Doing Relationships Right

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

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Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:25] What makes a woman sexy?

[1:55] The amount of makeup on her face

[2:47] Her drive, motivation, and grit

[3:59] She loves the skin she's in

[5:14] She doesn't take herself seriously

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[7:19] She can carry a conversation, is street smart, and book smart

[8:27] She owns the room

[12:48] Outro

So you got divorced. And now what? Not sure where to start or what to do?

Well, this could be the opportunity to redesign your life. Figure out your new relationship dynamics, focus on your personal growth - everything for a fresh start!

I've called Rob Roseman to join me today to talk about life after divorce, what you should do next, and why you should head on to WTFDivorce.com for comprehensive advice from experts about emotional and personal growth, cultivating new friendships, to sex and dating after divorce.

Rob Roseman is a notorious TV game show contestant, Chicago Merc futures trader, Vegas poker pro, Entrepreneur, and Dad. When he left his professional poker-playing profession, he didn't know what he was going to do with himself, so he decided to start a podcast. He started interviewing his friends and neighbors about being a dad and got more prominent guests like Jessie Itzler and Pat Flynn. He then decided he was getting so much good advice and tips; he decided to take the quotes and nuggets and put them in a book to share with other dads. He learned to self-publish, and now his book Dad The Best I can is on Amazon and is also the name of his podcast.

Find more about Rob at:

Web: https://wtfdivorce.com/

WTF Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wtf-divorce/id1592952913

Personal web: https://dadthebestican.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rob-roseman/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/dadthebestican/

YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu6xNpbzGLVu116E2aXcsyw

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:10] What is WTFDivorce.com about?

[5:15] More about Rob Roseman

[10:36] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[12:36] People should rely on experts

[15:04] You don't know what you don't know

[18:12] Reach out to Rob and subscribe to his newsletter

Are you or someone you know going through a divorce? Or just got divorced, perhaps?

Not sure whether to do co-parenting or parallel parenting?

How about the struggle to keep boundaries between you and your ex?

If you relate to any one of the above, this episode is for you! I've invited Divorce Coach Ashley Wood to discuss the many essential points of life after or during a divorce, whether it's about the kids or when a new partner comes along.

Ashley became a Certified Divorce Coach to be able to help others who find themselves where she was. Through supportive guidance and coaching, she provides you with the structure and resources you need to take back control, ensure your children's safety and well-being, and move through the divorce process in a more efficient, healthier, and less expensive way.

She has made it her mission to help you reach the other side of your divorce a stronger, more confident, and authentic version of yourself.

Find more about Ashley at:

Website: https://www.ashleywooddivorcecoach.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/theconsciouscoparent

IG: https://instagram.com/wix

YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2JrcerifCghVfKZtHudkMg

Split. The After Ever After Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/split-the-after-ever-after-podcast/id1539553779

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[0:00] Intro

[3:42] Who is Ashley Wood?

[4:43] Co-parenting with confidence

[6:23] What is the difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting?

[9:52] Conflict on parenting

[12:27] On setting boundaries

[21:37] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[22:43] How to approach when the other party does not keep boundaries

[29:18] When the kids meet the new partner and how to handle their reaction

[39:08] Ashley's Total Divorce Care program

[40:28] Split. The After Ever After Podcast

[41:53] Outro

I'm excited about today's episode because this is a controversial topic, but one that's very important to discuss- false labels and diagnoses.

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:45] Labeling someone as a narcissist — stop it!

[3:41] Very few are clinically diagnosed with this personality disorder

[5:45] Build a healthy, romantic relationship with your partner and keep your bond strong. Check out promescent.com for all your sexual wellness needs!

[7:07] NEVER ever throw someone's disorder back at them when you're fighting

[8:22] Gaslighting is the worst, but it doesn't mean they are a narcissist

Is it really possible to have a happy relationship? Is it possible to be in a relationship that's free from toxicity, resentment, and unbearable sex?

The answer is YES, YES, YES!

In this episode, we talk to the author of AMAZON'S #1 NEW RELEASE IN SEXUAL HEALTH, Wendy Miller. We dive deeper into what it really takes to make a guy happy, when exactly should we teach kids about sex, sex toys, and sex after having kids, just to name a few.

Wendy Miller is ACS Certified Sexologist, Relationship Expert, Author, Emmy Award-winning TV producer, and host of the hit podcast Sex Ed The Musical. Wendy draws on years of experience producing premium, sex-positive programming and being a trusted voice for women who realize they've probably deprived themselves of a lot of pleasure. In her research, Wendy discovered that having a happy and healthy relationship is a lot easier than most people think. Spending years studying successful couples and creating an entirely new genre of sex-positive programming that's been profiled in numerous national outlets.

To find more on Wendy and hire her visit her website: https://www.thewendymiller.com/

Grab a copy of her book: 3 Secrets To The Happy and Healthy Relationship You've Always F*cking Wanted - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1737572303/

Check out Sex Ed The Musical Podcast https://www.sexedthemusical.com/podcast

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:46] Who is Wendy, what does she do, and all that happy jazz?

[4:31] What it takes to make a guy happy

[9:44] On slut-shaming women

[12:47] Teaching kids by being sex-positive at school

[15:34] 3 Secrets To The Happy & Healthy Relationship You've Always F*cking Wanted

[16:02] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[17:04] Equating food and sex

[18:49] Sex-shaming in marriage

[20:30] Introducing sex toys in a relationship and the conversation beforehand

[26:00] Intimacy after having kids

[27:51] Where to find Wendy?

Dating can be both stressful and frustrating...but no worries, that's why I'm here!

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:20] Dating is a scary thing at ANY age

[4:30] You have to trust yourself

[7:08] Dating apps

[8:36] Try with all your heart to be positive

[10:17] Be who you are

[11:53] Have a strong bio but don't share too much

[14:16] Be confident

Is your spouse a financial bully?

Does your partner require you to tell them about all of your purchases?

Do they ever threaten to cut you off from the money or discourage you from furthering your career or making more money?

Do they make poor decisions involving your credit, causing harm to your credit score?

If you answered YES to any of the above, then this episode is a MUST listen. I've brought back one of my favorite attorneys/ CDFA, Lisa Zeiderman, to give us her insight on the topic of financial bullies and how to spot them.

Lisa Zeiderman is Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP. A Matrimonial Attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, she regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters for high net worth individuals. She also authors a well-read blog on Psychology Today called "Legal Matters," covering the intersection of mental health, divorce, and child custody. Named a 2019 10 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, Ms. Zeiderman is also a founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators and a member of the panel for Attorneys for Children.

To find more on Lisa and to hire her in the NY area: LISA ZEIDERMAN WEBSITE

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:44] Who is Lisa Zeiderman?

[2:29] What is financial bullying, and how does it start?

[9:58] What can you do when it starts happening?

[12:18] Reassessing your relationship with your spouse

[15:29] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[16:33] It goes on undetected

[18:33] Prenups and postnups

[21:47] Savvy Ladies and the importance of financial literacy

[24:47] Asking for a prenup

[26:45] Financial abuse is still abuse

[29:16] Red flag: When account statements do not come home

[29:53] Red flag: When you're unable to access accounts, and there are large amount transfers

Breakups are NEVER easy. Never.

Let Jennifer give you some tips on how to get over a breakup...and FAST!

Yup- you guessed it! 😉

It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤

And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!

And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

Happy Listening and DATING! 💕

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:01] Why don't we get over breakups when we should?

[3:38] Do we need closure?

[4:15] You should be someone's number ONE

[4:41] You haven't learned to let go yet

[6:03] Be with someone else

[9:02] Here's my advice on moving on

How are your relationships with your KIDS?

On Doing Relationships Right podcast, we speak about ALL kinds of relationships, y'all! So why not the MOST significant (IMHO)?

The one you have with your children? Yes!! Let's do it!

This episode brings back one of my most popular guests, Josephine Atluri, to talk about how to stay patient, present, and CONNECTED while parenting! We address Mindfulness, patience, and how to remain engaged when things get hectic and overwhelming.

I love talking with Jo and always feel so grounded during our conversations; she validates my feelings and is empathetic to my parenting woes. You will indeed find such value in this discussion.

And y'all need to grab her new book, Mindfulness Matters: A Journal for Parents on Amazon. The link is below. Thank you, Jo, for making me feel better about my parenting skills and for coming back on Doing Relationships Right!!

Her new book Mindfulness Matters a Journal for Parents: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/164876469X/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i0

Jo's website

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:03] Welcome back, Josephine!!! So what's new...

[6:19] Her tips and tools

[7:47] Mindfulness for parents

[10:46] Her advice for impulsive moms

[14:34] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[15:36] Her thoughts on timeouts for parents

[17:32] Mindfulness with your child

[23:42] Josephine's podcast: Responding To Life: Talking Health, Fertility & Parenthood

Some dating and relationship coaches think it's the way to get a guy....by playing games and acting "coy" or uninterested.

Well, not THIS coach!

I think it's one of the biggest mistakes you can make when you're dating and even later on when you're into a relationship.

Playing games is NEVER a good idea.

This episode is all about transparency and honesty, being upfront, and asking for what you want in a relationship.

I hope you find it helpful and valuable in your dating endeavors...I'd love to hear your thoughts! Join my Doing Relationships Right Private FB group, where we discuss each podcast and share personal stories.

xo j

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:34] Do I have to share my feelings on a date?

[3:38] Be honest

[4:34] You can't scare away the right person

[5:33] Date until it doesn't work anymore