Doing Relationships Right

One of MY favorite people in the WORLD!

Dr. Peter Lynn joins me today all the way from Isreal...which is why I'm saying he's one of my most faves in the world, y'all!

If you've been a regular listener around here, then you might recognize Dr. Lynn's voice! As one of the best Marriage Counselors, I have had him on the show before- and trust me, he will be back again! With practical skills and tools to help relationships flourish and grow, Dr. Lynn is fantastic at what he does.

So, get a pen (or listen closely); this is an episode filled with nuggets of Important information you won't want to forget!

Since its inception, Dr. Peter Lynn has served as Dean of Students at the David Robinson Institute for Jewish Heritage. PETER LECTURES AT TOURO COLLEGE IN JERUSALEM, an MA in Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) from the University of Pennsylvania and a PsyD in Human and Organizational Psychology.

He is also the Founder and Director of Greatness Within Seminars, where he helps empower individuals and organizations through the application of Positive Psychology. An accomplished athlete and Ironman finisher, Peter was captain of the U.S. World Duathlon Team. Peter lives in Jerusalem with his family.

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Show notes:

[2:47] Marriages are built; they do not just happen

[5:58] Work on your marriage, but it's different if it's an abusive relationship

[6:38] When is the perfect time to do coaching?

[10:05] What do you do if your partner doesn't want to do the work?

[13:13] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[15:40] The weekend program Dr. Peter is offering

[19:58] The fundamentals to communication

[25:32] Where to find Dr. Peter?

I've done my fair share of online dating, my friends.

Ok, let's be honest...if you've read my blog, The Truth Hurvitz, you know I've dated MORE THAN my fair share! Ha.

So, I've taken my past (horrific) experiences and research...to create a program to help you Do Dating Right! This episode is a micro-version that will touch on one aspect of dating- How to be SAFE on those Dating Apps!

Hope you find it helpful and if you need more coaching you know I'm literally a phone call away.

xo j

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Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:15] Dating apps 101

[3:16] BIG RED flags

[7:20] Things you need to do or assess before meeting them in person

[10:55] An exit strategy

[12:27] Join us for the 2021 Mrs2Me SUMMIT on October 22-24, 2021. Grab your ticket here: https://mydivorcesolution.com/mrs2me-summit-2021/

This one wasn't easy, not going to lie.

Ever asked your kid a bunch of questions you didn't really want the answers to?

Ya, well, try that on a podcast with over 150K people listening. Ha.

But boy did he surprise me.

Zac was incredibly mature; self-aware and empathetic, he spoke with such conviction. I had a difficult time composing myself at times during the interview.

Zac amazed me...so brave.

So smart.

This is an important discussion that no parent should miss--even if you're not divorced. Kids say the darndest things when you ask them to be honest. When you give them the space to be authentic and when they feel secure.

I've never been more proud of my kid.

Please share this episode with anyone you know going through, thinking about, or on the other side of a divorce. It's an important and necessary conversation to hear.

xo j

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Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

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You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[3:42] Remembering how his parents told him about the divorce and how he felt about it

[7:25] What Jennifer thinks she did wrong

[9:22] The nesting experience

[12:22] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[13:26] What Zac thinks about his parent's friendship

[16:15] Would Zac choose for his parents to stay married and unhappy, or divorced but happy

[21:26] What does Zac think about parents staying together until the kids go to college

[24:45] Outro

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[2:36] A reminder from Dad

[4:05] Honesty

[4:49] Chivalry

[5:54] Caring

[6:32] Understanding

[6:56] Genuine

[7:29] Sense of humor

[8:20] Paternal instinct

[9:20] Dependable

[10:49] Equality

[11:40] This one's for you, Jim!

[13:36] Outro

Here we go…it's the FIRST NEW GUEST of the 2021 Season!

Do you love reality TV as much as I do?

Ever wonder if the STARS of these hit shows can actually have solid relationships post-production?

Is what you see on TV the "real thing"?

Then you will FLIP out when you hear this episode with my guest, Reality TV Queen, Erin Hill! She's not only one of the best podcasters around, but she interviews some of the BIGGEST stars from your favorite shows: The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, FBOY Island, Love is Blind and so many more!

Giving us the behind-the-scenes scoop on the stuff we might otherwise miss! Erin is the host of Bach After Dark Podcast, Get'n Cozy with Erin, Tub Talks with Erin Hill, and a Dating and Relationship Coach. How lucky am I to have her on Doing Relationships Right?

This conversation is filled with the scoop, so don't miss it! Thank you, Erin, for stepping away from your mic (and beautiful family) to spend some time with me here on DRR!

Where to find ERIN HILL:

https://www.instagram.com/getncozywitherin/

Get'n Cozy with Erin Podcast https://tasteofreality.com/category/getn-cozy-podcast/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bach-after-dark/id1572717342?i=1000528565698

Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[3:10] How everything started for Erin Hill

[5:49] Erin's career journey

[6:46] The Bachelor Presents: Listen to Your Heart

[10:09] Psychologist in the show -- is there one?

[12:33] Diving deeper into Back After Dark

[15:03] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[17:30] What Erin said to her husband on their first date?

[23:37] FBoy Island Social reaching out to Erin

[26:39] How can Erin do everything that she does?

[27:17] Where is the best place to reach out to Erin?

Welcome BACK, y'all!!!

It's a BRAND new season here on Doing Relationships Right podcast and I am THRILLED to have you! Summer flew by; my kids are both back in school...and I missed you!

Looking forward to an AWESOME SEASON filled with incredible guests and a Just Jen episode EVERY Friday!

Thank you for joining me!

And I'd LOVE to thank my sponsor SOBERLINK! Check out our collaboration here it's a FREEBIE for all my listeners!

Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:21] Weekly episodes update: I'm totally back!

[3:16] Merchandise alert and where to find it

[5:11] The podcast has a video version, make sure to check out my TikTok and Youtube channel

Jess O'Reilly (@SexWithDrJess) is a sex and relationship expert with a background in education. Her research and passion involves teacher training in sexual health and she volunteers in schools and universities to help bring better sex & relationship education to students across Ontario. Jess is also a television personality, author, podcast host (@SexWithDrJess Podcast) and international speaker who has facilitated hundreds of corporate workshops and retreats in 35 countries from Lebanon to Costa Rica.

Today we're chatting about:

• The theory behind erotic relationships.
• Knowing your seduction learning style.
• How to tend to your "Core Erotic Feeling"

Connect with Dr. Jess:

• Website: sexwithdrjess.com
• Podcast: https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/podcast-2/
• happiercouples.com
• twitter.com/sexwithdrjess
• https://www.facebook.com/sexwithdrjess
• https://www.instagram.com/sexwithdrjess/
• Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Jessica-OReilly/e/B009LQRI8G

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Is there a link between sex and happiness?

Does having MORE sex with your partner mean you are guaranteed a more loving marriage?

If you are having "intimacy" issues in your marriage, does that mean you're doomed for failure?

I LOVE this topic!

And I am thrilled about this conversation with the brilliant, Randi Levinson. Randi is a Couples Therapist and Certified Clinical Sexologist. She helps couples find a deeper, more meaningful connection; better communication, and better more fulfilling sexual experiences. Randi considers herself to be beyond lucky to have studied with the best therapists in the world. She has been trained by Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs. Ester Perel is one of the many therapists that has given Randi invaluable guidance in her work with couples.

We will discuss how aging, loss of desire, loss of desire for your partner, resentment build up, disconnecting fights, contempt, boredom, defensiveness, stonewalling, and criticism play into how we move away or 'grow apart' from our partners. All this and more, today on Doing Relationships Right.

Highlights:

• The importance of seeing a Sexologist before Marriage
• Embarrassment over Sexual Issues
• Importance of Communication During Sex
• Is Masturbation Important?
• Is Porn Addicting?
• Is there a Link between SEX and Happiness?

Where to find Randi:

Website: http://www.randilevinson.com/

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Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Watch the episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Show notes:

[1:35] How Randi started her journey

[3:34] Do we recommend talking to a sexologist before getting married?

[7:10] Embarrassment over sex priority and incompatibility in sex desire

[11:37] The importance of communication in sex

[14:57] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/)

[17:19] Put your spouse first

[18:00] Exercise your vulva and sex toys

[23:33] Evolutionarily speaking, women can find pleasure whenever she wants to

[25:29] How much sex can sustain a happy marriage?

[27:23] Stop and turn towards your partner instead of the other way around

[29:15] Where can you find Randi?

Sociologist and intimacy coach, Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, is a national speaker on couples intimacy, sexual consent, women's empowerment, gender communication, erotic play, and mindful sex. She has presented two TEDx Talks, is the co-host of the podcast Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc, and her first book, From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women, was just published. Dr. Jenn has over 1.5 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn YouTube video series, and is an expert in the documentary on masturbation, called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story.

Today we're chatting about:

• Why our society raises women with negative messages around our bodies and sex.
• How sexual attraction and passion changes in a relationship.
• Why it's important to talk about issues first come up, instead of waiting.

Connect with Dr. Jen:

https://www.drjennsden.com

https://twitter.com/drjennsden

https://www.instagram.com/drjennsden/?hl=en

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXGhEDhetWqB20fBvGSqgGA

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.

Dr. Juliana is the "girl next door" (with a PhD) -- she's always up for a down and dirty conversation about sexuality and intimacy. As a credentialed therapist, academic, and a bonafide (S)expert, Dr. Juliana has spent decades counseling and supporting thousands of individuals on their paths to discover and own their sexual agency. Having traversed her own journey through love, loss, motherhood, and the world of academics, Dr. Juliana has come to understand that ownership over one's own sexuality is at the foundation of every strong confident person. She has developed a clear, action-driven method to help people of all backgrounds discover their own power through sexual exploration, and has created an online community where they can stay connected as they transform their lives. Her website is www. dr-juliana.com.

Today we're chatting about:

• Why it is important to be honest about your sexual journey.
• Being comfortable with your sexuality.
• Knowing your own Sex Love Language and why type of person you are sexually.
• How to know the warning signs in a relationship.
• Using your sexuality to help you in all areas of your life.

Connect with Dr. Juliana:

• Website: dr-juliana.com
• https://twitter.com/drjulianamorris
• http://dr-juliana.com/the-wanting/
• http://dr-juliana.com/be-your-own-sexpert/

Here's the link to get started: DOING DATING RIGHT VIDEO COURSE!

Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast

Where to find me:

Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/

Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.