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On Episode 4, we are asking the questions: “What is Courage?” What does it like when it shows up? Why is it important for us to be Courageous? What do you do to stand Courageously?

Listen as The Unscathed Life Podcast host, Tonbra shares principles and lived experiences on how courage has been a core pillar for her transformation into Living Unscathed. Learn about how to show Courage when your body is crippled with Fear and the theory on the link between the two. 

The main points I share on this episode are:

1. What fear mastery is and how mastering fear can help you live a more courageous life. 6:13. 
2. How courage helps with voicing your convictions. 9:33.  
3. What the courage spectrum is and how understanding and appreciating it are the building blocks to a more courageous life. 11:21
4. What the true prize of being courageous is 15:20
5. Why is courage important in your journey to Living Unscathed . 17:54

With these principles, you can be a lot more courageous in your daily living and I end this episode by saying no matter where you started or where you are on this journey called life, my hope is that through my words, you find the courage to rewrite your story into a beautiful ending. 

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On Episode 3, our guest, Chisom Owolabi, is the Author of a new book called  ‘Becoming Who God Says I am: Valorous’, and is speaking on her life’s journey through multilayered setbacks, which include witnessing the murder of her father at age 7 and watching her mother take her last breath in a hospital, after a valiant fight with cancer, 14 years later. 

Chisom openly shares what she has learnt on the journey to becoming the Valorous person she is now. Her experiences include battles with brokenness plus the void that comes with losing a parent early. She also shares her personal experiences of overcoming deep depression, fear, identity crisis and sexual molestation at a very young age. 

Chisom desires more than anything to see young women thrive and encourages everyone to own their stories and share their experiences so others can learn from it and make better choices in their own lives.  

Chisom is a great example of someone who is ‘Living Unscathed’. She has been able to manifest her highest self regardless of the setbacks she has experienced in her own life. This entire episode will teach and inspire you and leave you greatly motivated. 

Key learnings of the episode are:

• The importance of parents teaching self awareness from an early age and encouraging children to be outspoken about adult interactions as a way to mitigate the risk of children becoming victims of sexual abuse
• The benefit of taking each day as it comes and thinking too far into the future as a means to manage the overwhelm of trying to overcome a setback 
• The power of journaling and visualising your goals, even in dark times, and how it can help you manifest a better and more purposeful life in the future. 
• The importance of not feeling shame about your experiences, as sharing it can help others make better decisions in their own lives. 

Chisom Owolabi is an accomplished Consultant. She holds an Undergraduate Degree in Management Economics and a Master's Degree in Business Analysis and Management. 

​Chisom is the Author of a new book called  ‘Becoming Who God Says I am: Valorous’, where she paints a wonderful picture of God's redemptive love and restoration despite adversity. This book will encourage, inspire and ultimately bring you hope.

​Chisom is married to Promise Owolabi and together, they are raising two wonderful boys.

Connect with Chisom on www.becomingvalorous.com and on instagram at @valorouswoman. 

Let’s continue the conversation on Instagram and on Facebook. Use the hashtag iamunscathed. Thank you for subscribing, listening, reviewing and rating this podcast.  

On Episode 2, our very first guest, Ilami Onyekwum, founder of 'Good Living with Mae' is speaking on her journey to finding happiness after overcoming significant loss in her personal life. 

She shares the raw truth about her healing journey and opens up about what it has taken to find herself again. She highlights some of the personal practices that have helped her stay advancing in the face the challenges she has faced. Ilami is dropping gems and great insights this entire episode. Key learnings from this episode are:

• The importance of putting things into perspective; appreciating your daily blessings as you navigate your way through loss can help bring balance into your mindscape
• The role of vulnerability in your healing journey; having moments of vulnerability can help you have more meaningful interactions 
• Not denying your emotions space; taking occasional time out from your daily routine can help with addressing your emotions instead of running from them 
• Surrounding yourself with the right people; making sure you are surrounded by people who are invested in yourself happiness but do not denigrate your pain

Ilami Mabel Onyekwum (Mae) is a Supply Chain Specialist and what most people consider an All-Rounder. With an intense passion for living life to the fullest, she thrives in the face of challenges, often inspiring others to do the same.

She balances a demanding career in Oil & Gas with her role as a devoted wife and mother, her call as a travel and food enthusiast, and her determination to do life with as much grace as possible. 

Having explored diverse parts of the world, nurtured relationships with a wide spectrum of people, lived and worked in 3 continents whilst maintaining a very strong connection to her roots, she is perfectly poised to launch a creative lifestyle outlet - “Good Living with Mae”, focused on all things good food, good conversations and overall well being. 

Connect with Ilami on www.goodlivingwithmae.com and on instagram at @goodlivingwithmae. 

Let’s continue the conversation on Instagram and on Facebook. Use the hashtag #iamunscathed. Thank you for subscribing, listening, reviewing and rating this podcast.  

On this very first episode of The Unscathed Life Podcast, I talk about ‘Unscathed Living’, a phrase I coined to describe a mindset that is not harmed or injured by negative experiences of the past. I go into a sufficient detail around what the phrase truly means and share where it all started. 

Furthermore, I challenge your thinking around adversity. I  also share the overall intention of the podcast and structure going forwards.  

Let’s continue the conversation on Instagram and on Facebook. Use the hashtag #iamunscathed. Thank you for subscribing, listening, reviewing and rating this podcast.  

Hello and welcome to the Unscathed Life Podcast. A Podcast that inspires you to push beyond adversity and rewrite your story. On the show I will share some of the core principles that underpin Unscathed Living, a life I define as the intentional manifestation of your highest self regardless of circumstance. Every episode will motivate and challenge you to live purposely, and stay advancing despite adversity.