Many people dread the whole dating game. Other people shut down because they have been hurt in relationships and protect themselves because relationships have caused so much pain in the past. However, instead of protecting yourself from being hurt, you really end up hurting in a different way. By causing yourself to be lonely.

It is about shifting perspective. How about going into with the attitude of seeing dating as a personal growth experience. This is a theory I tested out on myself for 6.5 years and I can say that it worked beautifully and now I teach this to my coaching clients. This approach brings so much empowerment to my clients and they learn how to trust their own instincts, set healthy boundaries, learn how to approach a date with easy and grace by being their authentic self rather that trying to put an air on for first impression that is not who they are. Another area they learn is to live in the abundance mentality rather than the scarcity mentality and this helps bring calm and ease into how my clients show up not only for their dates, but for all areas of their lives. This is the case for everything they learn during this process as it has a spillover effect in all areas of life.