Doing Relationships Right

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:29] Quick shout out to my podcast production team!

[3:58] A big red flag when dating

[5:33] Do you need to introduce your children to the person you're dating?

[6:46] Here's a disclaimer, though…

[8:53] When it makes sense to introduce the kids

[11:01] Buy Me A Cup Of Coffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jenniferhurvitz

[11:54] My books and the 2022 Mrs2Me SUMMIT

If you're one of the many people who're looking for love in the wrong places or just at the wrong time, let today's guest help you. Dr. Tari Mack, clinical psychologist, speaker, author, and coach, is here today to talk about how you can do the work for yourself and attract the right people so you can finally find that person for you.

Dr. Tari Mack has appeared on CBS in Cosmopolitan magazine and has worked with celebrity clients helping them improve their lives and relationships. Dr. Tari is a speaker, author, coach, and clinical psychologist and speaks and writes about the power of relationships. She has spoken to audiences throughout the U.S. appeared on radio programs, podcasts, and blogs, helping people learn how to do relationships, something we are never taught at school, in professional life, or at home. She hands audiences "magic" tools to build successful and meaningful relationships and transform themselves and their lives.

Grab a copy of her book: Every Relationship Is A Test: Master Your Love Lessons and Finally Get The Love You Deserve: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Relationship-Test-Lessons-Finally/dp/1796750077

Reach out to Dr. Tari at:

Website: https://www.drtarimack.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/thepathofjoy/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/drtarimack/

YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsbo2o-idymqtg6QAxvwEWQ/videos

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

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You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:18] More about Dr. Tari Mack and her book Every Relationship is a Test

[6:00] Moving forward from a relationship or a divorce

[8:04] Why can't people see the red flags in their relationships?

[10:30] Her relationship readings

[11:50] What if your partner is not interested in doing the work for growth with you?

[15:07] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[16:08] Setting boundaries is not selfish

[17:21] On her kids

[19:07] Relationship blindspots

[23:32] Is love and being in love a choice?

[24:55] Her Single to Engaged in a Year program

[29:44] Outro

The grieving process after ending a marriage is long, difficult, and confusing. It makes you ask: What now? Where do I go from here?

For this episode, I've invited the author Laura Friedman Williams to talk about how she got back into the sex and dating scene after ending her marriage of 22 years. We also talk about her book, Available: a Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends, which is a memoir of her journey from being a happily married stay-at-home mother with three children, discovering her then husband's affair, reinventing herself, having her first one-night stand, to taking ownership of her new-found sexual appetite.

Laura Friedman Williams is a native New Yorker whose writing credits consist of countless PTA newsletters and program notes for talent shows and school auctions, as well as ghostwritten bar mitzvah speeches for many of her friends. Her wit and wisdom have not yet made it to a larger audience, but her years spent raising children and running events at her children's schools have kept her writing steady and sharp. She credits her degree in English from Washington University and the ten formative years she spent in book publishing – first in Subsidiary Rights at Warner Books (now Grand Central Publishing) and then at Henry Holt & Company, then as a book scout and finally as a literary agent – for giving her a deep love and respect for the written word. She credits the break-up of her marriage for finally giving her the subject matter about which she both needed and wanted to write. She lives in downtown Manhattan with her three children.

Grab a copy of her book, Available: a Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends: https://www.amazon.com/Available-Memoir-Dating-After-Marriage/dp/B08YNWVFWJ

Reach out to Laura:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-friedman-williams-350b7b213/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurafriedmanwilliams/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/laurafwinnyc

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️

TikTok: CLICK HERE!

Pinterest: click here!

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[3:00] How did it start for Laura?

[6:16] Guilt for the kids after her divorce

[7:18] Life outside and after divorce

[12:11] What her first night out as a single woman looked like

[20:26] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[21:31] Dating for the first time after divorce

[24:06] Deciding the marriage was over

[30:35] It's not black and white

[32:06] Her Chapter 2

[41:07] Where to find Laura and her book

[43:22] Outro

Are you someone who likes to reveal everything about yourself on the first, second, or maybe the third date? Well, then this Just Jen is for YOU!

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:32] Baggage checking and save it for later

[4:35] Why it's good to not share everything all at once

[6:41] Baggage checking is NOT vulnerability

[10:52] Outro

Raising a child is not easy. If someone ever told you that it is—that's pure BS!

It is rewarding, though but never easy. Especially when behavior issues arise and you think you are to blame for why your kid is acting up. So today's guest, CEO of EmpoweringParents.com is here to assure and empower us parents.

We are all doing the best that we can, so always keep that in mind especially during the hardest of times.

Kimball Lewis is the CEO of EmpoweringParents.com. In addition to his leadership and management roles, he contributes as an editor, a homeschooling expert, and a parent coach. He resides in Orlando, Florida, with his wife and two teenage sons.

Mr. Lewis began his career as a health, welfare, and child policy researcher for a leading public policy think-tank in Washington, DC. He then served as a technologist and executive in a series of successful healthcare start-ups. Mr. Lewis volunteers as an executive coach for Cru, a Christian missionary organization serving over 190 countries worldwide. He and his wife have led several marriage ministry groups at his home church in Orlando, FL.

Reach out to Kimball at:

Website: https://www.empoweringparents.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimballlewis/

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:27] More about Kimball and what he does

[3:22] The Total Transformation Program

[6:11] What you learn from the program

[13:28] Effective parenting

[15:44] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[17:16] Program duration

[18:48] Kids and social media

[19:32] The Y-Trap

[22:28] House rules

[25:25] Kimball's nugget of advice

[27:58] When kids get in trouble

[30:09] Where to find Kimball

[31:42] Outro

Welcome back to the Doing Relationships Right podcast!

This is the first episode for 2022 and our first guest is Writer, Speaker, and Author, Rachel Sobel. She's here today to talk about all things relationships. From her own experience and journey as a mom and, in her own words, a do-over wife. This is going to be a juicy discussion about all things relationships!

Rachel Sobel — the heart and mind behind WHINE ANDTM and WHINE ANDTM CHEEZ(ITS) — is a Florida native (via Long Island like the rest of em). Living the NEW normal: Marriage, Baby, Divorce, Remarriage, another baby.

In between navigating massive loads of laundry, cooking 32 different meals for picky eaters, doing ponytails over until they are perfect with "NO BUMPS, MOM!" and double fisting iced coffee, she finds time to write all of it down.

Sometimes there's sarcasm, sometimes there's cursing but she always keeps it real. No filters or censorship, just a gal momming so hard and documenting it.

After working many years in public relations and communications, she decided she had enough after one particularly bad experience that made her question what the eff she was doing? She stopped with the "what ifs" and hatched a plan to leave the confines of a cubicle and live her dream as a full-time writer. (In her dream she was thinner, richer, and had much more clothing without spatterings of spit-up and breast milk, but beggars can't be choosers.)

She's pretty Type A but admits that you are more likely to find baby wipes and a half-eaten bag of Cheez-its in her purse than cash.

Reach out to Rachel at:

Website: https://whineandcheezits.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Whineandcheezits/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/Whineandcheezits/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/whinecheezits

YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCx6IeLq4CGftKk3-ze_-cNg

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:22] Who is Rachel Sobel?

[3:42] Why she vlogs from her closet

[7:43] Rachel's background

[15:31] Every divorce is different

[18:14] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[20:50] Flexible co-parenting

[25:32] Bringing in a baby

[28:56] Choose to be kind

[35:10] Where to find Rachel?

Today is my final episode of 2021!!!

2021 was a wild year!

My son went away to college, I started my next book, I worked on my business WAY more!

Thank you for all of your continued support! <3

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Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:43] Saying goodbye to 2021

[3:13] Looking forward to ringing in 2022

[4:33] Thank you to my sponsors

[5:33] Build a healthy, romantic relationship with your partner and keep your bond strong. Check out promescent.com for all your sexual wellness needs!

[7:35] Mrs. to Me Summit on March 25-27, 2022

[8:35] Last but not least…

[11:14] Outro

Are you single and ready to mingle? Ever been on dating apps? Curious to know how we get matched with people? Do you want to know how dating apps work from the backend?

Learn about all that and more from the coach himself, Coach T Anthony, as he shares how he pushes his clients to maneuver in this chaotic world of online dating and into success. He also shares his advice from real client interaction and his personal experiences.

Coach T Anthony is a dating consultant committed to getting results for his clients. He has spent the last 15 years helping others get the dating life they have always wanted and deserve. As a previous student who also needed help with his dating life, Coach T Anthony knows exactly what you are going through and can relate on a very human level.

He is the author of the book "The Art of Online Seduction" and has published several articles on dating, including being featured on Michael Fiore's, Digital Romance Inc.

Coach T Anthony has a background in behavioral science with an emphasis on (BAI) behavior analysis interviewing. The Coach holds two certificates from the two most prestigious interview and interrogation schools in the country. John E. Reid & Associates and Wicklander-Zulawski. The Coach has been hailed the "Ray Donovan" of dating coaches due to his no-nonsense approach to getting results for his clients.

They say everyone has the dating life that they deserve. Coach T. Anthony believes everyone deserves better, and he can definitely help you change that relationship status from Netflix, Oreos, and Sweatpants to "I am taken."

Reach out to him at:

Website: https://coachtanthony.mystrikingly.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/thedatecoach/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/coachTanthony

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:56] More about T Anthony

[4:30] Doing online dating right

[9:04] You have to have the right first impression

[11:27] One great photo is better than five shitty ones

[13:09] Why some people don't want a photoshoot

[16:40] His blueprint and the algorithm of online dating

[18:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[21:12] A tip for Tinder

[23:05] And another for Hinge

[26:47] Reporting people on dating apps

[29:19] How long should you talk (video chat or text) to someone before going on a date?

[32:50] On clients who text coaches

[36:16] Outro

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:30] Dear married couples, you don't know what it's like to go through a divorce

[5:43] Dating is different after divorce—just listen and be there for your divorce friend

[8:50] The things you're saying or the advice you're giving, they're truly not helpful

[9:15] The following are so hurtful, please think twice before saying this

Ethical non-monogamy… what exactly is it? How does it work? Is it possible to stay in such an arrangement for a long time?

In this episode, I have invited my good friend, Podcaster and Host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast to talk about ENM or ethical non-monogamy, how it works, and how you can figure out if this is something for you.

Since her divorce, Sadie Marie recognizes more than ever the value of being fierce in determination, desire, and, most of all, self-love. She's also learned to put her focus on being relentless and resilient in pursuing happiness for herself and her family. With this podcast, she welcomes the opportunity to share her insights and ideas as well and learn from her listeners and guests.

You can reach Sadie at:

Web: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/

IG: www.instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy

Podcast- Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sadies-divorced-and-happy/id1546035678?uo=4

FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sadiesdivorcedandhappy

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:11] More about Sadie Marie and sex positivity

[7:51] How her podcast came about

[9:29] What is ethical non-monogamy

[12:12] The difference between ENM and polyamory

[14:19] What happens when you decide to go back to monogamy

[14:30] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[17:36] Doing coaching on ENM

[20:41] On investing in herself more

[23:24] How to start practicing ENM and let people know

[28:04] All about Divorced and Happy Podcast

[29:33] Sadie's nugget of insight