We all have hindsight about what we wish we knew about divorce - and ourselves - once things are finalized and we've moved on. Some lessons are realizations we have right away, and some are things we learn over time, even years later. Lucy del Gaudio is a female warrior, literally, because was in the military, and also because she has moved on past her divorce with an inspiring mindset and belief system about how life really is. Her story includes a sexual assault in the military, a young marriage, three kids, a divorce and then remarriage. This episode will have you considering things about yourself you may not have thought about before. (Guest: Lucy del Gaudio, Veteran and Real Life Expert)

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If you own a home when getting divorced, there are specific things you need to know in order to decide whether one of you should keep it or if you should sell it and split the proceeds. Additionally, there are things to be aware of if you plan to buy a new property when getting divorced or once it's finalized. It's so important to have a reL estate attorney that understands your situation and can help guide you in the right direction, including making sure you understand closing costs and additional fees that you may incur when closing on a sale or purchase. In this episode, we talk to real estate lawyer, Jill Sodafksy, to take you through everything you need to know! (Guest: Jill Sodafsky, Real Estate Attorney)

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Once you get divorced, do you have to identify as divorced for the rest of your life? When are you just single or not married - just YOU? Why does every form you fill out anywhere you go ask if you're divorced? What if your divorce was years ago? We have to shift into the mindset that we are who we are, and that being divorced is not the only thing that defines us. This is the poignant fact that entrepreneur Leslie Kaplan realized and says it's what she wished she knew when it comes to divorce. Hear her amazing story and how she has successfully reclaimed her independent identity as a strong single woman. (Guest: Leslie Kaplan, Real Life Expert, Entrepreneur)

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It's so common to think you don't want to get re-marry after being divorced - the idea of another marriage not working out  can be overwhelming. But if you are open to the idea of marriage after divorce, figuring out who the right person is can be really scary, not to mention incredibly frustrating. This episode is an inside look at the author's story behind the best-selling book Becoming Mrs. Karen Stanley: The Single Mom's Guide to Creating the Life you Want. Hear how she created systems to find true love again, how you can use these same strategies and her journey to becoming Mrs. Karen Stanley. (Guest: Karen Stanley, Author, Life Coach)

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After 30+ years as a divorce lawyer - and having been divorced herself - acclaimed attorney Susan Guthrie saw there was a better way to get divorced, rather than going through the old-school litigation process. She admits she fell into all the traps that everyone does, even though she had been telling clients for years what to do and what not to do! This eye-opening episode pulls back the curtain on the personal process of divorce, as well as how you can best manage your own process to avoid the pitfalls and come to a satisfactory outcome for everyone involved.

(Guest: Susan Guthrie, Family Law Attorney/Mediator, Host of Divorce and Beyond podcast)

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Divorce can bring on a lot of parent guilt, and we can relate. Abby King decided to take that guilt and write an open letter of apology to her children, which quickly went viral. The resulting outreach ultimately led her to use her personal divorce experience to become a divorce coach and help others going through the process. Hear her amazing story and why we all need to accept that we're doing the best we can, without feeling bad about the decisions we make for ourselves and our families! (Guest: Abby King, Divorce Coach)

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You've got questions? We've got answers! We (T.H. and Jess) get all the questions you send us and this episode is answering some of the most challenging - like how to live under the same roof while deciding how and when to tell your kids you're getting divorced, what to say to the kids when making the switch to the other parent's house, and will you ever find love again? We've lived it, so we get it, and you'll hear our candid truths about how we've dealt with these exact situations! 

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Have you ever thought about working with a matchmaker to meet your perfect partner? The idea may seem old-school, but modern day matchmakers can set you up successfully, and often help you hone in on what you should be focused on when finding the right person. In this episode, Julianne Cantarella gives the honest truth about what to expect (or not) from a matchmaker, the myths and how to manage your own expectations so that you are in the right place to meet that Mr. or Ms. Right. (Guest: Julianne Cantarella, Relationship/Dating Coach, Creator of First Date to Soulmate)

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It takes two to make a marriage work or not...it's just not always easy to recognize and understand what role we play in the demise of a relationship. But some of the reasons your marriage may not work could also be reasons why other relationships in your life could be strained - with family, friends or even colleagues. In this episode, Strengths Coach Dan Schaal breaks through the barriers of knowing how to best utilize your own personal strengths, as well as how to work with others' strengths to develop the types of bonds, friendships, relationships and even marriage that you're looking for in your life. (Guest: Dan Schaal, Gallup Certified CliftonStrength Coach)

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Tax season can get much trickier once you get divorced, so you have to make sure you know exactly how to file and what rules to follow, plus why you really need an accountant. There are choices to make as to how you file, especially if you're separated but not yet divorced, in addition to who gets to take exemptions for the children, the mortgage on your marital home and more. This episode is all the information you need, and now is the time to hear it! (Guest: Michele Spence, CPA)

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