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Today we’re back with another episode of Dear Danny, in which my friend Danny comes on to discuss and debate five reader questions with me. Up this week:

* Do you think it's possible for women to see themselves as feminist and progressive whilst expecting chivalry from men in a more traditional sense?

* Most of my life feels unspectacular compared to the life I’ve always dreamed of leading. Am I being delusional? How can I cultivate a rich life?

* How do you navigate (really, really) not liking the person your friend is dating? Is it worth it letting this get in the way of your friendship?

* A higher-up at work coached me to try to stop leading with ‘I think’—to just make the statement and it'll be stronger. I notice you use ‘I think’ a lot. Thoughts?

* In some of your writing, you talk about ‘performing personality,’ which I've thought about often. When do you notice yourself performing your personality, and how do you avoid it?

This is a good one! We both cried a bunch before it and generally stayed on topic. I hope you love it.

Thanks for listening,Haley

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