In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the topic of staying in an unhappy marriage. They emphasize that unhappiness is temporary and that every marriage goes through unhappy times. They encourage couples to seek wise counsel, invite God into the situation, and be kind to one another. They also highlight the importance of communication, forgiveness, and getting to the root of unhappiness.

Takeaways

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:00 Defining Unhappiness in Marriage

03:23 Unhappiness is Temporary

06:15 Seeking Resources for Help

08:37 The Power of Repentance and Change

11:48 Unhappiness is Common in Marriage

18:00 The Importance of Communication and Perspective

21:19 The Role of Forgiveness and Moving Forward

25:33 Getting to the Root of Unhappiness

27:29 The Impact of a Happy Wife

29:54 The Importance of Kindness

34:54 Conclusion

Article: Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?

https://ifstudies.org/blog/should-couples-in-unhappy-marriages-stay-together

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the erosion of modesty in modern society and its impact on marriage & families. They emphasize the importance of parents setting a standard of modesty and teaching their children to honor God and themselves. They also discuss the significance of modesty in identity, community, serving others, and recognizing authority. They encourage parents to stand firm in teaching modesty and to plant seeds of truth in their children's lives.

Takeaways

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Weekend Recap

03:24 The Erosion of Modesty

06:16 The Lack of Modesty in Modern Women

10:09 The Impact on Relationships and Finding Good Men

16:30 The Role of Parents in Teaching Modesty

21:21 The Importance of Modesty in Identity and Community

25:47 The Significance of Modesty in Serving Others

29:10 The Authority and Discipline of Modesty

36:24 Conclusion and Encouragement for Parents

Article: The Modesty Conversation We Need to Have

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/modesty-conversation/

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Summary

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss eight signs that indicate falling out of love with a spouse. They emphasize the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking action to address them.

Takeaways:

•Recognize the signs of falling out of love early and take action to address them.

•Nurture your relationship by planning exciting and adventurous activities together.

•Be open and vulnerable with your partner, sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings.

•Avoid seeking opportunities to avoid your partner and instead prioritize spending quality time together.

•Choose open communication over silent contempt and address disagreements in a healthy manner.

•Discuss any uncertainties about the future with your partner and seek counseling if needed.

•Avoid longing for someone or something else and focus on rekindling love in your current relationship.

•Work on being less defensive and seek outside help if necessary.

•Replace constant criticism with love, respect, and appreciation for your partner.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:29 Appreciating Listeners and Impact

02:28 Discussing the Topic: Eight Signs That You're Falling Out of Love With Your Spouse

04:19 Chapter 1: Not Excited to Spend Time Together

06:41 Chapter 2: Not Open with Your Partner

08:07 Chapter 3: Seeking Opportunities to Avoid Your Partner

10:05 Chapter 4: Choosing Silent Contempt over Disagreements

11:33 Chapter 5: Feeling Uncertain about the Future with Your Partner

13:25 Chapter 6: Longing for Someone or Something Else

16:10 Chapter 7: Being Overly Defensive

17:33 Chapter 8: Constantly Criticizing Your Partner

20:24 Conclusion and Encouragement

Article - 8 Signs You’re Falling Out of Love With Your Partner, According to a Relationship Expert

https://www.brides.com/falling-out-love-4150474

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the power struggle that many couples face in their relationships. They provide practical advice and biblical principles to help couples resolve these power struggles and become a power couple in Christ.

Takeaways

Power struggles in relationships can be resolved by applying biblical principles and seeking God's guidance.

Using reason and avoiding pressure tactics is essential in resolving conflicts.

Committing the unreasonable spouse to the Lord in prayer can bring about healing and reconciliation.

Reconciling trust issues requires humility, acknowledging faults, and seeking forgiveness.

Seeking help from a pastor or counselor can provide guidance and support in resolving power struggles.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:00 Power Struggle in Relationships

02:25 Using Reason and Avoiding Pressure Tactics

03:30 Committing the Unreasonable Spouse to the Lord in Prayer

05:26 Reconciling Trust Issues

07:34 Seeking Forgiveness and Humbling Yourself

09:46 Getting Help from a Pastor or Counselor

13:42 Conclusion

Article - Power Struggle in Relationships: Signs & Ways to Deal

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/power-struggle-in-relationships/

Article - Resolving Power Struggles in Your Marriage

https://www.covenantkeepers.org/online-articles/42-conflict-resolution/572-resolving-power-struggles-in-your-marriage-3

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the power struggle that often occurs in relationships. They define power struggle as a dynamic where both partners vie for control, authority, or dominance. They explore the biblical origins of power struggle and how it is a consequence of sin. They also identify common signs of power struggle in relationships, such as consistent arguments, dominance and control, and withholding affection or intimacy. The episode concludes with strategies for resolving power struggles, including dealing with selfishness, fearing God, understanding divine roles, and choosing equality and fairness.

Takeaways

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

00:58 Definition of Power Struggle

02:27 The Curse of Power Struggle

03:27 Identifying Power Struggles

05:24 Resolving Power Struggles

08:19 Dealing with Selfishness

10:45 Fearing God

12:13 Recognizing Spiritual Problems

17:53 Understanding Divine Roles

20:33 Choosing Equality and Fairness

Article - Power Struggle in Relationships: Signs & Ways to Deal

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/power-struggle-in-relationships/

Article - Resolving Power Struggles in Your Marriage

https://www.covenantkeepers.org/online-articles/42-conflict-resolution/572-resolving-power-struggles-in-your-marriage-3

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In this episode of the Covenant Army Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss six no-nos for husbands when relating to their wives. They emphasize the importance of not telling her how to solve her problems or how to feel, and instead, being sensitive to her feelings and apologizing when necessary. They also highlight the need for husbands to understand that sexual intimacy is not just physical for women, but also emotional, psychological, and spiritual. Additionally, they stress the importance of husbands not neglecting their responsibilities as the spiritual head of the family. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and advice for husbands to strengthen their relationships with their wives.

Takeaways

Don't tell your wife how to solve her problems or how to feel; be sensitive and apologize when necessary.

Recognize that sexual intimacy is not just physical for women, but also emotional, psychological, and spiritual.

Don't neglect your responsibilities as the spiritual head of the family; lead by example and encourage spiritual growth.

Be an active and supportive partner in the household chores and childcare responsibilities.

Seek resources and tools, such as those provided by Family Life, to strengthen your marriage and family.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

08:01 Chapter 1: Don't Tell Her How to Solve Her Problems

11:29 Chapter 2: Don't Tell Her How to Feel

13:50 Chapter 3: Don't Dismiss Her Hurts

16:44 Chapter 4: Don't Assume She Views Sexual Intimacy the Same Way

18:08 Chapter 5: Don't Think Your Job is Done When You Come Home

22:32 Chapter 6: Don't Ignore Your Responsibility as the Spiritual Head

29:14 Conclusion

Family Life article:

6 No-No’s for Relating to Your Woman

https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/husbands/6-nonos-for-relating-to-your-woman/

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Are there some behaviors happening in your relationship that could put you at risk for an affair? In this episode, Brent and Lucy, discuss 7 bad habits that can lead you down the path to adultery. 

7 Bad Habits that Can Lead to Adultery Article- XOMarriage

https://xomarriage.com/articles/7-bad-habits-that-can-lead-to-adultery/

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Do you take much of what your spouse does for granted or are you appreciative of all you have? In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss behaviors that may be communicating a negative or bad attitude toward your spouse versus having an attitude of gratitude.

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Why is dating so difficult after marriage? In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss the pitfalls and hurdles that become excuses for couples not to go on dates after saying "I do", and share a few tips on how to overcome them.

Is your marriage based on a contract or a covenant?? There has been a huge media buzz about Covenant Marriage in recent days. It all started with the new Speaker of the House, Mike Johnson, and his wife, Kelly Johnson, speaking on having a covenant marriage. In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss what much of this buzz is about, and define the difference between a contract and a covenant marriage.

What Is a Covenant Marriage?

(New York Times Article)

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/03/style/covenant-marriage-divorce.html

What is the difference between a covenant and a contract?

https://www.gotquestions.org/difference-covenant-contract.html

What is a covenant marriage?

https://www.gotquestions.org/covenant-marriage.html

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