By Sade Curry
Dating after Divorce is a podcast for divorced women that explores the divorce journey and teaches real strategies for fully recovering from a divorce, rebuilding your life, dating and getting happ
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Does the thought of attending an event alone feel awful? In this episode, Sade Curry discusses the stigma and shame associated with attending social events alone, particularly after divorce or being single.
She shares her personal experience of attending events alone and contrasts it with her clients' feelings of inadequacy and exposure.
Sade emphasizes that societal conditioning and internalized beliefs contribute to this shame, urging individuals to challenge these thoughts through coaching and self-examination.
She advises identifying and addressing subconscious blocks, processing emotions, and redefining the meaning of being alone at events. By changing internal narratives, individuals can overcome the fear of judgment and enjoy social experiences more fully.
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In today’s episode, we dive into the digital dating arena and tackle a common struggle: managing the overwhelm that comes with using dating apps. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swiper, the avalanche of notifications, messages, and profiles can quickly turn an exciting journey into a stressful experience.
Join Sade Curry to explore the emotional and psychological impact of dating after divorce in this modern dating landscape, and discover practical strategies to reclaim control and find balance. From setting boundaries to optimizing your profile, this episode is packed with tips to help you navigate the world of online dating with confidence and clarity.
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Do you keep thinking a man is the one only to get blindsided yet again?
Ever get discouraged and think you'll never figure out how to see a man's true character?
In this insightful episode, Natasha Moore share's her story of finally understanding how to choose the man who was right for her after a divorce and an annulment.
We share our personal stories, offering candid reflections on our journeys to healing, self-discovery, and finding love again. From the challenges of long-distance relationships to the importance of setting boundaries, this episode is packed with valuable lessons for anyone navigating the dating world after a difficult past.
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Long-Distance Dating Challenges:
Natasha shares her experience with long-distance relationships, highlighting the difficulties of truly getting to know someone without face-to-face interaction. She reflects on the importance of understanding the full picture before committing.
Dating after Multiple Divorces:
Natasha opens up about her first two marriages, including an abusive relationship and a second marriage where her husband was already married to someone else. Her experiences underscore the importance of recognizing red flags and valuing oneself.
Setting Boundaries:
We explore the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships, especially after experiencing toxic dynamics in the past. Natasha shares how establishing clear limits helped her protect her emotional well-being.
How High-Achieving Women Attract Toxic Men:
We discuss how high-achieving women can become targets for exploitative partners. They call for more education and awareness to help women protect themselves and make empowered choices in relationships.
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About Natasha Moore:
Natasha Moore is professional nerd and classroom social justice activist serving as a Professor of English at Southwestern Illinois College. Outside of the classroom, she enjoys eating, baking, cycling, traveling with her loved ones, and running her short-term rentals.
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SistahTasha
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sistahtasha/
Website: Www.sitbackstays.com
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Dating After Divorce Episode 215: When Are You Ready to Date?
In this Sade Curry delves into the concept of "readiness" for dating after a divorce. She explores the often undefined notion of being "ready" to date and its potential consequences on one's dating journey. Sade discusses the subtle yet powerful belief that many women hold—that they are not ready to date—and how this mindset can keep them stuck.
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If you frequently feel hurt, sad, anxious or angry when you are dating, then this episode is for you.
Join Sade Curry as she breaks down the concept of Personalization, a cognitive distortion that creates a ton of negative emotions in life and in relationships.
Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today.
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Do you find yourself focusing way too much on other people when dating?
In this episode, Sade Curry emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-discovery in the dating process, as women who have not healed from codependency and people pleasing may struggle with centering their desires and actions on their own wants and needs. Sade offers strategies for retraining intuition, reconnecting with core values, and saying no in a way that resonates with oneself.
She also discusses how societal expectations and conditioning can limit women's autonomy and self-expression, leading to a lack of alignment with their own values and aspirations.
By examining these dynamics, Sade teaches women to break free from these constraints and make decisions that truly align with their own values and aspirations.
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Healing from infidelity can be a difficult journey. When you have experienced a betrayal, it can rock your whole world and require deep recovery and healing.
My guest this week has gone through that healing journey.
Gia Huff was blindsided by her ex-husband’s affair and created a beautiful life for herself after divorce - one that includes a new loving partner.
Tune in this week to hear Gia’s inspiring story of deep healing and growth that helped her meet her partner in only a few days on the dating apps.
As Gia says, “The only reason I wouldn’t date would be because my mind is afraid. I very much wanted a partner and connection. So I thought, “What if it could be really easy to find someone online? What if it's not as hard or scary as everyone says?”
Gia shares how she used a sustained practice of self-reflection and practical steps to open up her world, get unstuck and find the love she wanted.
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My guest today is the woman from whom I first learned that codependency was a thing. Elisabeth Klein has been a writer and mentor for Christian women for decades.
In this episode, Elisabeth shares her story of a 20-year marriage that ended in divorce due to hidden drinking, emotional abuse, controlling behavior, and lying.
Despite initially vowing to never remarry, Elisabeth's friends urged her otherwise and she met her second husband, Buzz on a dating app. They have now been married 9 years.
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Elisabeth Klein lives with her husband in Illinois. They are parents of nine and grandparents to four. She provides resources to women in difficult relationships and transition through her podcast, courses, books, blog, speaking events, webcasts, private Facebook groups and one-on-one coaching.
Connect with Elisabeth:
Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/elisabeth-klein
Website: https://elisabethklein.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elisabethkleincoach/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisabethkleincoach/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/_elisabethklein
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Shame is a painful emotional experience that can stem from childhood experiences and societal conditioning, especially for women.
In this episode, I had Karen C. L. Anderson on for her second guest appearance on the podcast. We talked about her new book, You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame about generational trauma and shame between mothers and daughters from a personal perspective.
Key Takeaways:
- Recognizing shame involves paying attention to underlying thoughts and beliefs, like "I'm bad" or "I'm unworthy." Drilling down to the core beliefs helps address shame.
- Healing from shame involves developing self-compassion, recognizing triggers, and cultivating moments of joy. Connecting to one's inner child can help treat oneself with kindness.
- Shame is passed down intergenerationally but can be "unlearned" through awareness, understanding one's experiences, and self-care over time with tools like coaching
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Karen is a master-certified life coach and author of several books including You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame.
Karen works mostly with adult daughters who want to take care of themselves in the relationship they have with their mothers...AND has a special place in her practice for mothers who want to do the brave work of unshaming so they can repair the relationship they have with their adult daughters.
Website/Podcast: www.kclanderson.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KCLAnderson/
Listen to Karen's 1st appearance on the Dating After Divorce Podcast: Dating and Healing Childhood Trauma
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