94| Defeating Sexual Inhibition to Access True Sexual Confidence and Personality - JAIYA

07.10.2015 - By DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)

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In this episode JAIYA gives advice on:

- Jaiya's background and relationship lifestyle (02:57)

- The experiences in Jaiya's life that started her sexuality journey - healer, heal thyself (03:52)

- Jaiya's approach to teaching others as a somatic sexologist (the combining of somatics and sexology - as well as Tantra, Taoism, shamanism, yoga, and meditation - in order to experience greater awareness through the body) (07:40)

- Setting goals on the journey of sexuality: the sexual blueprint and its five erotic types (09:46)

- Discovering your erotic type blueprint and possibly transitioning to a type that may be better for you (17:53)

- Do some men chase women that are not the sexual blueprint type for them? (25:43)

- Bio-energetics: 1) what is happening on the cellular level, and 2) how sensitive we are energetically. More importantly, the energetics we put out into the world - our polarity (the masculine and feminine dynamic) (27:58)

- Jaiya's approach and evolvement: the truth of what's happening in the body (30:39)

- Disagreeing with a lot of the research (because it's not from a hands-on felt experience) of what is truly happening in the body in arousal and/or orgasmic states (32:44)

- The benefits of exploring and expanding your sexuality (34:55)

- Are men not enjoying sex because they have a disconnection from it, a disconnection from awareness? (37:18)

- Partners that are different sexual types who come together to expand their sexuality (39:05)

- Exercises and steps to becoming self-aware when nervous about your sexuality: changing your mindset (42:40)

- How working on your sex life makes a beneficial impact in other areas of your life (46:50)

- The difference between resistance and sexual boundaries (48:45)

- Unique approaches to female sexual pleasure (55:57)

- Female ejaculation, whether it's beneficial to women, and if this should be a focus area for men (01:00:51)

- Best way to connect with Jaiya

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