It's day four of the Privacy Paradox challenge. We talk to Elan Gale, executive producer of The Bachelor, about how we perform for social media, and how we change when we know we’re being watched. Also, the dangers of drunk tweeting. And Stanford psychology professor Elias Aboujaoude on how to find your true self when your personal details are public knowledge.

Plus, it's time to get away from wifi, unplug the smart devices, and turn off your phone. We're going off the grid. Briefly. 

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