Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast

Dear Overly Responsible One: It's Okay to Rest #196


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Do you find yourself being the one everyone relies on — the responsible one, the capable one, the one who holds everything together?

If you’re overly responsible, rest can start to feel impractical, joy gets postponed, and peace becomes something you hope to get to later — after everything else is taken care of.

In today’s episode, Bonnie shares a deeply personal story about laying down over-responsibility. Through Scripture, neuroscience, and soul care, this episode gently invites you to make space for peace and joy — not by doing more, but by letting go.

This episode will help you recognize how over-responsibility shapes your inner life and offer a compassionate path toward rest, safety, and renewal — without pressure or obligation.

Key Takeaways
Why being overly responsible often leaves little room for rest and joy

How Jesus’ invitation to “lay down your nets” can lead to peace instead of pressure

Why chronic responsibility keeps the nervous system on alert — even during good 
One soul care practice to help you release stress & renew peace & joy

Breath Prayer
Inhale: I lay down my nets
Exhale: I follow You in peace

Today's Scripture:
“Then Jesus said to them, ‘Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.’
Immediately they left their nets and followed Him.”
Matthew 4:19–20 (NIV)

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