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A strong marriage thrives on creating spaces that nurture both partners. This episode discusses practical ways to make room for husbands in the home, emphasizing collaboration and mutual respect in household rules, the importance of personal downtime, and actions that make them feel honored. 

• Discussing the balance of rules and personal freedom in the home 
• The importance of mutual buy-in for household decisions 
• Encouraging husbands to engage with the podcast 
• Setting up welcoming environments within the home 
• Honoring the need for personal space and quiet time 
• Practical tips on building relaxation time into daily life 
• Celebrating your husband with thoughtful gestures 

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Discover the profound spiritual rewards that come from fasting and prayer as we embark on a 21-day journey to start the new year with renewed faith and purpose. Through heartfelt personal stories from our own marriage, we reveal how fasting has helped us prioritize God's will, break strongholds, and enhance our spiritual intimacy. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Esther and Daniel, this episode will guide you toward preparing for a fast, setting meaningful parameters, and ultimately, ending your fast in a way that nurtures both body and soul.

We delve into the dual dimensions of fasting—spiritual and physical—highlighting its power to discipline the flesh and heighten spiritual sensitivity. By examining scripture from Romans and Galatians, we explore how fasting can clear barriers to divine connection. Alongside spiritual insights, we discuss the natural benefits of fasting, such as detoxification and healing, illustrating the divine design of our bodies for renewal. Our conversations touch on different fasting types, offering practical tips and real-life anecdotes to inspire your fasting practice.

As we explore various methods like the Daniel fast and six-to-six fasting, we also discuss the importance of selecting a fast that aligns with your personal challenges and spiritual goals. Learn the art of breaking a fast wisely, and consider how fasting can be integrated into your lifestyle for lasting growth. To top it off, we invite you to join an unforgettable experience in Orlando, where a transformative encounter and equipping conference awaits to potentially alter the next 30 years of your life. Secure your spot and prepare for a life-changing journey with us.

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Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
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We’re taking a much-needed break to focus on family and faith, but we promise to return in January with fresh content that aims to enrich your life. We believe 2025 is a year of growth, and we want to make it inclusive by inviting you to share your thoughts and questions with us. Your involvement is key to helping us create content that genuinely resonates and inspires.

Moreover, we're thrilled to share our church's cherished tradition—Super Sunday, a celebration focused on giving as the year winds down. For 24 years, this has been a way for us to offer something meaningful to God and now we’re extending this tradition to our online family. We're encouraging you to join us in this beautiful act of generosity and faith. As we stand in love and faith, let's remember the joy that comes from giving and how it can multiply blessings not only in our lives but in the lives of others. 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from our family to yours, and we can’t wait to see what the new year brings!

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
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GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

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Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

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Ever wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.

Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the profound significance of Christmas as a celebration of Jesus's birth, adding layers of meaning to cherished family gatherings and festive feasts. From homemade sausage gravy and biscuits to the essential Christmas sugar cookies, we share the flavors and aromas that make our holiday tables unforgettable.

The holiday magic doesn't stop there. We invite you to experience the warmth and joy of our family traditions, from classic Christmas movies and candlelight services to the playful innocence of Santa Claus stories. 

Merry Christmas!! We love you all and appreciate your support. 

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

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Have you ever wondered how generosity can transform every facet of your life? Join us on "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" as we unfold the powerful influence of giving on relationships, finances, and spiritual well-being. We'll take you on a journey through our 25-year marriage, revealing how we overcame selfishness and pride by embracing a spirit of generosity. This episode promises to ignite a desire for giving, especially during the holiday season, and inspire you to strengthen connections with both God and your loved ones.

We're peeling back the layers on how financial generosity, even in times of scarcity, can unlock an abundance you never imagined. Through personal anecdotes and biblical principles like tithing and stewardship, we illustrate how a giving mindset isn't just about money but about aligning your life with deeper values. Our stories—from growing up with limited means to experiencing financial breakthroughs through committed generosity—highlight the transformative power of prioritizing others over ourselves, leading to both financial success and enriched relationships.

Finally, we explore the ripple effect of small acts of kindness and how they cultivate a community of support and growth. You'll hear about heartwarming instances where simple gestures made a big difference, proving that generosity isn't reserved for the wealthy. By adopting a stewardship mentality, we're not just holding on to what we have but are actively participating in a larger mission to make a positive impact. Get ready to challenge limiting beliefs and embrace the joy that comes from living a generous life. Whether it's through financial gifts or small kindnesses, we invite you to activate the blessings of generosity in your life and join our upcoming Super Sunday Giving celebration.

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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Imagine transforming your darkest moments into opportunities for gratitude and growth. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey of thanksgiving, as we reflect on the power of gratitude, even when life throws its toughest challenges our way. We explore how a thankful heart can redefine our perspective on life’s trials and triumphs. Our chat is filled with the warmth of family traditions and the joy of sharing cherished Thanksgiving memories, honoring the spirit of togetherness that this season embodies.

We unravel the transformative effects of gratitude and how it can be a beacon of hope through life's ups and downs. By sharing personal anecdotes of overcoming significant challenges, we demonstrate how shifting focus from what is lacking to what we have can be a powerful tool for resilience. We dive into conversations about the importance of choosing relationships wisely, understanding how gratitude and humility can strengthen bonds both in personal spheres and the broader community. Our discussion offers practical tips for integrating gratitude into daily life, encouraging listeners to reflect on the abundance around them.

Faith and gratitude intertwine as we navigate through stories of spiritual resilience. Inspired by biblical tales and real-life experiences, we discuss how gratitude can be a guiding light during the darkest times, offering strength and hope. This episode is not just about reflection; it’s a call to action, inviting you to partake in the spirit of giving and cultivate a lifestyle anchored in thankfulness. We conclude by offering prayers for healing and hope, reinforcing the power of community support and shared faith. Join us as we embrace the joy and positivity that a grateful heart brings, and let’s journey together toward a more appreciative and fulfilling life.

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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We answered all your questions in this episode. For example, can setting boundaries with in-laws rejuvenate your marriage? Discover how prioritizing your relationship and applying the biblical principles of leaving and cleaving can create a sanctuary of respect and comfort. We unpack the power of words and the strategies spouses can employ to nurture their most important relationships, ensuring that love remains unfazed by toxic dynamics. By fostering supportive spaces, couples can learn to stand strong together, even when external pressures threaten to intrude. 

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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Join us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partnership grounded in mutual respect and love.

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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Curious about the ongoing bed-sharing debate? Listen as we dive into this hot topic sparked by a viral social media clip. We explore the varying perspectives on whether children should sleep in their parent's bed, debating the emotional bonds it can create versus the potential impact on marital intimacy. Drawing from our own experiences and those of our listeners, we share how setting boundaries around sleeping arrangements has strengthened our marriage and suggest ways couples can tailor these practices to fit their unique families.

Discover the art of balancing parenting duties with nurturing a strong marital bond. We'll guide you through establishing healthy sleep habits and boundaries that benefit the whole family. Learn how consistent bedtime routines can foster independence in children and create space for marital intimacy. With insights from our personal experiences, we encourage parents to trust in God for guidance and to focus on raising emotionally healthy adults while maintaining a harmonious family dynamic.

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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Selfishness can be like a chokehold, stifling your relationships and potential, but there's a way out. Picture the fierce determination of a mixed martial arts fighter breaking free or the resilience of WWE legends like Hulk Hogan facing down their greatest challenges. That's the spirit we're channeling as we explore how embracing selflessness can breathe new life into your marriage, business, and everyday interactions. Drawing from personal stories and biblical lessons, we vividly picture moving beyond self-centeredness to prioritize others, fostering healthier and more fulfilling connections.

📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE!
Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
👉 Order your copy here:
https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW

GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:

Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)

Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry: 
https://myalivechurch.org/give


Connect with us:

- Website:

https://www.kenclaytor.com
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