 Applying the Mindset to Alienation

06:20 Choosing Your Struggles

14:00 Court Battles and Personal Struggles

20:21 The Never-Ending Testing Cycle

27:34 Finding Clarity and Purpose

28:04 Reflecting on the Past Struggles

30:07 The Wrong Fight: Lessons from The Karate Kid

31:42 Understanding Your True Purpose

33:59 Reunification Challenges

37:30 The Importance of Self-Honesty

41:04 Empowering Yourself and Setting Realistic Goals

49:15 Choosing Yourself First

52:25 Final Thoughts and Encouragement