By Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomerie
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It’s the end of an era. One year ago, we had no idea this was coming. And today, it seems like the most obvious thing in the world. The chapter of Desire on Fire is coming to an end. And with this death, comes an exciting and powerful re-birth.
We have been going through such an intense metamorphosis over the last year, both personally and professionally. While Ellie’s been gestating a baby, we’ve been gestating this re-brand, re-birth.
Though our women’s work isn’t going anywhere, it became clear that the time has come to let go of our brand and business as we’ve known it, to make space for a new depth and frequency of our women’s work, and to create space for the men’s path, and co-ed work, within our community.
So, we are letting Desire on Fire die, and we are going into the void for the next three months, while Ellie is on maternity leave and Aimee’s focusing on dating and making space for love & partnership. And in the spaciousness, we’re opening to receive the name of our new co-ed company. We’re totally open to your name ideas!
Thank you for participating in our community and receiving our work so openly, as Desire on Fire. We’re so grateful and excited to move through this big relationSHIFT with you. Thank you for being along for the ride with us.
Join us for our FIRST EVER 3-day immersion for both women AND men: Sacred Union
January 17-19, 2025 in Austin, TX. First 40 tickets sold at super early bird price!
Claim yours here: www.SacredUnion.Live
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Hey, beautiful souls! This week’s episode feels vulnerable, yet important, to share with all of you. I, Aimee, am letting you in on the intimate journey I’ve been on that’s led me to decide to have a cosmetic surgery procedure. I’m revealing my fears, feelings, and perspective-changes along the way, that led me to finally gifting myself something I’ve wanted for nearly a decade! In this solo podcast, I share how my views on beauty, radiance, vanity and self-love have transformed and evolved over time.
I also explore the pitfalls of the body positivity movement and the nuances and complexities of wanting to be a “natural” woman, embracing her organic beauty, while also doing things to improve, upgrade and modify our body & appearance, in order to feel attractive, healthy and confident.
I hope this episode is valuable, and challenges your perspectives and beliefs around beauty, plastic surgery, body-love, and how you source your radiance!
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Hi Desire on Fire fam! Ellie here. This week’s episode is all about celebrating new beginnings, because we're diving deep into something you may have seen us share online and wondered about: the beautiful world of baby blessing ceremonies. This episode is inspired by the baby blessing Aimee recently hosted for me, as I enter the 3rd trimester and move closer to birthing my baby girl into the world. I want every mama to receive this kind of love and support, so I wanted to share what actually goes into hosting something like this, so you can create one yourself, if you feel called! And who better to navigate this journey with me than Aimee, who's always got amazing insights on creating meaningful experiences. We shared clear and simple steps, from who to invite, how to set it up, and how to structure your ceremony. So whether you're a soon-to-be mama yourself, a supportive sister, or just someone who wants to celebrate life passages in a way that truly matters, there’s lots of gold for you in this episode.
We also made an invitation at the end of the episode to an incredible free virtual event a sister of ours is hosting, all about creating a new paradigm for pregnancy, birth, postpartum and motherhood!
“REBIRTH EARTH is a FREE 5-day live online transformational journey to reclaim the roots of your innate feminine essence and deepen harmony in the world, which begins in our homes.
Are you ready to transform your life, your family, and create a ripple effect that spans for generations to come?
I hope you will join me and the other incredible speakers in these thought provoking and inspiring conversations as we cultivate this community!
Join us from June 24th - 28th, 2024
You can reserve your spot now by registering here:
https://themotherstemple.krtra.com/t/8bpc5Iu160dT
Chapters:
05:50 Creating meaningful rituals for life transitions is important.
09:32 Permission, love, and invitation for baby blessing.
11:36 Embracing rituals, learning from devoted friends.
14:24 Creating meaningful, reverent baby blessings with friends.
19:12 Balancing input and desires in event planning.
26:45 Encouraging mothers to share and co-create experience.
36:41 Receive blessings gracefully, breathe deeply, let go.
39:18 Touch, massage, music, and blessings in ceremony.
49:41 New virtual event for mothers, Rebirth Earth.
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The last 8 months have been a season of massive transformation for Ellie and her inner circle, and in this week’s solo episode, she dives deep into sharing the juicy revelations she’s been having since her second pregnancy began last fall. She shares some of the BTS of her pregnancy journey– including the wild details of the conception, and how this baby girl is calling her forward into her fierce feminine– a reclamation like no other. Sign up for our mailing list:
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Hey Desire on Fire fam, Aimee here! In March I attended ISTA level 2 (a deep, shamanic, initiatory training) in Bali, and I’m finally ready to share with you about it. This training was intense, forcing me to face my protective mechanisms (especially with men), my fear of rejection, and my deep yearning to be loved, chosen, claimed and taken by a man. In this episode, I share about the messy, vulnerable, and at-times-humiliating journey I went on in this retreat, and the healing that came out of it. I share a particularly hot moment, and let you in on my experience meeting a couple that changed my life. Enjoy the listen!
Chapters:
03:41 Interrupting my Bali vacation for a deep personal initiation
07:02 Seeking personal insights and healing through this retreat
12:13 Revealing my fear of rejection and desire for acceptance. 16:20 Practicing polarity, surrendering, and a hot moment.
20:27 Expressing gratitude, opening up about my fears and discomfort.
23:35 Sharing my insecurities about my attractiveness, receiving reassurance, and unexpected comfort.
24:36 Emotional experience, fear, joy, acceptance.
27:56 Sharing vulnerably led to feeling so seen, accepted, and loved by a man.
33:52 Sharing gratitude with a man who embodies what I'm seeking.
Resources mentioned: Click here to learn more and join us on The Radiant Woman Weekend, June 7-9th 2024:
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Picking up where we left off in our last episode on polarity, Aimee and Ellie are diving deep into the trenches of their own journeys. We'll be sharing the nitty-gritty struggles (and the unexpected breakthroughs!) that comes from embracing your feminine energy. Forget the outdated housewife stereotype – this is about trading in the gotta-do-it-all hustle, shifting out of overwhelm and burnout, and creating hot, harmonious relationships with men. In this week’s episode we share how learning to ask for help, and receiving the support and love you need to embrace a more surrendered way of living, is the key for unlocking your feminine power— and we share practical tips on how to get there. Get ready to ditch the drama, embrace your radiance, and unlock deeper connections for relationship bliss!
Chapters: 00:00 - 01:32 Our journey with polarity teachings and learning to integrate them, versus taking them to the extreme
01:32 - 12:07 Ellie shares about her journey with alchemizing her boss-babe drive and opening to receive her husband’s reflections, support and provision on a whole new level… and what that has opened up for her
12:07 - 16:07 The backwards values in our culture and the deep work many of us need to do to truly embody our radiance and attract an aligned, devoted partner
16:07 - 17:50 How your out-of-balance masculine energy may be blocking the men in your life from feeling inspired to provide for and cherish you
17:50 - 20:22 Why it’s so helpful and important for women to be in community with other women who are embodied in their feminine energy, receptivity and respect for the masculine, in order to make this shift yourself
20:22 - 21:58 Invitation to the Radiant Woman Weekend, June 7-9th!!
Resources mentioned: Click here to learn more and join us on The Radiant Woman Weekend, June 7-9th 2024:
www.radiantwomanweekend.com
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The term “polarity” gets thrown around a lot… but have you ever wondered what it actually means, and why it matters?! In this episode, we break down our perspective and experience, and share examples of how our practice with empowered polarity is changing our relationships– and why we believe it’s the KEY to hot, harmonious relationships with men!
Chapters:
03:40 An update about our living situation and how we’re creating more work/life balance.
09:31 The dynamics of masculine/feminine energies.
12:11 The power of getting truly vulnerable, and asking men for help.
13:32 Aimee shares a story about what her dating life looked like BEFORE practicing polarity… and how her unconscious drive to protect herself drove men away.
17:41 How to communicate your needs and ask for support.
20:33 Our take on what’s behind the current climate around relationships… ‘toxic’ masculinity, failed relationships, 50% divorce rate.
24:09 We share the changes we believe are needed, like embracing mutual respect and understanding.
35:40 An invite to dive deeper into this work of embodying your feminine energy, and to join us in Austin, TX in June! If you’re craving sisterhood, community, and healing with the masculine, you’ll want to listen all the way to the end!
Resources mentioned: Click here to learn more and join us on The Radiant Woman weekend in Austin:
www.radiantwomanweekend.com
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We’ve been cooking up something new for you.
A whole new frequency. A new transmission. A new level of reality. And it’s all been Spirit-guided.
The fruits of a whole lotta inner-work labor over the last year— a total death & rebirth...
Shedding deeper layers of programming than we ever have before – so that we can be more ourselves, more free, living in full integrity with our mission– and more of service to the women who walk this path alongside us.
In this episode, we’re taking you behind-the-scenes of the whole ride we’ve been on, birthing our new virtual 5-day event, The Feminine Revolution.
In this 5 day journey, we’ll be helping you unlock the code that has been the KEY for us (and the thousands of women we’ve mentored) to embody the full expression of our Feminine.
It’s for those of you ready to shed layers of masculine conditioning, and step into the highest potential of your feminine essence… so that you can become the woman who can have the life-giving intimacy + relationships you desire.
Hint: it involves…
Uncovering blocks + shedding armor that are keeping you stuck in your relationships with men
Healing wounds with women + cultivating soul-aligned sisterhood
Connecting to your body, awakening your sensuality + releasing shame
If you know our annual virtual event The Pleasure Revolution (that we’ve run 9 times!) and you’re curious about the change, this episode will let you in on everything we went through to birth this new transmission of our work into the world.
Reclaiming the ancient wisdom + full range of our FEMININE is what we get to dig into in this event… and we are SO turned on by it!
And we can’t wait to bring you along with us!!
Join us for FREE, April 29 - May 3rd 🌹
Link to sign up: www.femininerevolution.live
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This week, we have a very special, long-awaited episode for you. We sat down with Rob Montgomerie to finally get his story out into the world (this is part 1 of a multi-part series)!
Up until now, Rob has been a private person, happily serving behind-the-scenes, coaching leaders of some of the most powerful companies in the world. You may not be aware that Rob has also been a huge supporter of our work at Desire on Fire, consistently backing us in a myriad of ways to grow as leaders and serve our community at the highest level.
But the birth of his son, Bear, two years ago, has ignited Rob even more deeply into his purpose, and called him step forward into a new role that’s more public-facing— in service of doing everything he can to support men especially, and do his part to create the world he wants to leave to his son.
Aimee and I have been asking Rob for YEARS to create a brother program to do the work we do with women at Desire on Fire, and I’m so thrilled to share that he finally said yes!!
It begins mid-April, and it’s called The Kings Code. ❤️🔥
Rob has been walking his own deeply transformational path for close to two decades now, which he generously shares about (without holding back) in this episode. The incredible life he has created of impact, abundance, family, and contribution, is a reflection of how this man deeply embodies the King archetype, and we really can’t imagine anyone more qualified to guide men on their awakening journey.
Inside the program, men will dive deep into rites of passage and archetypal psychology to help them claim their birthright as potent kings and leaders in their lives, relationships, and in the bedroom.
Expect to Uncover:
The delicate balance of sharing transformative experiences authentically.
How conventional success metrics can lead to personal emptiness.
An invitation to explore the King’s Code, for profound personal growth.
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Dive into this episode for a deeply moving conversation that we hope will inspire, expand and ignite you on your spiritual path. We’d love to hear what you receive from listening!
Hey there, welcome back to the Desire on Fire podcast! Today's episode is a bit of a departure from our typical topics, but an important one! This week we’re diving into talking about money, abundance, and financial freedom, topics that go hand-in-hand with living a life led by your deepest desires, and expanding into a life of abundance and fulfillment. Ellie sat down with an amazing guest expert: Penelope Jane Smith. She's a true thought leader in the realm of financial freedom, empowering countless female entrepreneurs with her unique strategies. Penelope shares her incredible money journey, from building a real estate empire to navigating tough times during market crashes. Her story is a testament to resilience and determination, and we hope it inspires and educates you. Find out what's in store for you in this episode:
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The Financial Freedom (free ebook) by Penelope Jane Smith: In this training, you’ll discover exactly what it’ll take for you personally to
become financially free so that you don’t have to depend on your business,
a job, the government, a partner, or anyone else for money. You’ll also learn:
(She’ll Have an Abundance of Money and Choice In Her Life!)
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