In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the attack on marriage and the importance of safeguarding and honoring this sacred institution. They highlight the consequences of not prioritizing marriage and family, as well as the deception of the cultural narrative that promotes staying single. The conversation emphasizes the biblical perspective on marriage and the benefits of getting married young. They also explore the rewards of selflessness in marriage and the role of parents in teaching the importance of family to the younger generation. The episode concludes with a call to stand for godly marriage and fight against the forces that seek to destroy it.

Takeaways

• Marriage is under attack in today's society, and it is important to safeguard and honor this sacred institution.

• The cultural narrative that promotes staying single and prioritizing personal success over marriage and family is deceptive and leads to loneliness and emptiness.

• Getting married young can have numerous benefits, including the opportunity to build a strong foundation and avoid the baggage of past relationships.

• Selflessness is key in marriage, and prioritizing the needs of your spouse and family leads to greater fulfillment and happiness.

• Parents play a crucial role in teaching the importance of family and marriage to the younger generation, counteracting the negative influences of society.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

00:57 Marriage Under Attack

06:16 The Deception of Staying Single

10:38 The Importance of Honoring Marriage

14:00 The Impact of Impurity on Marriage

16:25 The Influence of Society on Marriage

21:14 The Rewards of Selflessness in Marriage

23:42 Teaching the Importance of Family

26:38 The Spiritual Battle for Marriage

29:05 The Fight to Preserve Marriage

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the importance of fidelity in marriage. They explore different aspects of fidelity, including faithfulness, trust, and honesty. They also share personal experiences and discuss the benefits of marital fidelity. The conversation emphasizes the need to take fidelity seriously and make it a priority in marriage.

Takeaways

• Fidelity is crucial in maintaining a strong and healthy marriage.

• Faithfulness, trust, and honesty are key components of fidelity.

• Challenges to fidelity include societal influences and the temptation to hide or omit information.

• Fidelity brings psychological peace, financial benefits, and a sense of unity in marriage.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

00:58 The Importance of Fidelity

08:11 Challenges to Fidelity

10:31 Faithfulness and Trust

22:08 Personal Experience with Fidelity

27:23 Benefits of Marital Fidelity

29:15 Taking Fidelity Seriously

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the concept of brainwashing and how it can be both positive and negative. They discuss the importance of renewing the mind with God's Word and the need to identify and overcome negative brainwashing. They emphasize the power of God's Word to transform and renew our minds, leading to a more aligned and purposeful life.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Movie Reviews

05:20 The Influence of Media and Social Media

12:04 Renewing the Mind with God's Word

15:59 The World's Distorted View of Marriage

28:58 The Battle of Renewing the Mind

32:25 The Power of God's Word to Transform

34:22 Conclusion

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the impact of money on marriages. They highlight the importance of having open and honest conversations about finances before getting married. They stress the need for couples to work together as a team and prioritize their marriage over money. They encourage couples to seek help and align their finances with God's plan.

Takeaways

• Have open and honest conversations about finances before getting married.

• Once married, it is 'our money' and 'our debts.'

• Avoid hiding money from each other and prioritize transparency and trust.

• Work together as a team and prioritize your marriage over money.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

00:29 Top Reasons for Divorce

01:24 Infidelity and Divorce

03:19 Money in the Bible

04:21 Introduction to Dave Ramsey

05:20 Money Issues in Marriages

06:19 Having a Money Talk Before Marriage

07:14 Combining Finances in Marriage

08:11 Hiding Money from Each Other

09:09 Equal Say in Finances

10:37 Marriage vs. Roommate Situation

11:35 Working Together as a Team

12:34 Money as a Tool, Not a Master

13:32 Being Transparent and Honest

14:02 Being on the Same Team

15:01 Choosing Agreement as the Goal

15:57 Money as a Blessing, Not a Curse

18:26 Equal Say in Finances

19:53 Money as a Tool, Not a Master

20:52 God's Provision and Blessing

22:49 Being on the Same Team

24:14 Seeking Help and Alignment with God's Plan

24:45 Conclusion

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the topic of complacency in marriage. They highlight the negative effects of complacency and provide examples of signs to look out for. Brent and Lucy emphasize the importance of being intentional, appreciating each other, and seeking God's help to overcome complacency and strengthen the marriage.

Takeaways

• Complacency in marriage can lead to a lack of effort, growth, and investment in the relationship.

• Signs of complacency include lack of deep conversations, loss of desire for sex, feeling distant, and failure to make future plans.

• To overcome complacency, couples should be intentional, appreciate each other, and seek God's help.

• Regular date nights, open communication, and personal grooming can help prevent complacency in a relationship.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Topic of Complacency in Marriage

01:25 Observation at the Gym and Reflections on Divorce

04:17 Definition and Effects of Complacency in a Relationship

07:20 Signs of Complacency: Lack of Deep Conversations and Personal Grooming

09:45 Loss of Desire for Sex and Feeling Distant

11:12 Lack of Date Nights and Attention

12:43 Inability to Resolve Conflict and Lack of Future Plans

16:53 Feeling Bored and Settling

19:16 Lack of Attention and Failure to Discuss Future Plans

23:32 Importance of Complimenting and Appreciating Each Other

26:24 Taking Action and Seeking God's Help

27:04 Conclusion

Article:

11 Signs of Complacency in a Relationship and Ways to Fix It

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/ways-to-avoid-being-complacent-in-a-relationship/

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss what husbands really want in a marriage. They address the issue of men feeling slighted and the need for more information on how wives can connect with their husbands.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:29 Men feeling slighted

03:23 What men really want: Respect

04:48 What men really want: Appreciation

11:05 What men really want: Physical intimacy

12:03 What men really want: Interest in hobbies

18:14 What men really want: A welcoming home

20:10 Conclusion

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the 11 attributes of love and how to demonstrate them in practical ways in a marriage. They encourage couples to practice these attributes not just on Valentine's Day, but every day to strengthen their relationship and honor God.

Takeaways

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Valentine's Day

03:22 Attributes of Love: Giving Love

05:37 Attributes of Love: Sacrificial Love

07:03 Attributes of Love: Serving Love

08:00 Attributes of Love: Freely Given Love

08:59 Attributes of Love: Submissive Love

10:28 Attributes of Love: Supporting Love

11:24 Attributes of Love: Kind Love

12:22 Attributes of Love: Understanding Love

13:19 Attributes of Love: Laboring Love

15:16 Attributes of Love: Gentle Love

17:07 Attributes of Love: Forgiving Love

21:02 Conclusion and Valentine's Day Plans

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What It Means To Love Your Spouse

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This is the Covenant Army Podcast! Our mission is to equip couples to align with God, and win the daily battles raging against marriage and families.

In this episode of the Covenant Army Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the topic of conflict resolution in marriage. They explore the challenges couples face when resolving conflicts and the importance of understanding each other's perspectives. Overall, the episode highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and teamwork in resolving conflicts and strengthening marriages.

Takeaways

•Conflict arises from differences and misunderstandings in marriage.

•Resolving conflicts requires understanding and communication.

•Conflict resolvers look for win-win solutions and avoid personal attacks.

•Having a common goal and unity in marriage is essential for resolving conflicts.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Mission

00:58 Is Your Marriage a Battlefield?

01:55 Communication Issues and Resolving Conflict

03:17 The Song "Battleships" by Daughtry

05:11 Conflict Arises from Differences and Misunderstandings

07:37 Conflict Resolution and Resolving Conflict

09:31 Conflict Avoidance and Pride

10:58 The Destructive Effects of Unresolved Conflict

12:22 Recognizing the Need for a Timeout

13:44 The Importance of Understanding Each Other

15:17 Conflict Resolvers Look for Win-Win Solutions

17:43 Avoiding Disrespect and Personal Attacks

20:38 Practical Steps for Conflict Resolution

23:29 Having a Common Goal in Marriage

30:00 Recognizing the Power of Unity in Marriage

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In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss 10 red flags to watch out for before getting married or even dating. They emphasize the importance of being aware of these red flags and addressing them before entering into a marriage. 

Takeaways

•Be aware of red flags in a potential partner before getting married or even dating.

•Address red flags before entering into a marriage.

•Some red flags include being too good to be true, consuming vast quantities of something, always having to get their way, worshiping themselves, being a spiritual dud, being tangled in apron strings, having mommy or daddy issues, being a ticking time bomb, having off the chart fears, and not connecting on an emotional level.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

03:19 Red Flag #1: They're Too Good to Be True

08:58 Red Flag #2: They Consume Vast Quantities of Something

10:51 Red Flag #3: They Always Have to Get Their Way

12:47 Red Flag #4: They Worship Themselves

13:45 Red Flag #5: They Are a Spiritual Dud

15:39 Red Flag #6: They Are Tangled in Apron Strings

18:01 Red Flag #7: They Have Mommy or Daddy Issues

20:25 Red Flag #8: They Are a Ticking Time Bomb

22:18 Red Flag #9: They Have Off the Chart Fears

23:48 Red Flag #10: They Don't Connect on an Emotional Level

26:08 Conclusion

Article:10 Red-Flag People to Avoid Dating and Marrying

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