Allison continues her series on belonging, talking to Dr. Jay Van Bavel about social identities, stereotypes, and exploring the truth behind our deep need to belong. How do we identify with others? What groups do feel safe with and which ones are considered threats? These are all questions that are important to our lives, our views on the world around us and our own views about our ourselves. 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• Social identities
• Political identities
• The impact of feeling excluded
• Are our thoughts really autonomous?
• The "7 Days Adventists" experiment
• Stereotypes: a double-edged sword

TIMESTAMPS:

[00:03:40] Influence of social groups.

[00:06:38] Social identity concept explained.

[00:11:08] The power of social groups.

[00:13:58] Political partisanship and biological predisposition.

[00:17:24] The power of linguistics.

[00:20:43] Cult-like dynamics in organizations.

[00:22:49] False beliefs in cults.

[00:27:35] Stereotyping in the political realm.

[00:29:15] Finding common ground for interaction.

[00:32:10] Stinky clothes experiment.

[00:36:15] Psychological safety in teams.

[00:39:25] Political identity affecting beliefs.

[00:41:55] Thanksgiving dinner polarization impact.

[00:46:37] The Power of Us.

GUESTS LINKS:

• Dr. Jay's website
• The Power of Us book
• Follow Dr. Jay on Twitter

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Allison talks with author and researcher David McRaney about the nature of changing minds and how to get through to someone who seemingly won't bend their beliefs.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• What happens in our brains when we change our mind
• How opposite opinions can connect
• What to do when you want to change someone's mind
• Difference between attitude, beliefs and values
• Persuasion techniques
• Impact of social identities in changing minds

SHOW LINKS:

• Visit David McRaney's website
• Follow David on Instagram
   

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Scrap everything you've been taught about parenting. This is a totally fresh approach. The adolescent and teen years are SO difficult. Any way to make this easier? How do you decode what's happening with your child and how to process it. I am so proud to bring this important episode to you with parent and teen coach, Cindy Robinson.

Topics covered:

• Current climate post-pandemic
• Brain physiology of adolescents/teens
• Parent/adolescent dynamic is designed to fail in our culture
• #1 way to handle a tumultuous relationship
• Counter-intuitive messaging
• Obstacles between parent and the child's growth
• What to do with mistakes?
• Academics
• Safe place to fall and boundaries
• Which battles to pick
• Controlling vs teaching life lessons
• There's no more "B" students
• MORE effective communication
• Anger and struggles
• How to detect real trouble
• Different parenting styles
• Teens, screens, and you

Cindy Robinson's Links:

• Website
• IG

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What if you rewound the parenting clock back to the 80's TODAY? A recent article has gone viral about a healthier universe not only for our kids, but for us as parents if we adopted the "let go of the reins" and let the kids rule their world.
 

Our favorite unconventional, yet surprisingly logical (and always right when I try her methods IRL) parent and teen coach is back, Cindy Robinson, for us to battle it all out and consider an alternative approach.

Timestamps:

[00:01:39] Old School Parenting Approach.

[00:06:03] Parenting in Stranger Things era.

[00:08:29] TV show creators' movie inspirations.

[00:12:49] A Stranger Things Childhood.

[00:16:23] Online grooming and sex trafficking.

[00:21:06] Teaching independence to kids.

[00:24:46] Safety plans for children.

[00:29:31] The importance of making mistakes.

[00:33:38] Childhood adventures and mischief.

[00:36:19] Teenagers making poor decisions.

[00:41:15] Free range childhood.

[00:42:23] Conscious parenting journey.

[00:47:24] Mourning lost potential in children.

[00:52:30] Maya Hawke & shrinking character list.

[00:54:16] Parenting tips for mental health.

Cindy Robinson's Links:

• Website
• IG

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It's been a minute since I did a raw life update. Big changes, revelations, and news you can use.

I decided to take a totally different approach to this one and would love your feedback on how it lands for you! 

Timestamps:
00:03:04 - Life Lessons and Updates
00:05:34 - Building a Coaching Practice
00:06:04 - Entrepreneurial Roller Coaster
00:09:25 - Balancing Multiple Roles
00:11:22 - High Performers and Self-Isolation
00:12:41 - Deciding Where to Spend Time and Energy
00:14:03 - Cultural Change and Taking Care of Each Other
00:15:10 - Enduring Tough Times Together
00:16:07 - Announcement
00:20:26 - Struggles with Perfectionism
00:21:08 - Taking Off the Mask
00:25:26 - Finding Inspiration and Emerging Ideas
00:27:01 - Distraction and Social Media
00:28:07 - Training for a Half Marathon
00:29:00 - Running Man Festival Experience
00:30:05 - Personal Growth Through Endurance Challenges
00:33:27 - Need for Time and Space
00:34:10 - New Focus and Challenges
00:35:03 - Mastering Discipline and Time Management
00:37:24 - Identifying Strengths and Weaknesses
00:44:11 - Struggles with Monetizing Personal Life
00:47:01 - Working on Stillness
00:48:06 - Slowing Down and Limiting Social Media
00:49:01 - Hearing Own Voice and Self-Compassion
00:50:06 - Negative Self-Talk Awareness

Resources Mentioned:

• Schedule a free 1:1 Brainstorming Call
• Surprisingly True Useful Fun Fact (STUFF) Source

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When you get your picture taken, you probably think about being happy, polished, put together, you at your best self. You might even groan at the thought of getting new obligatory head shots for work or LinkedIn or social media or even have some stress over how you look for something celebratory like a graduation or wedding. But what if you got your picture taken when you were at your very lowest? Not to wallow in it or be really depressing, but to capture your strength and essence and a moment in time that probably will reshape you forever. 

Today’s guest is world-famous celebrity photographer, inventor, and innovator, Jeremy Cowart. Huffington Post has named him “the most influential photographer on the internet.” He’s photographed Taylor Swift, Carrie Underwood, and some of the biggest names on the planet blending the most futuristic and groundbreaking technology to capture moments…in a minute. And now he’s made his process available to the public and it is so innovative, groundbreaking, genius, and not to mention, completing moving - I couldn't wait to bring this perspective-shifting conversation to you about disrupting an industry, innovating, making a living as a creative, and relentless learning with Jeremy Cowart.

Timestamps:

00:00:01 - Introduction to Late Learner Podcast
00:00:12 - Mission and Purpose of the Podcast
00:00:23 - Challenging Outdated Norms
00:00:33 - Topic of the Day: Photography at Your Lowest
00:01:05 - Introducing Jeremy Cowart
00:01:37 - Jeremy Cowart's Achievements
00:02:10 - Jeremy's Innovative Photography Process
00:02:22 - Relentless Learning and Curiosity
00:02:32 - Jeremy's 60-Second Portraits
00:03:06 - Sharing the Episode with Creatives
00:03:16 - Surprisingly True Useful Fun Fact (STUFF)
00:04:10 - Beginning of the Interview with Jeremy Cowart
00:04:26 - Jeremy's Innovation and Daily Creativity
00:05:01 - Working with the Public vs. Big Clients
00:05:14 - The Portrait Lab: Origin and Process
00:05:31 - Evolution of the 60-Second Photo Shoot
00:06:02 - Business Model and Workflow
00:07:11 - Disrupting the Photography Industry
00:07:22 - Building New Systems and Workflows
00:07:54 - Handling Big Ideas and Innovation
00:08:16 - Risk-Taking and Overcoming Challenges
00:09:08 - Personal Challenges and Overcoming Adversity
00:10:11 - The Origin of "I Am Possible"
00:10:51 - Aptitude Tests and Self-Perception
00:11:43 - Humanitarian Work and Celebrity Projects
00:12:04 - Managing Creative Ideas and ADHD
00:12:32 - Pursuing and Evaluating Ideas
00:13:34 - Overcoming Overwhelm and Starting New Projects
00:14:16 - Handling Overwhelming Ideas
00:14:35 - The Purpose Hotel: Concept and Journey
00:15:42 - Social Good and Market Fatigue
00:16:36 - Pivoting the Purpose Hotel Concept
00:17:35 - Blending Past, Present, and Future in Photography
00:18:19 - Capturing Essence in Portraits
00:18:34 - Emotional Reactions to the Portrait Process
00:19:06 - Unique Aspects of Jeremy's Work
00:20:35 - Common Client Concerns in Portrait Photography
00:21:04 - Clients Flying in for 60-Second Portraits
00:21:53 - The Deeper Meaning of Portraits
00:22:27 - Capturing Life's Highs and Lows
00:23:00 - The Story of Dukes of Hazzard's John Schneider's Viral Portrait Session
00:24:26 - The Importance of Documenting All Seasons of Life
00:25:16 - Trust and Vulnerability in Photography
00:27:33 - Challenges of Freelance Creative Work
00:28:17 - Embracing AI in Photography
00:29:00 - Love-Hate Relationship with AI
00:29:41 - Using AI as a Tool in Photography
00:30:03 - Concerns About AI in the Creative Industry
00:30:57 - The Future of Photography and AI
00:31:46 - Collaboration and Sharing Knowledge
00:32:35 - The Importance of Continuous Learning
00:33:08 - Keeping the Photography Process Fresh
00:33:59 - Customizing and Personalizing Photo Shoots
00:34:31 - Themed Days at the Portrait Lab
00:35:15 - The Impact of Creativity on Family
00:36:03 - Encouragement to Book a Session with Jeremy
00:36:35 - Moving Towards Goals and Dreams

Jeremy Cowart's Links:

• Instagram
• Website

Resources Mentioned:

• Schedule a free 1:1 Brainstorming Call
• Surprisingly True Useful Fun Fact (STUFF) Source
   

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America, you in danger, girl! In this special 4th of July episode of the Late Learner Podcast, I take on the big issues around our freedoms in the U.S., especially with recent political events and Supreme Court rulings. I start with a look at the meaning of Independence Day and the freedoms our ancestors fought for, but also voice my worries about the current state of our liberties.

We revisit a fiery discussion from when Roe v. Wade was overturned, stressing the need for action over just expressing outrage. I break down four key steps to make an impact: energizing people, getting deeply organized, having a detailed plan, and gathering resources. Many organizations like Planned Parenthood and Emily's List are already on this, and I urge listeners to support them.

I also share personal stories about my own political activism, the importance of turning anger into action, and staying engaged. I offer ten practical ways to get involved, from helping reproductive justice organizations, opening your home to those in need, normalizing conversations about abortion, and supporting pro-choice candidates.

Happy 4th of July!

-Allison Hare

Episode Links:

The Fall of Roe Resource Guide from LA Women's Collective

Companies Supporting Employees Costs/Travel for Needed Abortions

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The days of transactional business relationships and tired golf outings and happy hours just seem a little stale. And not only that, I think we are craving more of a blend to get to know people we do business with as humans. So how do you change the game of your business relationships? Well, I searched and I found THE most perfect person to help us do that. Barb Betts is a sought-after keynote speaker, coach, trainer, and mentor and also the host of the Relationships are your Superpower podcast. And today, we've got her!

Notable Timestamps:

• 
  00:01:29 - Frameworks for Business Relationships
  00:07:00 - Transition to Relationship-Based Business
  00:09:13 - Turning Sales Norms on Their Head
  00:09:41 - What We're Getting Wrong About Relationships
  00:14:04 - FAKE Framework
  00:15:57 - What to do when you're not into it; Fake it?
  00:19:10 - Realness in Tough Times
  00:20:47 - Personality and Energy Levels
  00:23:45 - Redefining Business Relationships
  00:24:45 - Building Relationships Framework (BUILD)
  00:30:25 - Long-Term Relationship Building
  00:35:40 - Networking Events and Receiving Help
  00:39:41 - Asking for Help and Being Real

Barb Betts' Links:

• Instagram
• Relationships are your Superpower Podcast
• Website

Resources Mentioned:

• Schedule a free 1:1 Brainstorming Call
• Surprisingly True Useful Fun Fact (STUFF) Source

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My mother died on June 11, 2021. On the 3rd anniversary of her passing, I am re-releasing the most personal episode I've ever done that captured the moment and the biggest life lessons I learned in her last 6 months.

Also, I did a follow-up episode with Kris Jones after the passing of her mom where we discussed how complicated relationships are with our moms. You can listen here.

xo,

Allison

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Work + summer + vacations + kids + pool trips + parties + camps + + + + aaaaahhhh! Summer is a LOT of work! I don't want you to miss the best parts of it by being too depleted to actually restore.

You've done everything to make sure your kids have all the best moments this summer - but in the meantime, you're missing ALL the moments because you are so overloaded. In this episode of Late Learner, here are 3 non-obvious strategies to sloooow down summer and make it lassssst!

Resources Mentioned:

• Schedule a free 1:1 Brainstorming Call
• FREE fun idea worksheet for more energy and best memories
• Surprisingly True Useful Fun Fact (STUFF) source

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