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You may know content creator, porn star and author Venom, as either Kyng Vynm or Vynm, spelled with a y and no vowels. Before entering the gay porn industry you may have even known him as Pastor Kevin.

Hailing from the city of brotherly love, Philadelphia, Vynm was in town to shoot some scenes with me and before we did, we got some time in to discuss his long career and his new book called, A Life of Lust (Memoirs of THE Porn Star). 

Of course,  once we start talking we allow ourselves to go everywhere from Vynm's growing up surrounded by religion, the idea that we are god, selling sex with sex, the importance of sexual education today and splitting the porn personality from the everyday man.  There's a lot in this one so as always enjoy!

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Alessio Vega just went through a really bad divorce and to make matters worse, his ex never told him he was having an affair with another man. Now, I know what you're thinking, a porn star is upset his ex-husband was having an affair?! Yes, adult entertainer Alessio Vega is also a person with every emotion we all experience. 

Through a tough and brutally honest conversation Alessio breaks down his side of the experience in hopes of helping listeners who may find themselves in a similar situation. We discuss navigating a serious and loving relationship while working in the porn industry, the difference between sex and intimacy.  Alessio also shares the steps and methods he used in order to heal emotionally and come out  of a very chaotic experience with a better perspective of who he is. 

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Jake is a listener of the podcast who is in his early 20's. I suspect that I have probably gotten him off a time or so through one of the many scenes I've produced.  

I received a message from Jake last year where he mentioned being in the closet and having a tough time telling his family he as gay.  Having gone through a similar situation when I was younger, I wanted him to know that if he needed to confide in me, he could. I also thought it would be a great conversation to have and share with other listeners who may find themselves in a similar situation. He agreed.

Throughout our conversation we discuss where he is in terms of coming out, his introduction to porn, sex, kinks, fetishes and all the fun thought processes that are involved when you're a young man in 2022. Enjoy. 

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It's the most wonderful time of the year! Not only is it the holiday season, it's the time of year when Atlas Grant stops by and we sit and shoot the sh!t.  After catching up on how life, porn and covid is treating Atlas, we make a conversation B-line into a couple of kinks and fetishes, but what I want to hear about this time around are escort stories.  

I've met many escorts over the years and they always have the best stories. Atlas is kind enough to discreetly share experiences he's had as an escort as well as dispense some words of wisdom to anyone thinking about a career in sex work.  Enjoy!

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While researching poppers one day, I thought, "Gosh, wouldn't it be great if someone just wrote an informative, comprehensive and witty a book about them." Author Adam Zmith, did just that. 

I literally took a week off of work to bunker down and read Deep Sniff so I could share this interview.  Poppers, known technically as amyl nitrates or "VCR cleaner," more recently, are the subject at hand in Deep Sniff, historically being used to treat Angina and other ailments long before becoming the party drug many know and love. 

Zmith articulately guides the conversation, from the creation of poppers, its recreational use in the 60's and 70's, the decline of use and stigma during the AIDS epidemic and its resurgence in not only queer nightlife but mainstream culture in general. Enjoy!

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I met Trent Marx in Philadelphia and I was immediately drawn to him. Then after talking for a bit I found out he had quite a story!  Trent Marx is an L.A. based Philly transplant with a past in sex work way earlier than anyone should, who is a writer and lover of poetry; I love it!. 

Early on a Sunday after his 26th birthday, we sat down and discussed growing up in New Jersey and moving to Philadelphia and getting caught up in escorting by the age of 16. We then talk shop about his stint on MTV's Ex on The Beach, modeling and of course porn.  And just for fun we throw in some talk about religion, getting a blow job from a girl in a night club bathroom and his mother starting an onlyfans! Enjoy!

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Joe is a regular listener of the podcast and reached out to me on Instagram about his love of shoving his nose into a man's hairy, sweaty armpit. Naturally, I asked if he would be interested in sharing his story with listeners and boy did it get interesting. 

Not only does Joe like an manly armpit drenched in hair and musk, he is also bisexual and married to a woman. He goes on to elaborate on this history of his fetish and then begins to recount one of his most recent sexual escapades in graphic detail. If you are a connoisseur of male armpits in all their glory, you will definitely get a kick out of Joe's story. Enjoy!

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I cannot begin to describe how eye-opening meeting this young man was for me.  Derek Cline is a very popular porn model who has worked with various studios,  but before we sat down to discuss, I was intrigued by how open he was to talking about things most people won’t. 

We go from Derek’s early life to teaching me about the monster that is TikTok all the way to conspiracy theory and the sociopolitical zombie movies of George Romero!

Of course we talk about porn! But then we jump into witchcraft and his discovery of Tarot. 

When I call this an eye-opening discussion it’s because here’s a young man in America right now with an amazing head on his shoulders; it’s hopeful. I knew they were out there!

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When I first met porn star and model Sean Duran I have to admit I was quite intimidated. His larger than life persona in videos and pictures definitely helped create that feeling. But when you get the pleasure of meeting him, he's as charming as they come. 

Sean was in town shooting for Treasure Island and I asked if he would be down with taking a seat and talking to me for a bit, "I'd love to," he said to my delight.

Growing up in North Carolina and moving to Florida, Sean channels his inner old man and discusses coming out, why he got into the porn industry, his stints in jail, career changes and what his dream job would be. 

Enjoy falling in love with Sean Duran!

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Bruce La-F*ckingBruce; writer, actor, photographer, director and pornographer. I first met Bruce on the set of his 2010 film L.A. Zombie, but hardcore cinephiles may know him for his earlier controversial contributions to film.

While in town promoting his new film, St. Narcisse, I was able to sit down with Bruce and discuss his beautiful new film and the themes he explores in it as well as his prior critically acclaimed work. We then  discuss his ability to exist in between the art scene while making hardcore porn; pushing the boundaries of fetish, kink and sexuality all mixed together with personal politics and experiences.  

From his days as a writer for magazines (zines) in the early 90’s, to film, to being a prominent figure in the queer-core movement, we go through it. Enjoy!

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